[/quote] I think that “extent” is the right way to put it.
If you were skinny at one point in your life like me (150lbs at 6’) then you are always going to have some issues even though I am 215-220 at 6’ now.
When people say I am getting bigger I just don’t see it, even though the scale and my clothes say I am.
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That’s exactly what I mean. I was 156 lbs at 6’1" when I was 18. HUGE complex! 171 lbs at 23 years old when I played football (briefly). 181 lbs at 27 years of age for first boxing match. People who haven’t seen me since my 170-180 days trip when they see me now. I KNOW I am much bigger, but still FEEL small. Know wha I mean?