That’s awesome
Manipulating?
Sounds unethical
That’s the impression I get from my own observation of their non ending quest to track everyone on the internet, and her not posting private information on FB. Combined with the aim of creating an addiction to social media, I would agree with your assessment.
@Beyond_Beyond
I thought you’d get a kick out of this meme my friend sent me today.
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[quote=“BrickHead, post:150, topic:275230”]
One in three young men can’t even get a woman—meaning they’re incels—let alone marry.[/quote]
Minor nitpick but that doesn’t make the whole lot of them incels. Not everyone who hasn’t had sex in the last year wants to do so. Plus the typical characteristics of incels like blaming woman and rampant sexism, racism, etc aren’t going to apply to every dude who didn’t get laid in a year.
Though I do find the sexism in painting this stuff as a woman problem not a man problem always cracks me up. As if women should just be fucking men even if the man is an awful person and sits on his ass all day spewing hate and has no attractive qualities. We’re so hypocritical about the situation as well. First we say women shouldn’t have multiple partners, but typically don’t give a shit if men do. Now when also saying they aren’t opening the legs enough because look at all these poor guys who can’t get laid.
We should also keep in mind that some people in committed relationships and marriage aren’t having sex. I was pretty shocked to find out that one of my wife’s friends a few years ago was in a committed relationship of like three years and she said they were at a point where they weren’t having sex. Didn’t make much sense both in the 26-29 age range, no kids, etc. Life circumstances can also change things a lot. I’m fortunate in that my wife is almost always down to go and we have a great sex life and always have. But even we have had to take steps to make sure this is happening from time to time. Like during Covid when I was starting to work almost all the time as one of the few people able to go around kids.
Please note I’m not saying you are making these comments just quoted you about the incel part.
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And that’s why we have prostitutes.
Come now, there are plenty of women that marry men they are physically not attracted to(maybe even repulsed by). In spite of this a hefty bank balance in many woman’s minds makes an “uggo” very appealing.
Societies, and communities that still have arranged marriages are also generally still very patriarchal and less subject to the vicissitudes of the sexual revolution. Promiscuity is heavily punished.
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My parent’s have been married for half a century. Last time they had sex was when I was conceived 30 years ago.
And you know that how, 
Note how she doesn’t consider how her company will be perceived by the man. Too many people worry about what others have to offer because they have nothing to offer. In this woman’s case, no one is competing with other suitors but with her narcissism. The fact she would think that, let alone Tweet it, tells you why she is alone.
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The beta orbiters are waiting it out against tens of thousands of years of biological imperative. I respect their resolve
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They RARELY say what they bring to the table. Its typically a laundry list of “must be / have”… I just play the disinterested role. Works like a charm.
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I prefer a civilization with all its problems, norms, standards, and pressures over a degenerate and pathological hellscape.
There is no Utopia.
Thanks for the post. I can’t comment at length this weekend (at a beach house with extended fam) but I might during the week.
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The responses to this are astounding:
- “Why isn’t she worried about how she’s perceived by a man?” First, this assumes she’s dating men, which she didn’t really specify. Second, she’s talking about people who have voluntarily made the choice to date her. They’ve clearly self-selected into her dating pool, which means they have at least some interest in her, so the assertion that she needs to be more concerned about what she has to offer is silly. If you don’t think she has something to offer then her comments don’t apply to you.
- “She’s alone, which is fucked up”. She’s made it clear that she’s ok being alone - so what’s wrong with it? Why isn’t it ok for her to be alone if that’s what she so chooses? If a guy were to say he preferred being alone because psycho women drove him crazy, how many of the same posters would have an issue with that? Or is it all part of the same set of double standards that @H_factor alluded to above?
- Lastly, what’s so crazy about what she asked for? Safety, joy, peace, growth? What an entitled see-you-next-Tuesday type . . .
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Obviously. Just as no one forced her to date them.
If she is ok with it, then why tell everyone? And why is she dating if she is all the company she needs? Is it to see what she can get out of others?
Because she asked for the very same things she gets from herself.
I agree with what you’ve said but this
in particular hits the nail on the head for me.
As a straight woman, I don’t believe it’s my job is to please men. I also don’t think it’s men’s job to please me. However, if I am to date someone, I filter them based on my requirements and expect that I will be filtered based on their requirements. It’s not a gender thing, it’s a human thing.
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Well - why people tweet any personal reflections of the sort is beyond me.
But I read her post like this: “I’d prefer to have a partner yet I’m also ok being alone. I don’t ask for much in a partner, but I’ll still choose to keep my own company over keeping it with someone who makes me feel sad, disrupted, or unsafe”. She didn’t reference seven-figure salaries or model good looks. I fail to see what’s so controversial. Again, if I guy said the same thing I question whether or not most folks would think twice about it.
I don’t disagree. Money makes some women open their legs whether they are attracted to the guy or not. Staple of prostitutes since the beginning of time. These one’s are just buying a lifestyle.
Not to many men could do the same, and marry a woman a woman they weren’t physically attracted to just for money. They are out there but they are few and far between, in comparison to women.
I don’t think many couples in long term relationships are having sex with each other.
Attraction lessens in most cases, so does frequency for those that still do. Add in hormonal changes due to age.
You find couples where both people are objectively beautiful, but have over time lost interest in sex, with each other(not with new people though).
Bill Gates will have no trouble finding a new partner.
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