[quote]Miss Parker wrote:
I get so excited when a big guy braces himself & I can still strike him hard enough to push him back![/quote]
Most of the guys in my class are used to me now and are ready for it. By the same token, they also know I’ll take as good as I give and will let fly with me. Obviously, they have to hold back to some degree or some of them would crush me like a bug.
I think I’ve only had to ask one guy to take it down a notch. I watched him walk in with a giant cup of coffee and he’s a bit “speedy” to begin with.
He’s 6’3’, 215# and when I got paired with him I thought to myself, “Oh, oh!” We were doing kick drills and the fist few kicks he threw damn near launched me across the gym. I felt like a cartoon character!
When I asked him to back it off a bit I could tell the light was on but nobody was home. He launched me again and I was like, “YO! Lighten up!” He kinda shook his head, his eyes came back into focus and he apologized. Sheesh. I’m almost half his bodyweight for crying out loud! Nice guy, just a wee bit intense.
I don’t giggle when I spar with the guys. Nope. When I spar with the other female, yes, sometimes we’ll laugh at some of the stupid stuff we do. But I laugh a lot less often now. I’m not as nervous or self-conscious as I was when I first started.
Sometimes I just forget to keep my hands up. Not tired, just plain old stupid concentrating-on-something-else so hard that I foget. Duh.
And I never apologize unless I’m sparring with someone with less experience who doesn’t have their defense skills up and running for them yet. I took a hard teep from a much taller opponent that caught me right between the boobs.
He didn’t apologize and I didn’t expect him to, either. Shit happens. My job is to keep going like it didn’t. So … If I accidently nail one of the guys in the nuts am I suppose to feel bad, stop and apologize?
Much better for me when we mix it up. I don’t mind sparring with the other female, but it’s not nearly as challenging when I do. Fun, but I don’t walk away knowing I’ve really been tested. Course, that’s probably how most the guys feel when they have to spar with me.
One of my goals is to make sure that changes.
Cappy