Yes.
Sure. Low self esteem. History of abuse. Father figure with similar personality traits. Stuck in a hard situation (recent divorce or dead husband with children they are struggling to care for). Abandonment issues. Not to say that there arenāt perfectly functional women who end up with these men, but as a general rule.
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Dang it. I said I was gonna stay out of this thread. Iām failing miserably.
Those losers are irresistible to most women
Guess Iām just not most women.
Good ! Itās embarrassing
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Lol.
I understand. And thatās true for some, maybe most. However when Iāve mentioned this topic, my premise has been that such men get an inordinate amount of women, that they are chic magnets. So I assume that in some cases it has nothing to do with whatās mentioned, but rather sexual stimulation, power, and social status from such men. Is that a far-out thought?
As I said many posts and weeks ago, when I went down memory lane and told a female former classmate (who actually liked me, but I didnāt know it at the time), āYou women were owned by (insert gang name),ā to which she replied, āI donāt deny thatā.
Some of these women were treated like shit and embarrassed. Some donāt know that I was exposed to videos and photos of them in circulation by these scumbags pre internet. Kinda weird right?
Again, I donāt āblameā these women for this. I mean, in that lower middle class setting, did they have much of a choice: weak, unsure, or nerdy young men versus strong low lives and criminals?
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Think Iāll join a gang now
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You should. You have mad fighting skills.
I have to go work. Iāll come back to this.
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*Bad fighting skills
Thatās not the word on the street.
I do see your point. I do suppose that a man who is attractive, has confidence and has what appears to be the ability to ātake careā of a woman would be more attractive to women. So yeah, maybe they do get laid more. However, I also believe that the type of woman that you are talking about plays a role. There are women who are specifically looking for a manās man who looks the part and will provide a certain kind of life. Those are the women who will pursue a man like that. Women who are looking for a good partner arenāt necessarily interested in that kind of man. Also, I donāt put too much stock in the views of a man from the perspective of a teenage girl. Speaking as a former teenage girl, we are dumb. You have nothing else to go on except, he is hot. I believe this is the same with teenage boys. Very few are looking at the less attractive girls thinking they would probably make good wives. They look at the hot girl and wish they could get her.
Also I donāt think you have enough life experience to know where you sit on the attractive scale. For the person of average means, people tend to end up with people of a similar level of attractive. 9s marry 9s 8s marry 8s etc. As you get a bit older, you figure out where you are and find a mate that matches you. This is completely blown out of the water when you add someone with exorbitant amounts of money. That changes the scale in their favor.
This does change things as well. The lower your socioeconomic status, typically the less options you have.
Of course, this is coming from a 47 year old woman looking back. Perhaps my perspective now gives me different insight than had you asked me when I was 22.
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This is why I have said in the past that I donāt think it is a good idea to marry too young.
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@BrickHead not sure if that answered the question you asked. But Iām at work typing between patients. 
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It did. Thank you.
Itās a stupid term. I wish people would stop.
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It really is
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