[quote]cueball wrote:
[quote]BlakeAJackson wrote:
Man A is 40lbs over weight and never competed. He starts to spout off all the information that he learned from Google about contest dieting. Do you get out your pen and pencil and start taking notes for your next show prep?
Man B has coached several people in competitions and has many people who have placed well. He himself has competed and knows what it is like prepping for a show. He provides you with a diet plan.
Who’s plan are you more likely to ignore? The plan that man A provided may be spot on, but by virtue of no experience and general appearance I will chose to ignore all advice and find a different source that I can verify. Does this make me an elitist? [/quote]
But this really isn’t about who’s advice you would take though.
Look at the key words in the OP-
“all of the bigger or more developed guys”
“smaller or less developed”
All the good attributes have been bestowed upon the first group while the second group has received the negative attributes. Why is that? We’ve seen it before for sure.
Are there big developed guys in the gym that are dicks with attitudes? Sure. Just like some small under developed guys are the same way.
Are there smaller less developed guys at the gym that are serious and goal driven that behave how the “big” guys in the OP were described? Sure are.
And what about this sentence: "There is a whole new breed of gym goer who has no clue about gym ettiquette and some even seem to dispise those who worked to stand out from the norm. " Do we really see small dudes in the gym that ACTUALLY despise big guys? Really? C’mon. This sentence right here seals it for me as to what the OP was really about.
And the last sentence “How do we maintain that camaraderie in a public forum when it comes so easily face to face…and is lost so quickly once behind a computer screen?” Apparently according to the OP, both types of people exist in the gym as well as the internet. So why ask specifically about those on the internet?
Thinly veiled attempt with enough back-pedaling built in for deniability. At least that’s how I see it. Just more of the same, different thread.[/quote]
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If PX actually had any interest in maintaining a sense of camaraderie around here he could start by not being a jerk to anyone that dares to disagree with him.
As crazy as it sounds, simply being civil goes a long way.
