Masculine Excellence Requires Discipline

Shave off that muff and they will really pop!!! :joy:

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My wife and daughter keep telling me I need to shave my legs.

I’ve been telling them that I’ll shave mine when they shave theirs.

My daughter basically doesn’t have body hair yet and my wife shaves regularly.
Neither appreciate that comment :joy:

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Real man don’t shave their legs…nor their luxurious tash

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Wanted to lift but too drained to be productive. Sleep has been poor last 2 nights.

Cardio (fasted)
LISS 30mins

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Fatigue brother… gotta real it in volume wise

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Pull
Wednesday, Nov 13, 2024 at 9:07pm

Lat Pulldown (Cable)
“2xFail
3010”
Set 1: 170 lbs x 16 [Failure]
Set 2: 170 lbs x 9 [Failure]

Bicep Curl (Cable)
“Top set, backdown
3010”
Set 1: 140 lbs x 13 [Failure]
Set 2: 120 lbs x 10 [Failure]

Shrug (Smith Machine)
“Top set, backdown
Yeet”
Set 1: 365 lbs x 14 [Failure]
Set 2: 275 lbs x 18 [Failure]

T Bar Row
“2xFail
3010”
Set 1: 90 lbs x 16 [Failure]
Set 2: 90 lbs x 14 [Failure]

Lying Leg Curl (Machine)

@hevyapp

Sleep is going to be abysmal tonight as I’m not getting home until 6 or 7am… 3-4 hours after my scheduled snoozerinos.
I’ve ordered 5-HTP to help get my sleep back on track… was putting that off for far too long.

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Push
Thursday, Nov 14, 2024 at 4:05pm

Shoulder Press (Machine Plates)
“Top set, backdown
3010”
Set 1: 275 lbs x 15 [Failure]
Set 2: 225 lbs x 16 [Failure]

Incline Flye Press
“2xFail
3010”
Set 1: 50 lbs x 16 [Failure]
Set 2: 40 lbs x 14 [Failure]

Lateral Raise (Machine)
“Pump set, Rest-Pause
3010”
Set 1: 95 lbs x 19
Set 2: 155 lbs x 13 [Failure]
Set 3: 155 lbs x 4 [Failure]
Set 4: 155 lbs x 2 [Failure]

Triceps Rope Pushdown
“Top set, Backdown (high rep)
3010”
Set 1: 80 lbs x 21 [Failure]
Set 2: 60 lbs x 16 [Failure]

Leg Extension (Machine)
“Top set (6-12), Backdown (12-20)”
Set 1: 250 lbs x 14 [Failure]
Set 2: 150 lbs x 12 [Failure]

Hip Abduction (Machine)
“1xFail
3010”
Set 1: 175 lbs x 18

@hevyapp

+15mins LISS

Got 5 solid hours last night. I’ll take it.

You know how there’s always that one retarded wheel on the shopping cart that just doesn’t know what it’s doing? That was both of my legs on the treadmill.

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Pull
Friday, Nov 15, 2024 at 4:35pm

Lat Pulldown (Cable)
“Top set, backdown
3010”
Set 1: 190 lbs x 14 [Failure]
Set 2: 170 lbs x 13 [Failure]

EZ Bar Biceps Curl
“Fat Gripz, 2xFail
3010”
Set 1: 75 lbs x 16 [Failure]
Set 2: 75 lbs x 11 [Failure]

Seated Cable Row - V Grip (Cable)
“Top set, backdown
3010”
Set 1: 210 lbs x 12 [Failure]
Set 2: 170 lbs x 11 [Failure]

Upright Row (Barbell)
“2xFail”
Set 1: 70 lbs x 17 [Failure]
Set 2: 70 lbs x 12 [Failure]

Seated Leg Curl (Machine)
“Recovering strength (2-3 RIR)
Unilateral, Setting reps with weak side (L)”
Set 1: 85 lbs x 13
Set 2: 85 lbs x 12

@hevyapp

+15mins LISS

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This made me lol. Best analogy ever.

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I bet there’s probably some super niche technician job out there where some old bastard repairs shopping carts.

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Saturday - off (planned)
Sunday - off (unavoidable)

I’ll use this as an opportunity to be accountable when i didnt want to be. I need it.

Wife has been out of town for last 3-4 days and I’ve been solo parenting. Not too difficult tbh, but i used this as an excuse to go off diet Friday. Was over target by 400cals. It was healthy food but that’s irrelevant.

I was supposed to follow up with coach today and I didn’t because i let the scale get to my head. I know it’s a flawed metric, but i keep letting it get to me.

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So much this. I know the mirror and belt is a way better metric, but the endorphin rush, or crash, from that instant scale number is annoyingly addicting.

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Meant to post this yesterday but got sidetracked with a crazy schedule.
Week 9 Update

Weight Avg: 209.1 (up from 206.4 Week 7)
3pt Skinfold: 5.9 (down from 6.5 Week 7)

Day Weight Cals Pro Carbs Fat Train Steps Cardio Sleep
Goal 225 200 40 - 10,000 125 cum. >7.0
Avg 209.1 2039 225 203 30 90 cum. 6.3

IDK what’s going on with the scale.

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Fuck the scale!! Your moving in the right direction!

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Seriously. 5lbs ago i had 0 abs.

Thing lies like a dog in the sun.

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Push
Tuesday, Nov 19, 2024 at 2:03pm

Incline Flye Press
“Low incline, Top Set, Backdown
3010”
Set 1: 60 lbs x 15 [Failure]
Set 2: 45 lbs x 13 [Failure]

Shoulder Press (Machine Plates)
Set 1: 275 lbs x 15 [Failure]
Set 2: 225 lbs x 12 [Failure]

Hip Abduction (Machine)
“1xFail
3010”
Set 1: 175 lbs x 22

Triceps Rope Pushdown
“Top set, Backdown”
Set 1: 110 lbs x 15 [Failure]
Set 2: 80 lbs x 13 [Failure]

Lateral Raise (Machine)
Set 1: 95 lbs x 20
Set 2: 140 lbs x 15 [Failure]
Set 3: 140 lbs x 6 [Failure]
Set 4: 140 lbs x 4 [Failure]

Leg Extension (Machine)

@hevyapp

+25mins LISS

Shoulders did not appreciate the order for this one.
Small performance drop in Shoulder Press for backdown set, otherwise this was a productive session.

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Was just scrolling your log and found some really good/helpful stuff in there. This one really stuck out to me. Have been going through a rough patch with my wife. Things aren’t horrible, but our dynamic has been off. Long story short, I began having insecurities, about myself mainly, which are unwarranted. It threw me into a negative mindset tailspin, needing reassurance from my wife, which she couldn’t understand.

I began being “needy”, when she would come home and skip our normal “after work” kiss, i would ask why, or make similar comments.
I noticed that my neediness was turning her off, and bothering her. So I made a conscious effort the next day, to be slightly stand off-ish.. Not being rude, but essentially not kissing her ass… Instantly, she was all over me, coming over to me, kissing me, rubbing my back, being overly friendly. I couldn’t put my finger on why, but now i understand what I did, and what needs to be done. Interesting stuff..

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Unsolicited advice:

She’s your wife, not your mom… this is NOT her job.
Your mental stability is 100% your responsibility, and putting ANY of it on someone else does you both a disservice. Moreover, the neediness is one of the biggest turn offs in women.
Don’t ever do this to a woman you want to keep.

More unsolicited advice… read:
No More Mr. Nice guy
When I Say No I Feel Guilty
Married Man Sex Life Primer

Glad to hear some things made sense, and I’m happy to discuss anytime.

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I know this, 100%. I essentially skipped over the part of my story where I lost control of my thoughts, began having intrusive thoughts, basically a light psychosis to be honest. I did a 180 from the confident, strong man that i normally am. Luckily i have been with my wife for 18+ years and she knew this wasn’t who I am. I have already begun working on my issues and have made improvements, but still have a ways to go.

I know everything I have done in those few months was completely opposite of how i normally feel and act, and it definitely strained our relationship. Slowly getting back to normal. Anyway, i just thought that was interesting that you mentioned that. Which of those 3 books would you recommend the most, as i usually have to start with 1, otherwise i wont ever get to any of them.

Hard to tell without knowing more about you.

The first one is good for helping undo mental models that cause anger. This one requires a lot of introspection, practice, and time to be effective.

The second one is good for learning to establish boundaries. This one requires mostly practice and time.

The third one helps understand the misconceptions about male and female roles in society, sexual attraction, and the world as it is. Obviously, this one helps with things in the bedroom, but all 3 books have tools to help mold you into a more attractive person (sexually and otherwise).
This one mostly requires an open mind and practice.

Whichever of these you feel you are most deficient in, read that one. If you’re still not sure, read them in the order i listed… NMMNG > WISNIFG > MMSLP.

It should go without saying that taking the time to internalize these things is the only way for these books to work. I had to re-read some sections of NMMNG a couple times over the course of months to get things situated right.

These books are filled with the things that all fathers should be teaching their sons.

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