I’m 22 and I really shouldn’t be asking for advice of this sort, but I need it so I’m gonna swallow my pride and ask for it.
I’m a bit of a late bloomer when it comes to women and I’m very inexperienced.
I met this gorgeous girl at work and we got on straight away. We hung out once and it was great fun (probably should have made a move but I bottled it) she’s back at uni now and quite far away.
Shes been messsaging me on facebook and texting me loads and shes back down south for a few days and we have arranged to meet up.
I’m a virgin and don’t know where to start with seducing a girl, and to be honest I’m shitting myself about meeting up with her cause I think she is attracted to me but at the same time im really looking forward to it.
WTF should I do?!
Any suggestions on how to man up and chill the fuck out in this type of situation?
Any suggestions on how to man up and chill the fuck out in this type of situation?[/quote]
My suggestion is to a.) man up and b.) chill the fuck out.
Don’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Be yourself, and never deviate from this in any way in an attempt to impress her…she’ll see right through it. Genuinely try and listen to her, but have your own opinion…don’t just agree with whatever she says.
Go for dinner, go back to your place (or her place) to watch a movie, put your arm around her…then badda-bing, badda-boom…before you know it, you’ll be giving her the ol’ Cleveland Steamer…
Any suggestions on how to man up and chill the fuck out in this type of situation?[/quote]
My suggestion is to a.) man up and b.) chill the fuck out.
Don’t put the pussy on a pedestal. Be yourself, and never deviate from this in any way in an attempt to impress her…she’ll see right through it. Genuinely try and listen to her, but have your own opinion…don’t just agree with whatever she says.
Go for dinner, go back to your place (or her place) to watch a movie, put your arm around her…then badda-bing, badda-boom…before you know it, you’ll be giving her the ol’ Cleveland Steamer…[/quote]
This is basically good advice except for the stuff at the end.
You seem to be a funny guy pgtips, but don’t go all clowny with her. Use your humour sparingly.
If she even agrees to come back to your place or to wherever she’s staying that means she’s open to more. Feel confident. Heck, she’s agreeing to see you and is sending messages too right? No problem.
The actual logistics of how to begin are difficult to discuss because of so many variables. (God that felt silly to write something like that!) but you’ll have to make the first move…sitting on the sofa next to her or whatnot.
Then, after stuff quiets down you just start kissing her. She’ll likely push you away (well…they did in my day!) but you just nuzzle their neck and ear and they’ll let you right back up.
Pimp and Nards gave good advice. Just be yourself and be genuine. The dinner then rental+drinks thing sounds good and has worked for countless millions. Just have fun and see where it leads.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Maybe just ask her if she’s down to fuck? The easiest/fastest way that I got some was when a guy sent me a text that said “DTF??”
All this mushy neck nuzzling stuff sounds very awkward, Lol. [/quote]
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Maybe just ask her if she’s down to fuck? The easiest/fastest way that I got some was when a guy sent me a text that said “DTF??”
All this mushy neck nuzzling stuff sounds very awkward, Lol. [/quote]
Spock81 does remind me that the woman will also become more active once you get the ball rolling…you won’t have to do all the seducing yourself hopefully.
Invite her over and throw on Back to the Future and tell her there’s a rule in your house that every time the doc says “great scott” an article of clothing must be removed.
HA! That sounds so awesome, I wish someone would do that for me .