[quote]ahzaz wrote:
ukrainian wrote:
Wow, you way just a little more than me. But I have gotten the same thing. Like my dad says “Once they throw a punch, or even talk shit, kick their ass. I won’t care as long as you win.”
HAHA my dad says:
“If he hits you, KICK HIS ASS, if he talks shit, just talk shit. But if hes gay, and he tries touching you, KILL THAT MOTHERFUCKER”[/quote]
And homophobia for the win!
I like how we went from using “gay” as an insult to talking about killing homosexuals, all in the one thread.
You should tell your dad that being gay is ok, you won’t think any less of him, and try to create a safe, trusting environment so he can come out to you.
I mean, if he wasn’t a total closet case, why would he even care if a gay guy made a pass at him? If a totally ugly girl tried to grab you, would he suggest killing her, too?
God job . Don’t worry about if the girls don’t want you to fight they are full of shit. How many guys who let people talk shit about them with out fighting do you see screwing hot girls? 0
if this type of shit talking is going on an everyday basis I really think you gotta knock one of these fuckers out. that is if you can fight some what. The best thing to do is walk up to the ring leader and punch him right in the nose. dont say shit just unload a fury on him. hopefully he doesnt laugh at you and kick your ass!
[quote]Aleksandr wrote:
ahzaz wrote:
ukrainian wrote:
Wow, you way just a little more than me. But I have gotten the same thing. Like my dad says “Once they throw a punch, or even talk shit, kick their ass. I won’t care as long as you win.”
HAHA my dad says:
“If he hits you, KICK HIS ASS, if he talks shit, just talk shit. But if hes gay, and he tries touching you, KILL THAT MOTHERFUCKER”
And homophobia for the win!
I like how we went from using “gay” as an insult to talking about killing homosexuals, all in the one thread.
You should tell your dad that being gay is ok, you won’t think any less of him, and try to create a safe, trusting environment so he can come out to you.
I mean, if he wasn’t a total closet case, why would he even care if a gay guy made a pass at him? If a totally ugly girl tried to grab you, would he suggest killing her, too?
Maybe there’s a helpline he can call.[/quote]
Yo, theres nothing wrong with gay people. But im not gay, i dont want gay people to touch me. You know what im saying? If a ugly girl touches me id tell her to stop or some shit.
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
k i just talked to the current “leader.” Guess what working out makes you! A Pussy who actually needs to WORK to get a physique, just caus these guys are “blessed” with it right? Wdf is this. Caus i work out, im a pussy? Guess what i hear: “my one rep max is 250 on the leg extentions” fuck the leg extention machine. Man this shit makes me mad. Now hes argueing that powerlifting isnt a sport, because it doesnt have a league.[/quote]
High school sucks. Repeat after me high school sucks. and it is not the end of the world. Or barely even the beginning. My advice is to keep working out and don’t give a crap what people say or think. Just do your thing.
I started working out as a 4’9" 70 lb 13 year old who didn’t hit puberty yet. I’m now 44, and 5’7" 200-205 solid pounds with a 300+ bench and about a 600 deadlift and 500+ squat. the abouts are because I didn’t try a new max yet, but training is up, whatever. This is just to show you that sticking with something long term is were it’s at, not that I’m bragging about me.
Life is not a sprint, it’s more like an ultra distance triathlon. Just a little over a year ago this used to be shrimp guy went to his 25 th reunion with a very hot younger wife and pretty jacked for early 40s. You would think I was the all district football star, not the small kid.
But the funny thing is that i didn’t care. I was just happy life is good and I was glad to see the old buddies. Train hard, study hard and make a great life for yourself. Living well is the best revenge.
Wow, this thread has progressed. You the OP started off as “I don’t like to fight” too “I could rule this school”. Pleaze. The kids that could and would stomp your ass don’t care enough about you too do so. Don’t get yourself in their scope with this rule the school BS.
Take a chill pill, confront, let them swing first. Otherwise ignore them, do you have friends in this school?
Oh on a personal note from experience, when you confront someone, wait for them to back away. I got sucker punched after turning away from someone.
First of all, do not tell an administrator or teacher. Nothing good can come from it. But also don’t get too negative because it happens to alot of people. Unfortunately u MUST fight them. and if you can possibly fight MORE THAN 1 at a time you will gain people’s respect even if you get your ass kicked.
The emotional pain of being bullied is far worse than the physical pain that these kids will cause. And if you are afraid to fight because you don’t know how, don’t be.
There isn’t much advice for the first fight except,try to just go insane. most people in streetfights don’t know how to fight so just go crazy and do everything (except kicking).
And if it’s more than one person who beat u up u gotta call them pussies for taking u on 2-1.
This all may sound a a little difficult for you, but you will be amazed what you can do if u decide 100% that ur gonna do it.
If I knew you wanted to rule the school, then I would not have bothered cheering for you. The guys who do not worry about someone/group about to jump them are the guys who manage to have friends, or at least be friendly, with people in each group. Do not worry about who is with you. Stand on your own. People respect that more.
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
Now, the only problem is getting the biggest kids in grade/school on my side. Unbeliveably, right now the kid that “runs” the school is a 130lb kid whose probably 5’5-5’6, but hes got LOTS of backup, all the strongest kids. once i prove im a better leader, it’ll be easier.
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I guarantee that the “biggest” kids in the school don’t know anything about who “runs” the school or nonsense like that.
When I was younger I had a rich boy and some of his friends pick on me for 2 years almost from 5th to 7 th grade. I tried to be the good guy am not say anything hoping he would leave me alone.
One day I couldn’t take it anymore. I still remember it now - I cursed him them he charged at me. I got a chance to grab him by the neck and throw him on the floor and then I jumped him and hit him in the face until he was spitting a little blood and we were broken up and he went to wash himself.
Then, I felt bad and went to see if he was alright. When i got there he was mad and threatened to kill me. Seeing the look on his face made me wuss out a little but out of the blue i came up with an idea., I told him not to hit me because the school principle was coming on the hall behind him.
He turned to look for himself and when he turned back BAM! hit him as hard as i could near the right eye. In about a minute it was so swoulen that he needed to leave to get medical help.
That was the day people stopped teasing me.
So my advice to you is find their “boss” and kick his butt HARD.
Just be careful. I live in Romania, so such a thing had gone unnoticed. In America they could send you to jail, or call you a threat to society and send you to correctional school or therapy and that’s pretty fucked up. It shouldn’t be illegal to defend your honor in a fist fight.
Anyway good luck. Just don’t get a gun and start shooting people. Seeing that shit on TV makes me sick to my stomach - any coward can pull a trigger but only a man can make his way with a knife through a crowded place to his target.
P.S. I am only joking about that knife thing - think i heard it on a chriss rock show.
When I was younger I had a rich boy and some of his friends pick on me for 2 years almost from 5th to 7 th grade. I tried to be the good guy am not say anything hoping he would leave me alone.
One day I couldn’t take it anymore. I still remember it now - I cursed him them he charged at me. I got a chance to grab him by the neck and throw him on the floor and then I jumped him and hit him in the face until he was spitting a little blood and we were broken up and he went to wash himself.
Then, I felt bad and went to see if he was alright. When i got there he was mad and threatened to kill me. Seeing the look on his face made me wuss out a little but out of the blue i came up with an idea., I told him not to hit me because the school principle was coming on the hall behind him.
He turned to look for himself and when he turned back BAM! hit him as hard as i could near the right eye. In about a minute it was so swoulen that he needed to leave to get medical help.
That was the day people stopped teasing me.
So my advice to you is find their “boss” and kick his butt HARD.
Just be careful. I live in Romania, so such a thing had gone unnoticed. In America they could send you to jail, or call you a threat to society and send you to correctional school or therapy and that’s pretty fucked up. It shouldn’t be illegal to defend your honor in a fist fight.
Anyway good luck. Just don’t get a gun and start shooting people. Seeing that shit on TV makes me sick to my stomach - any coward can pull a trigger but only a man can make his way with a knife through a crowded place to his target.
P.S. I am only joking about that knife thing - think i heard it on a chriss rock show.
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
K, on monday, im gonna see if anyone does anything. Do i kick their ass on the first offense, or give them chances?
I was bullied for 6-7 years for being fat. Before i didnt have the courage or strength to do anything, but this time i wanna make them shut up.[/quote]
Let them make the first move. Tell them to talk with their fists, not with their mouths. Talk is cheap. If they antagonize you, don’t respond, don’t acknowledge them, just do your thing. They enjoy getting a rise out of you.
As my good friend Teddy Roosevelt once said, “Speak softly and carry a big stick; you will go far.”
I used to always get in fights in school. I dont regret any of them. That was when i was 6’1 190 and i beat the crap out of everyone. I lost one fight…that sucked. But fighting is alot about attitude. Just let them swing first and then blow them out of the water.
Yo, theres nothing wrong with gay people. But im not gay, i dont want gay people to touch me. You know what im saying? If a ugly girl touches me id tell her to stop or some shit.[/quote]
I know it’s hard to believe, but touching isn’t a gay vector. If a gay person touches you, it doesn’t turn YOU gay. Now, if a gay person sexually assaults you, by all means, do what you have to stop them. But unless your physical wellbeing is threatened, a violent response doesn’t make sense.
But if you’re talking about violence, it suggests that you DO find a gay person making a pass at you threatening. If it’s not a physical threat, what could it be? I’d be willing to bet that it threatens your masculinity, and a violent response (or the threat thereof) is a way to restore it. Of course, if you were secure in your masculinity, you wouldn’t care, would you?
On a related note, it’s funny how often you see politicians and preachers talking about the evils of homosexuality, and then you hear about these same guys sucking dick in a bathroom stall.
[quote]KingMike wrote:
I used to always get in fights in school. I dont regret any of them. That was when i was 6’1 190 and i beat the crap out of everyone. I lost one fight…that sucked. But fighting is alot about attitude. Just let them swing first and then blow them out of the water.
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Would you say you are in a place in life that others should want to emulate? In other words, do you feel you should be giving life advice to kids, or would you acknowledge that maybe you haven’t made the best choices (whether you feel regret or not)?