[quote]dk44 wrote:
Jetric requested it, do you like? I could fix your hair like it if you want!!![/quote]
uuhhmmmmm… it is lovely on your goat, but I am going to pass
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
Christine wrote:
Yes, there are guys like that out there OG, but why assume the worst?
Most likely the OP is a troll.
Second guess is the guy is 16.
So it really doesn’t matter anyway. You’re right. Why pursue someone who has been nasty to you?
isn’t it assuming the worst either way?
either assume the girl really is a materialistic bitch or assume the guy is fat with no job.
it gets down to… why do you want someone who doesn’t want you?
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I agree.
Everyone sucks in this scenario.
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
isn’t it assuming the worst either way?
either assume the girl really is a materialistic bitch or assume the guy is fat with no job.
it gets down to… why do you want someone who doesn’t want you?
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The pathetic thing is that he would spend months of hard work just to attempt to get her back after being dumped so harshly.
If she was the greatest woman on earth this might be justified but she certainly does not sound like it.
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
You guys wouldn’t date a woman who wanted to sponge off of you.
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I think the sugar daddy’s with the young attractive girls are proof that if the girl is hot enough they are more than willing to shell out the cash.
[quote]OctoberGirl wrote:
You guys wouldn’t date a fat chick.
So the girl doesn’t want to date a fat guy with no job?
well she sounds horrible.
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Exactly, I do not know why the guys are criticizing when we are more picky about looks.
I do not understand why she is horrible. She knows what she likes…
Girls who get asked out all the time let guys down hard because if they show the slightest interest the guy will not go away.
I agree with whoever said working on the inside is the best thing you can do. Then again, the guy should probably work on getting a car.
And who really cares? It’s just a girl lol.
[quote]LiftSmart wrote:
The pathetic thing is that he would spend months of hard work just to attempt to get her back after being dumped so harshly.
If she was the greatest woman on earth this might be justified but she certainly does not sound like it.[/quote]
The more likely outcome is that if he works his ass off and gets his shit togther more opportunities will open up with the ladies and he will forget all about this girl.
[quote]Otep wrote:
There’s no win in a situation like this.
You gotta get a car and a six-pack anyway, along with gaining some testicles and succeeding in life. That’s just stuff you gotta do. And when you do, she’ll probably dig you (I mean… your friend), but you’ll realize she’s not worth it.
And then you’ll realize no one else is either. And that’s when your world really crashes down.[/quote]
This man speaks the truth. The hideous truth.
[quote]LiveFromThe781 wrote:
shes extremely vain for wanting a guy in shape?
isnt the reason 90% of people who lift say they lift is for the chicks?
and doesnt everyone always get boggled when they see a fat dude with a hot chick? congragulations the world is in order.[/quote]
I always believe that good nutrition habits and bodybuilding is a lifestyle change. For our health and longevity, not for a girl.
[quote]Christine wrote:
Most likely the OP is a troll.
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Even though my posts are little, I’m not a troll. It’s really a situation faced by one of my guy friends. I believe in lifestyle change instead of a temporary goal. If he change for a girl, what happens if they break up in the future?
[quote]zhixiong wrote:
LiveFromThe781 wrote:
shes extremely vain for wanting a guy in shape?
isnt the reason 90% of people who lift say they lift is for the chicks?
and doesnt everyone always get boggled when they see a fat dude with a hot chick? congragulations the world is in order.
I always believe that good nutrition habits and bodybuilding is a lifestyle change. For our health and longevity, not for a girl.[/quote]
i got into lifting cause i was bored, then i just never stoped (dude how do you spell the past tense form of stop?)
anyway, now i just want to be huge. id rather have the physique of Mariusz Pudzianowski or Mike Mentzer
i agree with person who said this sounds like a movie plot.
just like all that shit they were spinning out in the early 2000’s or whatever, American Pie and all that shit where the guy is a loser and spend the whole senior year making himself the man.
let me tell you something, you guys are probaly young as shit. eventually youre just gonna grow to realize that it doesnt really mean shit what a girl thinks and theres no use in sweating one either cause theres a fucking million more out there. you might not believe it now but trust me everyone has been where youre at, thinking that the hot girl is so special, then they grow up. dont put the pussy on a pedestal kid.
smart money is on that he has never had a girlfriend of substance and has never gotten laid.
If these two thing magically appeared, she would still find something wrong with him.
Otep nailed it.
For the most part “none of them are worth it”, but you get the six pack abs, the low body fat, the confidence, maybe the car and clothes you want and you nail em.
Keeping in mind you will run across some true female friends, which actually may be keepers.
Hell he probably already knows the keeper, and needs to nail the one like we are talking about.
I’m late to the topic, but;
Wasn’t self-confidence and nailing girls the reason most of us got into this shit in the first place?
I mean, one of two things occurred at some point in our lives; WE decided we didn’t like what we saw in the mirror or SHE decided she didn’t like what she saw.
Love and sex are a big part of life. No shame in acknowledging that and bettering yourself thereby. Hell, even spite makes a great motivator.
You should be lifting weights and getting a car anyway.
If you’re underage, just work on getting that license (if you can).
I’m 18, and I still don’t have mine, for reasons largely due to extreme procrastination, laziness, and fear that my proctor was an inter-dimensional being who was about to suck out my soul through my eyes, but you know, it happens.
[quote]LiveFromThe781 wrote:
…dont put the pussy on a pedestal kid.[/quote]
Put it on your belly at a specific angle and if you’re lucky, you might even hear Christine sing your favorite Pussy Cat Dolls song while you chew on Foie Gras and frog legs.
n-joy 
meow
Hey there, thought I would drop a line as I started coz of rubbish like this.
I was fat in high school, and once I got really harshly rejected by a girl I liked, pointing on my condition.
Well, I met the girl again in a club about 2 years later, she literally jumped on me like a total bitch. She wanted a guy tonight and I was much more of her ‘standard’ now.
At that point I did not feel a thing anymore but well one thing lead to another and she followed me to my place.
She started to fool around with me when I suddenly told her how I felt:
“That was way too easy. I mean, you’re still gorgeous like back in highschool, but that’s all there is to it honestly… Even though I do feel attracted I won’t dare to risk it anyway coz I bet you must be a real bacteria nest. You just wanted to get screwed but that won’t happen tonight, at least not with me.”
She almost slapped me and left. I went to sip a protein shake (I remember it was particularily good) and went to bed.
I recall the sentence (though I tranlated them for ya :p) I used as it was one of the best eve I had.
My point is, IF it can help getting in shape, well the bitch was still somehow usefull.
[quote]gentilrequin wrote:
LiveFromThe781 wrote:
…dont put the pussy on a pedestal kid.
Put it on your belly at a specific angle and if you’re lucky, you might even hear Christine sing your favorite Pussy Cat Dolls song while you chew on Foie Gras and frog legs.
n-joy
meow [/quote]
but thats only if you have a powerlifter gut.
you cant make christine sing pussycat doll songs with a 6 pack.
[quote]AlexD wrote:
Hey there, thought I would drop a line as I started coz of rubbish like this.
I was fat in high school, and once I got really harshly rejected by a girl I liked, pointing on my condition.
Well, I met the girl again in a club about 2 years later, she literally jumped on me like a total bitch. She wanted a guy tonight and I was much more of her ‘standard’ now.
At that point I did not feel a thing anymore but well one thing lead to another and she followed me to my place.
She started to fool around with me when I suddenly told her how I felt:
“That was way too easy. I mean, you’re still gorgeous like back in highschool, but that’s all there is to it honestly… Even though I do feel attracted I won’t dare to risk it anyway coz I bet you must be a real bacteria nest. You just wanted to get screwed but that won’t happen tonight, at least not with me.”
She almost slapped me and left. I went to sip a protein shake (I remember it was particularily good) and went to bed.
I recall the sentence (though I tranlated them for ya :p) I used as it was one of the best eve I had.
My point is, IF it can help getting in shape, well the bitch was still somehow usefull.[/quote]
thats not a real story. and if it is youre a pussy for not fucking her, you should have just pulled out and gotten her in the eye and been like REMEMBAH ME FROM HIGH SKOOL BITCH? instead of that Charlie Brown moral of the story bullshit.
Screw u, believe what you want 
But I don’t see why I’m a pussy (please explain that statement lol). She remembered me (i never said the opposite), and yes I had definetely more satisfaction not fucking her than I could have had fucking her!
[quote]LUEshi wrote:
I’m late to the topic, but;
Wasn’t self-confidence and nailing girls the reason most of us got into this shit in the first place?
I mean, one of two things occurred at some point in our lives; WE decided we didn’t like what we saw in the mirror or SHE decided she didn’t like what she saw.
Love and sex are a big part of life. No shame in acknowledging that and bettering yourself thereby. Hell, even spite makes a great motivator.[/quote]
Self confidence, nailing gils and having something to do are my only reasons, so you pretty much nailed this one.
AAARGH! I hate that story! Listen here dumbass. You obviously wanted to fuck her because you took her home with you. You were still angry with her for hurting you, and in the process giving you motivation to change your lifestyle better yourself.
You need to realize that what she did, however malicious her intent(turning you down for being unattractive, sounds like a good reason to me), helped you.
If you still want to hurt her, atleast give her a good fuck as thank for making you better youself even though you didn’t want to. And for the obvious sexual release of fucking a girl you had a crush on.
Edit: Oh, and to the original post, bettering youself physically is never for the wrong reasons.
Sobbing over a girl in the sofa with a bag of chips= A fat, unhealthy and miserable person.
Sobbing over a girl, lifting weights and cleaning up your diet= A strong, big and muscular miserable person.
Who’d you prefer (your friend) to be?