[quote]debraD wrote:
hmmmm[/quote]
More Feminist propaganda.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Brant2 wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
How many of your ‘homeys’ go home with these 9+s? Any of them? Which guys do they go home with?
What are they doing different that you aren’t? (Besides the ones who are genuine celebrities.)[/quote]
Well, walking in with a dick in their hands instead of a girl usually clears up the way. I’m not really into clubs, so when I can take a girl with me so at least she has some drinks and it’s looser by the end of the night. They don’t do nothing man, they just stand there or walk around, and eventually one will come and start a conversation or just make it clear that she wants you to talk to her.
And Orion, don’t hate man! We have girls… and that’s pretty much it. There really isn’t anything else to brag about in this bitch.[/quote]
PICS OF BRAZILIAN WOMEN, YOU BASTARD!!
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Really?
Lots of 'em over here, my tiger friend.
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Really? In Japan?
I need to get out more often.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Brant2 wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
How many of your ‘homeys’ go home with these 9+s? Any of them? Which guys do they go home with?
What are they doing different that you aren’t? (Besides the ones who are genuine celebrities.)[/quote]
Well, walking in with a dick in their hands instead of a girl usually clears up the way. I’m not really into clubs, so when I can take a girl with me so at least she has some drinks and it’s looser by the end of the night. They don’t do nothing man, they just stand there or walk around, and eventually one will come and start a conversation or just make it clear that she wants you to talk to her.
And Orion, don’t hate man! We have girls… and that’s pretty much it. There really isn’t anything else to brag about in this bitch.[/quote]
PICS OF BRAZILIAN WOMEN, YOU BASTARD!!
[/quote]
Really?
Lots of 'em over here, my tiger friend.
[/quote]
Really? In Japan?
I need to get out more often.[/quote]
Lots of Japanese immigrated there when times were hard, and then when the Japanese economy took off, their mixed blood (gorgeous) granddaughters came back…
You really would not believe how hot some of these women are…[/quote]
Brazialanese women! OMFG, I’ve got to see these.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Brant2 wrote:
[quote]LoRez wrote:
How many of your ‘homeys’ go home with these 9+s? Any of them? Which guys do they go home with?
What are they doing different that you aren’t? (Besides the ones who are genuine celebrities.)[/quote]
Well, walking in with a dick in their hands instead of a girl usually clears up the way. I’m not really into clubs, so when I can take a girl with me so at least she has some drinks and it’s looser by the end of the night. They don’t do nothing man, they just stand there or walk around, and eventually one will come and start a conversation or just make it clear that she wants you to talk to her.
And Orion, don’t hate man! We have girls… and that’s pretty much it. There really isn’t anything else to brag about in this bitch.[/quote]
PICS OF BRAZILIAN WOMEN, YOU BASTARD!!
[/quote]
Really?
Lots of 'em over here, my tiger friend.
[/quote]
Really? In Japan?
I need to get out more often.[/quote]
Lots of Japanese immigrated there when times were hard, and then when the Japanese economy took off, their mixed blood (gorgeous) granddaughters came back…
You really would not believe how hot some of these women are…[/quote]
I’d believe you if you had pics, or actual footage of said women. Really, I would.
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Lots of Japanese immigrated there when times were hard, and then when the Japanese economy took off, their mixed blood (gorgeous) granddaughters came back…
You really would not believe how hot some of these women are…[/quote]
I’d believe you if you had pics, or actual footage of said women. Really, I would.[/quote]
x2. I enjoyed the google image search though.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Lots of Japanese immigrated there when times were hard, and then when the Japanese economy took off, their mixed blood (gorgeous) granddaughters came back…
You really would not believe how hot some of these women are…[/quote]
I would say he is absolutely correct.
That is why I left Brazil: the competition was too high so I moved to England.
I did that “go to a pond where you will be the big fish”, that one of you guys mentioned on the Alpha/Beta/Omega thread ( the poster with the Native Indian avatar who is marrying a Jewish girl, I think ).
Same goes for the men, I have to say.
But I don’t care about pretty faces.
[quote]Alpha F wrote:
[quote]Chushin wrote:
Lots of Japanese immigrated there when times were hard, and then when the Japanese economy took off, their mixed blood (gorgeous) granddaughters came back…
You really would not believe how hot some of these women are…[/quote]
I would say he is absolutely correct.
That is why I left Brazil: the competition was too high so I moved to England.
I did that “go to a pond where you will be the big fish”, that one of you guys mentioned on the Alpha/Beta/Omega thread ( the poster with the Native Indian avatar who is marrying a Jewish girl, I think ).[/quote]
I don’t know if I gave any credit in that thread, but that was some great advice.
Short of moving somewhere, differentiating yourself from the competition is also an option, at least for men. Actually, I guess that works for women too; downplay your weaknesses, emphasize your strengths.
It’s not like anyone you’re competing with is actually perfect in everything, and it’s not like everyone actually wants the same thing.
[quote]therajraj wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
hmmmm[/quote]
I’ve seen stuff like this before. I once read a study showing that children look more like their father than their mother so the father know its his and thus be more inclined to look after them.[/quote]
[quote]Alpha F wrote:
That is why I left Brazil: the competition was too high so I moved to England.
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Where did you live over here?
And I think you should come and spend some time here. Even though the gringo power golden era is over, brazilian chicks really dig americans. All my coaches are american in their late 30s/early 40s and are constantly scoring well within the mid 20s.
Brazilianese women FTW, tho… mind blowing stuff.
[quote]imhungry wrote:
[quote]debraD wrote:
hmmmm[/quote]
More Feminist propaganda.[/quote]
I feel like I actually posted that women are much better at this because they need it in order for their mating strategy to work…
Now the thing is, are those men more or less attractive and does that change during the ovulation cycle?
[quote]Nutso wrote:
[quote]Nutso wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
Yeah.
Take notes, because this will end as a clusterfuck.
Might as well have solid log so you dont do that more than once.
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And I am fully prepared for this possible clusterfuck. At least I can come to peace with it if it comes to that.[/quote]
Well, here’s an update…
Talked to her couple hours ago. I had all these preparations on how to break it to her about her BPD. Well when I first saw her, all these preparations went out the window, and I just talked from my heart about what happened between us recently. She acknowledged that it was both of us that caused this clusterfuck. She wants to go back to being friends, and just focus on herself as she had all these problems pop up for the past couple weeks. I could see that she was shutting down when I asked about us.
So she put me on backburner. Well, I asked for this clusterfuck and I got it.
NEXT![/quote]
So your frame did not crumble under pressure, she did not even try to take it away, you just ditched it the second you saw her?
Good Lord…
[quote]orion wrote:
So your frame did not crumble under pressure, she did not even try to take it away, you just ditched it the second you saw her?
Good Lord…
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Ditch what? My frame? Unless I’m misunderstanding you, that’s kinda not fair. I did maintain my frame throughout where I put down my foot when she tried to take it away. However this made me realize that while I have made good progress on setting boundaries for myself compared to several years ago, I still have to work on my issues. It will never be “fixed.” All I can do is acknowledge the pattern I’m doing/in and control it like you would with your fears.
[quote]Nutso wrote:
[quote]orion wrote:
So your frame did not crumble under pressure, she did not even try to take it away, you just ditched it the second you saw her?
Good Lord…
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Ditch what? My frame? Unless I’m misunderstanding you, that’s kinda not fair. I did maintain my frame throughout where I put down my foot when she tried to take it away. However this made me realize that while I have made good progress on setting boundaries for myself compared to several years ago, I still have to work on my issues. It will never be “fixed.” All I can do is acknowledge the pattern I’m doing/in and control it like you would with your fears.[/quote]
[b]
Talked to her couple hours ago. I had all these preparations on how to break it to her about her BPD. Well when I first saw her, all these preparations went out the window, and I just talked from my heart about what happened between us recently. [/b]
And that’s not good?
I think I’m beginning to understand where you’re coming from but can you clarify more?
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
Curious if other guys reel in girls like this without intention of closing the deal, or if I am just a freak.
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I went through a phase leading up to my wedding where I tended to do this. It took me a while before I realized what I was doing, but eventually I clued in. I expect I wanted to remind myself that I had options, but this marriage thing was something I was choosing.
Interesting side note: The force was STRONG with me during this time. As I knew it wasn’t going anywhere, I was completely free of attachment and expectations with these girls and so I was totally at ease. Actually, the point where I realized what was going on was when this girl (9+) who I’d smiled at/said “hi” to a few times at the grocery store saw me somewhere else, walked straight up to me, introduced herself and initiated the “what are you doing tonight?” conversation. She caught me pretty off balance with her directness, but it was still a bit of an eye-opener.
[quote]batman730 wrote:
[quote]thethirdruffian wrote:
Curious if other guys reel in girls like this without intention of closing the deal, or if I am just a freak.
[/quote]
I went through a phase leading up to my wedding where I tended to do this. It took me a while before I realized what I was doing, but eventually I clued in. I expect I wanted to remind myself that I had options, but this marriage thing was something I was choosing.
Interesting side note: The force was STRONG with me during this time. As I knew it wasn’t going anywhere, I was completely free of attachment and expectations with these girls and so I was totally at ease.[/quote]
I agree with this, but god, it’s hard to put that into effect when you’re trying to date someone that you like. I know the trick is to be “carefree” but it’s not that easy.
So help?