God i hate trying to have a “conversation” through texting.
Keep it short, “ill be there in a second” “What’s the address?” “send me a naked picture”
NOT “what’s up” “How are you” “how was your turkey day?”
It’s for sure something that the youths like to do, but fuck that shit.
^ completely true
I’m glad I got away from it. When people my age see I don’t do that, they think it’s weird at first. I’d much rather spend the time on literally anything else. I’ve never had an amazing conversation via text that I couldn’t have had much quicker in real life.
Lorez I think most guys our age do what you’re doing. I know I did until a couple months ago. At first it feels odd and it’s very tempting to go back to being someones texty besty or beta friend or whatever, but it’s much better to be a little more independent and teach yourself to not waste time getting gratification through that type of BS guy best friend type of communication. That being said, I still get texts from people and I’m still friends with girls, but I’m not wasting time any more pining over a girl that may or may not be using me. It gives you better standards for women as well, I find myself not attracted to the same women I used to be, back when I was more “forgiving” regarding communication.
[quote]browndisaster wrote:
also, get jacked as fuck
that’ll help keep you out of the friend zone
being some bish’s beta male friendthing is horrible
-listen to her complain on the phone
-listen to her complain on gchat
-listen to her complain via text[/quote]
LMAO
O like texting girls.
I only sext though. My inbox is full of horrible things. If i were to ever lose my phone and someone found it…the shit theyd find.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
O like texting girls.
I only sext though. My inbox is full of horrible things. If i were to ever lose my phone and someone found it…the shit theyd find.
[/quote]
so you’re into that eh?
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
O like texting girls.
I only sext though. My inbox is full of horrible things. If i were to ever lose my phone and someone found it…the shit theyd find.
[/quote]
so you’re into that eh?[/quote]
Im really not. Its more humor than anything else. Its all about one upping each others fucked up messages.
A lot like the game DN and i play on here.
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
O like texting girls.
I only sext though. My inbox is full of horrible things. If i were to ever lose my phone and someone found it…the shit theyd find.
[/quote]
so you’re into that eh?[/quote]
Im really not. Its more humor than anything else. Its all about one upping each others fucked up messages.
A lot like the game DN and i play on here.[/quote]
https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/406782_297156077069421_2261766_n.jpg
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Ct. Rockula wrote:
O like texting girls.
I only sext though. My inbox is full of horrible things. If i were to ever lose my phone and someone found it…the shit theyd find.
[/quote]
so you’re into that eh?[/quote]
Im really not. Its more humor than anything else. Its all about one upping each others fucked up messages.
A lot like the game DN and i play on here.[/quote]
https://sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net/hphotos-ash4/406782_297156077069421_2261766_n.jpg[/quote]
Im gonna put you through 3 tables.
I kinda look like Ct. Chockula IRL
rock could you get a breakfast cereal character wrestling scenario going
[quote]LoRez wrote:
It’s just this texting thing is throwing me.[/quote]
Other posters have already covered things well, so I would just say keep the ‘texting’ perspective in mind.
As you or someone else rightly mentioned, texting is absolutely legit medium nowadays (relatedly, doesn’t that whole anti-Twitter sentiment seem so nonsensical now?) but its still no substitute for face-to-face. What I’m saying is, texting is like Facebook wall posting/commenting whereas it drives and satisfies that need-for-attention (esp amongst that younger generation) and makes kids feel important and popular.
Alas, the gulf between txt buddy and gotta-see-him/her-again-asap is pretty large. Not saying you can’t bridge it but certainly don’t lose sleep over it either.
Also big-picture-wise, just keep doing you. Girls at that age have little clue what they want anyway and unless you’re planning on being one-and-done for sure, having a girl sprung isn’t without its drawbacks either.
[quote]The Greek wrote:
However, do not despair, because at this point, there is still hope: never burn your bridges,at least when it comes to certain women, because you may need to cross them again one day. She may be uninterested right now, for whatever reason: maybe she’s already banging a dude, or 10, who the fuck knows?
But one day, you may be a party when she strolls in, and boom, there’s your chance: you two are now more than casual acquaintainces - you have a partial bond, remnants of that casual relationship from the past - since you have already established your familiarity with her, this random encounter now presents itself as the best chance to make your move/fuck her. Or maybe, one day, she’ll randomly text you asking you “what are you doing tonight”: this is also a possibility, BUT ONLY IF YOU PLAY YOUR LAST MOVE RIGHT.
The moral of the story is, do not call her a cunt, and do not piss her off: simply stop texting her. If she texts you first, respond, but keep it short, cold, and seem uninterested. Let the conversation die out. That is the right way of letting this thing fizzle out, but without extinguishing the flame entirely - because you may want to relight that bitch in the future.
[/quote]
This was good.
A bunch of helpful posts in this thread, really.
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Here is my “game” in a nutshell:
If she doesn’t have anything interesting to say, I’m out.
No, I don’t care about that “bitch from work”.
It’s worked out pretty well for me overall.[/quote]
I find boobs and a nice body interesting.[/quote]
Boobs and a nice body is what gets you interested, now give me a compelling reason to stick around?[/quote]
Is that a trick question? The answer is obviously da vagine.[/quote]
This guy gets it.[/quote]
In all honesty, how old are you guys?
Yes, a banging body will give me a good reason to plant my flag, but what then? I personally have limited tolerance for vapid comments that a lot of people in general make.[/quote]
I’m 19. I wasn’t full on serious but that goal has merit. Serious question, what the hell do you want out of it when you talk to someone?[/quote]
I’ll tell you what I don’t want, since that’s easier: the urge to stab the talking party in the neck with a pencil.
But you’re 19, so what you’re saying makes sense.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Here is my “game” in a nutshell:
If she doesn’t have anything interesting to say, I’m out.
No, I don’t care about that “bitch from work”.
It’s worked out pretty well for me overall.[/quote]
I find boobs and a nice body interesting.[/quote]
Boobs and a nice body is what gets you interested, now give me a compelling reason to stick around?[/quote]
Is that a trick question? The answer is obviously da vagine.[/quote]
This guy gets it.[/quote]
In all honesty, how old are you guys?
Yes, a banging body will give me a good reason to plant my flag, but what then? I personally have limited tolerance for vapid comments that a lot of people in general make.[/quote]
I’m 19. I wasn’t full on serious but that goal has merit. Serious question, what the hell do you want out of it when you talk to someone?[/quote]
I’ll tell you what I don’t want, since that’s easier: the urge to stab the talking party in the neck with a pencil.
But you’re 19, so what you’re saying makes sense.[/quote]
LOL I actually like to just talk to people believe it or not
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]spar4tee wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Here is my “game” in a nutshell:
If she doesn’t have anything interesting to say, I’m out.
No, I don’t care about that “bitch from work”.
It’s worked out pretty well for me overall.[/quote]
I find boobs and a nice body interesting.[/quote]
Boobs and a nice body is what gets you interested, now give me a compelling reason to stick around?[/quote]
Is that a trick question? The answer is obviously da vagine.[/quote]
This guy gets it.[/quote]
In all honesty, how old are you guys?
Yes, a banging body will give me a good reason to plant my flag, but what then? I personally have limited tolerance for vapid comments that a lot of people in general make.[/quote]
After working in the corporate world you learn to build a high tolerance for vapid comments.
I stopped to get gas this morning. Guy next to me was checking his oil.
I went inside to grab a drink for the road. When I walked out, guy was talking to the girl at the car next to him. Before I reached my car, he’d gotten her name, stalled for a couple seconds, then got her to come over to his car and give him her number.
I was genuinely impressed.
Took him less than 3 minutes to go from a completely cold introduction to that. It’s because of stuff like that where I just don’t buy the “the girl has complete control over the situation” line.
EDIT:
From this point it can go anywhere. If the end goal is a serious relationship, or if the end goal is a a fling, his approach is equally useful. It only puts you on the path to short term meaningless relationships if you want it to.
I get the “I don’t want to be with someone who plays games” idea… but that’s not what this was. It was “game” but it wasn’t “playing games”.
[quote]Makavali wrote:
[quote]optheta wrote:
[quote]Makavali wrote:
Here is my “game” in a nutshell:
If she doesn’t have anything interesting to say, I’m out.
No, I don’t care about that “bitch from work”.
It’s worked out pretty well for me overall.[/quote]
I find boobs and a nice body interesting.[/quote]
Boobs and a nice body is what gets you interested, now give me a compelling reason to stick around?[/quote]
Ah, but this is what is interesting.
Women want a man with humor, maybe a goof job, maybe intelligent, but it does not make them wet.
We all know that men are willing to put up with quite a lot of crap in order to bed a hot woman, what about women who put up with a lot of crap to get laid by a certain man?
In short, what you get as an answer when you ask what a woman wants on a man are the same attributes that could make you her very, very, very, good friend.
If you cannot be that, you are not LTR material.
Howver, this does not make them drip and the 60000$ question is, what does?
[quote]LoRez wrote:
[quote]chillain wrote:
[quote]anonym wrote:
If she’s actually into you, you won’t get the whole “lol sorry I was with my fam the whole day lol”. She will find a way to stay in touch with you. You also won’t have ANY trouble “getting her to agree to meet up with you [again]” when you ask.
Sorry, but there is no way to rationalize those facts away. She’s just not that into you, bud. Throw a Hail Mary and if you don’t gain significant yardage, pack your shit and go home.
The whole “can you talk tonight” text, followed by a phone call, followed by a goodnight text was pretty lame, btdubs.[/quote]
And its just that simple.
Further, there’s literally nothing you can actively do to increase her desire/longing for you. (and as problem-solvers by nature, men often have a hard time with this)
Luckily there IS one surefire, foolproof method for this specific set of circumstances: on to tha next one
[/quote]
You’re right, it is that simple.
The part that confuses me is when I’m the one who doesn’t respond for a long time, she sends me a flurry of texts over that time. Basically the same over-eager behavior but in reverse.
[/quote]
You are both wrong.
If she is mildly interested you can stoke that flame.
Which brings us back to the main question, what makes a vagina tingle?
Or, which is basically the same question, how does a socially dominant primate behave towards a primate of lower rank?
big muscles and being confident
big muscles and a good job and intelligence will make you confident usually
[quote]browndisaster wrote:
big muscles and being confident
big muscles and a good job and intelligence will make you confident usually[/quote]
If you believe that they are important they will.
And if you act like it, women cannot look into your soul.