[quote]on edge wrote:
[quote]Jackie_Jacked wrote:
Ohhhhhhh only a mild asshole.
I have discussed it with him. As I’ve said already, it’s been kind of an ongoing joke for years. There isn’t really anything to discuss. He’s already told me that he wanted to call me more but didn’t because he thought he’d be friend zoned. I told him that was ridiculous. Okay, Orion. This is the part where you tell me that I’m wrong. I’m waiting. lol
Since you know so much about women, what was my game? Tell me. I’m dying to know.[/quote]
Not Orion here, but I’m going to respond anyway.
I’m not a pick-up artist, I’m very straight forward with my approach to life and people, but in my nearly 48 years I have figured out that women don’t really know what they respond to and I think you are quite naive to think your husband couldn’t have screwed it up if he didn’t hold back a little bit. You tell him he was silly and he didn’t have a thing to worry about but I bet you if he was thrown back in time he would do it all exactly the same just to be sure. So far in the history of humanity every single woman has believed just as you do yet the majority of men have all figured out they have to be careful with their actions at least early on.
Think about it. Your husband can piss you the hell off now and in an hour, a day, three days, whatever you are over it and it’s life back to normal. If he did so in the first week you knew him there would be no recovering from it. Same guy, same personality, same goals, same loves, same looks, same dog same everything, yet that one screw up early on and its a whole different course in your lives and direction of your family trees.
Right now you’re thinking pissing you off is a lot different than calling or not calling and it is. However the result might not be that much different. Butterfly effect.[/quote]
This is not a statement against you at all, I’m just responding to the part where you wrote that women don’t know what they respond to. When men think they know what women respond to better than women, it makes me wonder where in the world they came to a conclusion like that or what kind of women they have known, more particularly their female role models.
When my husband and I talk, it’s not him telling me that it worked and I blush and tell him how silly he is. That is really not my personality at all. It’s a shame that he himself can’t be bothered to enter this conversation as his current idea of what women are like and relationships is quite refreshing and different from what I mostly read here.
I’m thinking you’ve never seen me pissed off. lol
It’s too bad that there is such a widespread misconception about the way that you should treat women because the way that I see it is that if you feel that videos like Orion has posted are the correct way to initiate some sort of connection with someone, I think it shows that there is no respect for the opposite sex. That is maybe what a young, insecure woman wants. If that’s what a guy wants then go for it but I fully expect to see a boo hoo thread here shortly after about what a bad idea it was or how much of a stalker/psycho she turned into.
A man is not capable of telling me what I really want any more than he can tell me what it’s like to have breasts, give birth or wear high heels.
Besides, the only examples of women I have seen posted here that fall for that are young, stupid, gullible and stupid. Oh yeah, I said that already. Show me an intelligent, independent women that takes care of her own that falls for that kind of approach.