Let's Process Our Feelings II

Emily & Orion,
when two people have had such staggering amounts of emotional content ro resolve and the questions and unhappy answers still seem to self-generate procedurally, then, in my experience, it’s time to let other organs pick up the discussion.

Better for everyone.
Healthier.

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
Emily & Orion,
when two people have had such staggering amounts of emotional content ro resolve and the questions and unhappy answers still seem to self-generate procedurally, then, in my experience, it’s time to let other organs pick up the discussion.

Better for everyone.
Healthier.[/quote]

I am not quite sure what your point is, but I disagree with it anyway, so there.

You dont listen to people who stumble into success, because they have no idea, you listen to those who have tried, tried and tried again…

Because reality is a brutal and very effective teacher…

And, lets face it, mistress.

And I know, when I claim that reality is a bitch and that we all have to serve her, it makes no sense at all to native English speakers, because you do not attach a gender to abstract concepts or things unless they are ships…

Which means you are limited to some degree…

Ja!

I don’t really understand what you are saying. Maybe that’s my point.
YOu both enjoy talking to each other immensely and there is obviously some hormone-fueled attraction.

Wasn’t this thread created because Emily is an unhappy single? An attractive, fit, geeky , unhappy single?

However, if you REALLY (winkwink) are in juuust to hand out tips, here’s a (honest!) question for you:
Why don’t you make Beidlsaftvolk.at or somesuch and preach directly from the pulpit?
There’s little out there in the Krautnetz.

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
Emily & Orion,
when two people have had such staggering amounts of emotional content ro resolve and the questions and unhappy answers still seem to self-generate procedurally, then, in my experience, it’s time to let other organs pick up the discussion.

Better for everyone.
Healthier.[/quote]

I’m having some difficulty with this wording, too. Unhappy answers self-generate procedurally? Other organs? I wonder if it would be possible for you to post this in German, then orion can translate it back to English.

But meanwhile, Schwarzfahrer, I took the liberty of glancing at your posting history because while I haven’t read many of them (PWI makes me tired) I had a sense that you also tend to self-generate procedurally some unhappy answers of staggering repetitiveness.

What I found is you posting about the matter of gay rights on 1/6/2006 and then again - still! - today at 11:19 EDT. First page, last page. Every page in between? Probably.

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
I don’t really understand what you are saying. Maybe that’s my point.
YOu both enjoy talking to each other immensely and there is obviously some hormone-fueled attraction.

Wasn’t this thread created because Emily is an unhappy single? An attractive, fit, geeky , unhappy single?

However, if you REALLY (winkwink) are in juuust to hand out tips, here’s a (honest!) question for you:
Why don’t you make Beidlsaftvolk.at or somesuch and preach directly from the pulpit?
There’s little out there in the Krautnetz.

[/quote]

I would say experience-fueled, not hormone fueled.

I don’t think the thread was created because I’m an unhappy single. Was it? I think I’m a pretty happy single. Just one that lacked adult dating experience and kept falling in the same hole.

Now orion, on the other hand, is an unhappy single. Which is why the global push to convince him to mend his ways.

But we’ve processed all sorts of feelings in here.

Tell us about your irritability, Schwarzfahrer.

This might be totally inappropriate, but I would totally Beidlsafvolk Emily’s Krautnetz.

I may need to self generate procedurally just thinking about Em’s sweet, sweet Krautnetz.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I’m having some difficulty with this wording, too. Unhappy answers self-generate procedurally? Other organs? I wonder if it would be possible for you to post this in German, then orion can translate it back to English.
[/quote]

you two should outshagg your differences. It seems like a complete duhish no-brainer.

[quote]
But meanwhile, Schwarzfahrer, I took the liberty of glancing at your posting history because while I haven’t read many of them (PWI makes me tired) I had a sense that you also tend to self-generate procedurally some unhappy answers of staggering repetitiveness.[/quote]

Procedurally? Not at all. (OK the recent Rousey-Mayweather thread is an anomaly)

lol, in your defense, you said yourself you don’t go to PWI.
Talk about procedurally generated gayness.

[quote]
I don’t think the thread was created because I’m an unhappy single. Was it? I think I’m a pretty happy single. Just one that lacked adult dating experience and kept falling in the same hole. [/quote]

maybe its my male perspective, but glancing through this monster thread, you seem almost like a cliche of an unhappy, sophisticated North-American single while Orion seems happy like a clam.
Glad I was wrong with you. I really am.

[quote]
But we’ve processed all sorts of feelings in here.
Tell us about your irritability, Schwarzfahrer. [/quote]

Look, Im not trying to be snappy.
In RL, I’m often simply amazed on how many clear opportunities of attraction are not seized upon.

Stay toned, Emily

-S.

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:

In RL, I’m often simply amazed on how many clear opportunities of attraction are not seized upon.

[/quote]

Should they be?

I mean, with enough lubricant and a good head start pretty much all genitalia are compatible, but then what?

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
And I know, when I claim that reality is a bitch and that we all have to serve her, it makes no sense at all to native English speakers, because you do not attach a gender to abstract concepts or things unless they are ships…

Which means you are limited to some degree…

Ja!
[/quote]

Excellent underestimation there, Franz.[/quote]

Well, if even my underestimations are excellent …

Plus, you know how it is, a different language makes you see the world differently.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
I don’t really understand what you are saying. Maybe that’s my point.
YOu both enjoy talking to each other immensely and there is obviously some hormone-fueled attraction.

Wasn’t this thread created because Emily is an unhappy single? An attractive, fit, geeky , unhappy single?

However, if you REALLY (winkwink) are in juuust to hand out tips, here’s a (honest!) question for you:
Why don’t you make Beidlsaftvolk.at or somesuch and preach directly from the pulpit?
There’s little out there in the Krautnetz.

[/quote]

I would say experience-fueled, not hormone fueled.
[/quote]

See, that makes me sad.

For I would like to believe that if we ever did the nasty we would do so in a hormone fueled frenzy.

But no, I am like a a warm, comfortable blanket…

O_o…

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
And I know, when I claim that reality is a bitch and that we all have to serve her, it makes no sense at all to native English speakers, because you do not attach a gender to abstract concepts or things unless they are ships…

Which means you are limited to some degree…

Ja!
[/quote]

Excellent underestimation there, Franz.[/quote]

Well, if even my underestimations are excellent …

Plus, you know how it is, a different language makes you see the world differently. [/quote]

Yeah, but I thought your English was fluent enough to realize that we have subtle male/female senses included in our speech, too.[/quote]

Subtle yes, but in German it is simply there.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
I don’t really understand what you are saying. Maybe that’s my point.
YOu both enjoy talking to each other immensely and there is obviously some hormone-fueled attraction.

Wasn’t this thread created because Emily is an unhappy single? An attractive, fit, geeky , unhappy single?

However, if you REALLY (winkwink) are in juuust to hand out tips, here’s a (honest!) question for you:
Why don’t you make Beidlsaftvolk.at or somesuch and preach directly from the pulpit?
There’s little out there in the Krautnetz.

[/quote]

I would say experience-fueled, not hormone fueled.
[/quote]

See, that makes me sad.

For I would like to believe that if we ever did the nasty we would do so in a hormone fueled frenzy.

But no, I am like a a warm, comfortable blanket…

O_o…[/quote]

I’m afraid you spend too much time riding the carousel for my tastes. I need a little adventure; the highs and lows of a roller coaster, say.

I like the term, “carousel” to describe hook-ups, and thank you for providing it. Doesn’t matter which genitalia you’re riding, the tedium of going 'round and 'round on a trip to nowhere is the same.

I’m willing to risk free-fall, which after all is just another kind of adventure. This is what I seek; tingles that come from something more than hormone-fueled casual sex. Because then you get to tingle all over.

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Chushin wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
And I know, when I claim that reality is a bitch and that we all have to serve her, it makes no sense at all to native English speakers, because you do not attach a gender to abstract concepts or things unless they are ships…

Which means you are limited to some degree…

Ja!
[/quote]

Excellent underestimation there, Franz.[/quote]

Well, if even my underestimations are excellent …

Plus, you know how it is, a different language makes you see the world differently. [/quote]

Yeah, but I thought your English was fluent enough to realize that we have subtle male/female senses included in our speech, too.[/quote]
Wait, we do?

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Schwarzfahrer wrote:
I don’t really understand what you are saying. Maybe that’s my point.
YOu both enjoy talking to each other immensely and there is obviously some hormone-fueled attraction.

Wasn’t this thread created because Emily is an unhappy single? An attractive, fit, geeky , unhappy single?

However, if you REALLY (winkwink) are in juuust to hand out tips, here’s a (honest!) question for you:
Why don’t you make Beidlsaftvolk.at or somesuch and preach directly from the pulpit?
There’s little out there in the Krautnetz.

[/quote]

I would say experience-fueled, not hormone fueled.
[/quote]

See, that makes me sad.

For I would like to believe that if we ever did the nasty we would do so in a hormone fueled frenzy.

But no, I am like a a warm, comfortable blanket…

O_o…[/quote]

I’m afraid you spend too much time riding the carousel for my tastes. I need a little adventure; the highs and lows of a roller coaster, say.

I like the term, “carousel” to describe hook-ups, and thank you for providing it. Doesn’t matter which genitalia you’re riding, the tedium of going 'round and 'round on a trip to nowhere is the same.

I’m willing to risk free-fall, which after all is just another kind of adventure. This is what I seek; tingles that come from something more than hormone-fueled casual sex. Because then you get to tingle all over.

[/quote]

Wether you want me or not is not the point, the point is that I refuse to have polite, comfortable sex with you.

Its either hot, sweaty and followed by a sequel in the shower or you wont ride this pony.

Not even hypothetically…

I fear for my reputation, you see?