[quote]forlife wrote:
Mick28 wrote:
From what I’ve read on the CDC site and others there really is no safe way to have anal sex.
There you go again, confusing sexual orientation with the real issue. Did you know that many straight couples practice anal sex? Did you know that not all gay male couples practice anal sex? Did you know that lesbians rarely practice anal sex?
So what is your beef, really?
If you want to preach against the horrors of anal sex, then do so. But don’t universally discriminate against gays, and don’t perpetuate the lie that being gay is inherently unhealthy. It isn’t.
This may come as a surprise to you, but If you are totally happy and healthy I hope that you stay that way.
If you really mean that, then stop telling people not to be gay. Acting contrary to your natural orientation is a prescription for anxiety, depression, suicidal thoughts, alcoholism, and drug abuse. Gays who do so are at double the risk of experiencing these negative outcomes, when they try to change their orientation.
But do you mean that, really? Is your true objective for gays to be healthy and happy?
Or are you just out there trolling against a sexual orientation toward which you have a deep personal aversion and revulsion?
But, I’ve seen people die of AIDS, up close, and it’s not a pretty site.
That’s interesting. Not many people I know, even my gay friends, have seen people die of AIDS, up close. Unless you work in an AIDS hospice, it sounds like you have a closer connection to the gay world than you have admitted up to this point.
Those younger (perhaps) less experienced than you seem to not care much about safe sex (which is not totally possible anyway).
Then preach against unsafe sex and stop confusing it with sexual orientation.[/quote]
Not all gay men may do anal, but enough do it for it to be associated with them.