[quote]StevenF wrote:
I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
That’s what they like about it lol.
[quote]Edgy wrote:
i would like to add a few items if i may.
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a BJ should be to completion, with swallowing, and telling the man that it tastes just like tapioca like grandma used to make
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O is correct, many wimmenz lack oral skilz
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this is also tru as stated before, many wimmenz think that they are doing you a favor by sucking it
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EmmieDear, you are incorrect in believing that if a wimmenz loves you, then they are better at giving oral. the opposite is tru, oral is given in order to trap the future hubby into believing that this will be the normal sex life upon marriage.
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Isn’t that why all brides smile when walking down the aisle? They know they just gave there last blowjob!
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
most girls don’t like cocks in their mouths. I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
Huh?[/quote]
may not be the case for you. in fact I know it isn’t, but girls that love to suck cock are rare.
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
So, question: does it count as a blow job if it’s part of foreplay and not to completion (switch to intercourse to finish)? When you guys say you don’t get them, do you mean at all, or not as a complete event?[/quote]
It isn’t a blowjob unless taken to completion. It is merely sucking a dick. You can do the latter without performing the former.
[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
From Skyzyks’s house:[/quote]
“Oh what fun it is to ride…”
After giving a few of these scenarios a thorough run through I agree on all points.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
That’s what they like about it lol.[/quote]
Some, true. Some girls like to be manhandled.
One ex (the infamous one), when we were broken up, but fucking, liked to give me blow jobs (to completion), then go make out with her then-boyfriend who she really detested.
Damn, she was crazy in such great ways.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
So, question: does it count as a blow job if it’s part of foreplay and not to completion (switch to intercourse to finish)? When you guys say you don’t get them, do you mean at all, or not as a complete event?[/quote]
It isn’t a blowjob unless taken to completion. It is merely sucking a dick. You can do the latter without performing the former.[/quote]
This is correct. It’s foreplay, male or female, if no completion.
Typically, however, females complete and then complete again when you get to actual penetration.
Except for one girl who got all freaky and didn’t want her genetalia touched anymore after she orgasmed. I made sure she didn’t quite complete, or she would leave me hanging.
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
That’s what they like about it lol.[/quote]
I had some questions about that at one point. Life was chugging along just fine and then all of a sudden I was like, “WAIT. So the very worst things guys say to each other are all about female sex organs and the things men say they like them to do!” And I got all feminist-freak-outed about it. But then we remembered that men call each other pricks and dickheads and so on, not just cocksuckers and pussies, and it was okay.
It probably wasn’t that easy being Mr. Q.
“I’m saying if I had done what you did, I would feel like a whore.”
Phenomenal 5 and a half minutes of television.
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
most girls don’t like cocks in their mouths. I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
Maybe 30 years ago. [/quote]
…dislike having to contradict you but… it was the same 30 years ago, you just had to wait an extra date or two.
…there were four exceptions that didn’t wait an hour and one that waited until after our dinner. talking 1980-81, you know back when we used typewriters and knew where a and z were. lol.
Why do dudes like blowjobs so much? I mean disproportionately more than fucking…or so it seems. Blowjobs are easy - no mess and you don’t have to get all sweaty and dirty. What’s the big fuss?
[quote]Edgy wrote:
i would like to add a few items if i may.
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a BJ should be to completion, with swallowing, and telling the man that it tastes just like tapioca like grandma used to make
-
O is correct, many wimmenz lack oral skilz
-
this is also tru as stated before, many wimmenz think that they are doing you a favor by sucking it
-
EmmieDear, you are incorrect in believing that if a wimmenz loves you, then they are better at giving oral. the opposite is tru, oral is given in order to trap the future hubby into believing that this will be the normal sex life upon marriage.
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Eh, I disagree, but then I was the you in my marriage.
As far as the favor part goes, I’m not sure whether the pleasure of making someone make happy noises would be considered a favor, but I don’t see why not. On the other hand, being able to make someone feel good enough to moan, by whatever means, is a turn-on. Isn’t that what sex IS, making someone else feel good to increase one’s own pleasure?
[quote]StevenF wrote:
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
most girls don’t like cocks in their mouths. I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
Huh?[/quote]
may not be the case for you. in fact I know it isn’t, but girls that love to suck cock are rare. [/quote]
do men in your territory also find it rare having their lips below a woman’s neck? is your territory part of the continental united states?
…my experience has it near the same to them as sucking on boobs for us. and yes it was the same 30 years ago.
P.S.
just whip em the $*^* out don’t suck too hard but take her off guard the first time.
[quote]theBeth wrote:
Why do dudes like blowjobs so much? I mean disproportionately more than fucking…or so it seems. Blowjobs are easy - no mess and you don’t have to get all sweaty and dirty. What’s the big fuss?[/quote]
I guess for the same reason we prefer to have our sandwiches made and given to us rather than doing the work ourselves 
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]theBeth wrote:
Why do dudes like blowjobs so much? I mean disproportionately more than fucking…or so it seems. Blowjobs are easy - no mess and you don’t have to get all sweaty and dirty. What’s the big fuss?[/quote]
I guess for the same reason we prefer to have our sandwiches made and given to us rather than doing the work ourselves :P[/quote]
Oooooooh. It’s all coming together now.
[quote]pushharder wrote:
[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
As far as the favor part goes, I’m not sure whether the pleasure of making someone make happy noises would be considered a favor, but I don’t see why not. On the other hand, being able to make someone feel good enough to moan, by whatever means, is a turn-on. Isn’t that what sex IS, making someone else feel good to increase one’s own pleasure?
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Yep.
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Okay, good, I thought so.
[quote]conservativedog wrote:
[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
[quote]StevenF wrote:
most girls don’t like cocks in their mouths. I think they feel that its demeaning or something.[/quote]
Maybe 30 years ago. [/quote]
…dislike having to contradict you but… it was the same 30 years ago, you just had to wait an extra date or two.
…there were four exceptions that didn’t wait an hour and one that waited until after our dinner. talking 1980-81, you know back when we used typewriters and knew where a and z were. lol.
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Ok, 70 years ago.