Interesting posts larry david and tribunal dude.
As far as the first quote it is very true. I very often see people in real life “playing” a part from a movie etc. and trying to live it in real life my mother and sister did this very very often with creating drama and common movie situations that were not there. Also I know dudes whos ideas about women come entirely from movies. They beleive that every dude is “mean” and if they are sensative and passive they will be the one “different” guy and girls will like them. Also beleiefs that girls do not like sex and give it as a gift or reward, that girls do not like guys (i suppose he meant attracted to) only there personality, and girls only ever want relationships. The guys who beleived this stuff were shit with girls and had no experience with them and they had no way to get theses ideas by observing the world around them(which is impossible since if you don’t live under a rock these are obviously wrong) so they take there beliefs from movies. Did they suck with girls get no experience to get there beliefs from and take them from movie experiences or did they have these movie experience beleifs first and that caused all there problems. Who knows?
Another thing is a strong women who does anything a man can do and anyone who doubts her is stupid . In just about every movie there is a woman doing things a man can do that woman cannot. But it never happens in real life but people think it can. Martial Arts for instance I’ve done it for years and you run into women all the time who think they are tough now good for them to be working out. But when you go with them it is ridiculouse the difference like they can train for 10 years and if you are fit even if you are smaller than them you will kill them on your first day and if you don’t go easy enough they will always cry. I say stuff like this and people are like your dumb your sexiest women are just as strong as men etc and they get this belief from movies.
Also same with girls dealing with stressful situations they don’t keep there cool EVER. Now I love girls they have tons of great shit dudes don’t have but there are some good qualites they have and some men have and movies do not paint them as they really are. ( talking action movies with girls shooting bad guys and fighting and stuff).
Also movies a common plot is weak passive loser but is selfless good hearted whatever. Suddenly some random shit happens and everything is good for him and he becomes a tough badass due to situation. I.E. Spider man, Transformers (I refuse to see any sequeals) So I know very many weak passive people who will not overcome even the smallest bit of fear or discomfort who beleive if they “really needed” to they would step up in a situation like a terrorist attack or emergency. Not true you don’t suddenly become super ballsy man when you need to. It’s equivelent to saying I won’t practice bball but I’ll just play in the nba finals I’m sure I’ll step it up since I have to and do well.
To clarify I was refering to spider man/ tranformer fag kid at first won’t fight bullies won’t ask out girl they want won’t risk anything but then a spider/robotcar falls out of the sky and they have power and responsibility and they suddenly since the situation warrants it become willing to risk there lives and are ultra courageouse.
Also movies are very very often acted out when people are in love or think they are in love. You complete me=came from a movie, I love you more than life itself=came from a movie (both terrible unhealthy attitudes) the one that got away attitude=movie dream girl=movie the one=movie Also very many other actions during romance can be influenced.
Yer another movie thing is guy in love with girl when he probably shouldn’t be and he doesn’t even no shit about the girl. His freind is rational and says like chill bro maybe you shouldn’t jump into this. BUT they always portray the freind as some kind of damanged weirdo jerk who hates girls and only wants to fuck them and in the end he is of course wrong. This makes it hard to convince dudes to chill out cuz they think if you don’t marry any girl your into your the movie character there is no in between in many movies.
For example freind of mine “in love” with girl he NEVER has spoken to . I say chill you don’t know what shes like . Reply “no you don’t understand love”. Obviouse crap that came from a moive. (I of course dropped all of these loser freinds with these ridiculouse beliefs)
Larry david real good post. I am not into the hole alpha beta crap but I geuss just means stong vs weak/pussy. Yes rap is popular because it is the only consistently strong/masculine music. However it could just get by on it’s association with that at some times .
I am glad you posted this op I very often think about the difference between what you see in movies vs in real life and how many people do not make the distinction.