A lesson for you, my son.
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Yes, which is what I mean when I say that my client should be assessing for what he/she needs to have a life of meaning and value, while the other side does the same. If I’m having the conversation with a client at all, it is because they are, I believe, a desirable prospect who has not been choosy enough in the past. So I’m talking about educated, well employed, compassionate, loyal, physically healthy people. Primarily women, but I’ve worked with professional men in this context as well. People who underestimate their value in general and in the dating marketplace particularly.
I’m not a matchmaker, so it’s not my job to deal with the other side’s needs, except insofar as I support the relationship as sounding very good and hopeful, and talk my client through the fear of vulnerability that inevitably arises when they start getting attached.
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I have a thing for mentally unstable women with daddy issues.
I’m probably not one to give advice.
thanks for asking, tho~
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Hey - so what’s the long and short of it? Is this thread worth reading through or what?
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Because he isn’t. If he were all of the things he claims, we’d be asking him for advice.
I skipped a good bit of it, and you know how dedicated I am to relationship threads. In short, no, not worth.
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Just skip to my posts, don’t worry about the rest.
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He might have been implying that he will one day be wealthy and would prefer to be wanted for that, which isn’t unreasonable, but the context in which he stated it was twisted, I believe (eg, wanting to lusted after for alpha-male qualities but not kindness or friendliness). I don’t know why he’d dismiss those qualities considering he wants a well-adjusted son or family.
@polo77j it is yet another thread started by an OP who is having trouble finding a woman. Considering I believe being womanless to be a miserable experience for ordinary men, I think it’s worth reading.
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I think alpha qualities include kindness.
IIRC, it was assumed that alphas (animals at least) generally were aggressive based on flawed wolf studies. The studies were flawed in that they were not wild wolves, but a mixture of wolves from different packs that coinhabited the same zoo space (this resulted in the dominate male being aggressive). When they observed wolves in nature they found that the alpha wolf was generally caring and looked after his pack as a compassionate leader (far from the original thought that it was just the strongest meanest male).
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I think there’s a saying, “those who fight best, keep peace best.”
Actual alpha males, not the caricatures we think often think of, need other men to get things done.
Very few men are alphas.
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Thread synopsis:
OP and certain others possess neither the looks, cock size, social standing, personality, or funds to obtain and sustain a relationship with a female equal to or above their standards as to what they will willingly enter into a relationship with. And now can’t understand why hotties aren’t dropping their panties.
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Of course it does. Humans get no where without the help and cooperation of other humans.
The greatest leaders of all times were leaders because men willingly followed them.
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Serious question: why is this such a big deal?
Apparently most women can only feel the first 2-3in anyways and how does such a small opening fit anything larger than 2 fingers wide?
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I would imagine the same reason a tight vagina feels better than a bigger/looser one.
From my unofficial (usually unsolicited) survey of past women, its ideal to be bigger than average, but no so big that it takes forever to get get warmed up for it to not hurt. But, apparently size does result in more pleasure. YMMV.
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So… You have a thing for women 
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Oh dear Lord. Now you’re saying women are SIMPLE? Don’t you have access to the internet bro? Comedians from the beginning of history have asserted that women are more complex than quantum physics.
Wtf did I just listen to
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Well, let me tell you. That thing can stretch to accommodate some rather large things including a 10lb, 20 inch baby. Soooo some women need a guy who is on the bigger side so it’s not like throwing a hot dog down a hallway, if you can picture what I mean.
Ps just to clarify, that’s not me, even though my husband refers to me as “the ole shoe boot “ just to make me mad.
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This is the umpteenth time I’ve heard the “women only feel the first 2-3 inches” story, and I’m now convinced it’s a narrative created by somebody with a 2-3 inch penis.
This is a really hard (heh) subject to avoid being inappropriate with, and even harder to avoid bragging about one’s penis size, but I think I can just summarize it by saying that there are spots that require more than 2-3 inches to hit.
Outside of that, I’m not encouraging you to do anything yourself, but you can search out women than have been with both guys who have a 2-3 inch penis and guys who are on the larger end, and ask them if there’s no difference.
There’s a conversation to be had concerning people making too much of penis size, but that conversation starts at a different…fleshold.
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No, women aren’t simple. Getting a girlfriend is simple.
But if you’re getting your dating advice from comedians who compare women to quantum physics, no wonder.
Btw, comedians are getting girlfriends. Even the ugly ones.
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