[quote]Professor X wrote:
[quote]Mad HORSE wrote:
I’m in the Air Force, and with the amount of trouble I’m getting in during a pretty serious draw down of personnel, I’m looking at being out by the end of summer.
Please don’t call her names. Funnily enough, I still care deeply for her.
Jesus Prof, have you gottn bigger? You look more like the Hulk than Professor X in your avatar.[/quote]
Sorry about the negative names thrown at her, but how much does she love you back?
Also…I needed to hear that after feeling like I lost muscle from not being able to eat the same way while moving for the last week. I have learned that huge changes in my routine are not tolerated well…especially when I don’t have access to my food for a few days.[/quote]
awww, look at prof’s feelings! sooo cute! I could eat them!
pinches prof’s cheeks
who’s a big ol’ fucker?
you are!
yes you are!!!
V - what have I missed that explains your consistent misspelling of the word “awesome”? Or are you just a retart?
[quote]LankyMofo wrote:
V - what have I missed that explains your consistent misspelling of the word “awesome”? Or are you just a retart?[/quote]
It’s a word on urban dictionary, I have no idea what you are talking about.
1)Awsome: buy awsome mugs, tshirts and magnets
- Morons who can’t spell awesome correctly.
Mrdumbhead: Did you see that new reality tv show. it was awsome!
Mrsmarthead: You spelt awesome wrong dumbass.
V
When it rains it pours, always holds true. Focus your life on your children, they are all that matters, fk the bike, get on unemployment and disability until you can work again, and learn from your mistakes. Getting screwed by the military over a small mistake on your part sucks, but thats why taking chances and not doing things the right way are never worth it. Kinda tough to hear when you’re down but learn from this shit. Beg the military to keep you and show them how sorry you are and if they do keep you realize they give you a lot of benefits and will always take care of you so long as you play by their rules, if you don’t, you’re just asking to get fkd.
As far as the wife goes, don’t dwell on it. Realize that your life wouldn’t be soo bad right now if it hadn’t been soo good prior to the crash. You had work, you had a wife who you built a family with, and you were healthy. There are people who have diseases that they will never overcome and will keep them permanently disabled, who have never been in a relationship, and will never have a job. They would envy you in the position you are in now, all your problems are something you will overcome in time. Stay strong and push thru!
[quote]Mad HORSE wrote:
So, here I am, after foot surgery, looking at the end of my carreer, can’t workout, worrying and just generally hating everything, when my wife comes to me and says she’s done here. [/quote]
Don’t look at it all as piling on top of you at once. Deal with whatever problem comes first… time will decide that.
On the rocks marriage- gone
Payments and upkeep for vehicle- gone
Round the clock job- gone.
Aside from your children (which I’m sure are a blessing and not even in the same category) all your earthly constrants are now gone. Its time to relax/party/or take another shot at achieving your dreams.
Time to redefine yourself as you see fit.
Time to strip yourself down to the bare.
You will plow through this like one badass SOB.
You fucking got this. Dig deep man.
PM me if you want to talk on skype or something.
I agree with RSGZ. I wish you luck but I have found I don’t learn unless I actually fuck up. That’s how I get myself into nasty situations in the first place. You will come out of this stronger than ever. Keep your head up and remain a good father to your kids.
Blame it all on Harley. I know I would 
PS- Kind of ironic your avatar is a foot, no?
Just handle it one issue at a time and take one day at a time. Worry about what you can control. There are going to be some things out of your control and you can’t stress over something you can’t fix anyways. You will get over this bump in the road and life will go on. Good luck to you.
Thanks for all the kind words and well deserved ass kicking. I woke up this morning feeling really optimistic. It’s time to just not push through and persevere, but to thrive and come through physically, mentally, and spiritually stronger than before. Thanks again guys.
Update:
Got my Article 15 today, under Article 92 (Failure to Obey). Reduced one grade and reprimanded. That makes me eligible to walk at ten years (13 more months), with seperation pay and benefits, if I keep my shit together.
The Soontobe-ex: Eh, I’ve talked enough about her in SAMA. You guys can let it rip with the name calling, I’m done with her.
The bike: Totaled, and now I’m down to only owing a little under 2G. Lesson learned: Get the fucking gap insurance!
The foot: Pin and cast come off next Thursday. I’m looking for experienced or even semi-pro opinions on what happens if I skip the walking boot and just start easing into training. I’d like to be doing 5k’s and rebuilding my squat my the middle of next month, but I’m more realistic than that.
Thanks again for everything, guys. I’m still feeling a little emo about the stripe, but I’ll keep going.
[quote]Mad HORSE wrote:
The foot: Pin and cast come off next Thursday. I’m looking for experienced or even semi-pro opinions on what happens if I skip the walking boot and just start easing into training. I’d like to be doing 5k’s and rebuilding my squat my the middle of next month, but I’m more realistic than that.[/quote]
Take it easy at first, and you’re going to need to stretch stretch stretch. I can still feel my broken foot after I’ve put a lot of stress on it from hill sprints and prowler. Take it easy, DO THE P.T., and you’ll be good
Dude, It could have been a lot worse…
I see a bright, pussy filled, future for you…
My great aunt just died yesterday from stage IV lung cancer after never having smoked a day in her life.
They put her into a morphine induced coma, because she had such massive anxiety about knowing that she was dying.
Nothing that you’ve written down is something that you can’t recover from. Enjoy your life while it’s here.