I need advice please!

I don’t have anything to add in regards to advice - everyone here has covered it for you already. I just wanted to say that having been in almost the exact position you are now - I completely understand what you’re going through and applaud your decision. This site is a wealth of information, use it to your advantage. Ask all the questions that come to mind and if anyone gives you grief for asking - tell them what they can do with themselves. Good Luck!