[quote]imhungry wrote:
I had very similar ‘friend’ when I was younger.
They were fun to party with, but other than that, we had nothing else in common.
I found other people that I wanted to spend time with. No biggie.[/quote]
Good call, or maybe I should make a second life account.[/quote]
Yup. Me too.
Slowly but surely move on with your life. You can accumulate friends over time, and the ones who get too caught up in the shit they are doing aren’t really going to notice that you have moved on anyways.
[quote]Eli B wrote:
You could tell the girls that their boyfriends are cheating on them but that wouldnt turn out well for you. Boys would hate you. Girls would resent you. All you can do is hang out with them when you feel like hanging out with them and also try and make new friends so you can jump ship all the while minding your own fucking business.
You arent going to change anybody else. Not your low life friends or their worthless flimsy girlfriends who willingly attach themselves to parasites.[/quote]
Yeah I would never cross that boundary (informing the girls of their boyfriend’s infidelity).
That is definitely a good call though. I knew i’d find some level-headed advice from this place.[/quote]
only after I flamed you.[/quote]
I was expecting to get flamed once or twice, but I really couldn’t care less as long as I got some sound advice.
[quote]theuofh wrote:
If I were you and wasn’t really friends with my so-called friends and they all have hot girlfriends, I’d try to bang all their girlfriends.
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I was going to write a big post about how no one would notice a few bodies in the river but this sounds like a better plan. Worst case scenario one of your ‘friends’ finds out and tries to fight you and you get to beat his ass.
SD, them being treated badly is none of your concern whatsoever… Hell they might just like it that way. On the other hand if they complain (to you?) about it, explain them that they are morons.
As a rule, I don’t respect anyone who takes dick from someone I don’t respect. They’re the bitches bitches.
You don’t respect these girls for associating with these guys, yet you associate with them yourself. You’re swimming in the toilet, yet you’re surprised you’re covered in shit.
Yes, it’s very sad these pretty girls have been tainted by loser cock. But let’s not cry over spilled milk, yeah? Milk only goes bad when it’s past the sell-by date. We all end up becoming ourselves.
[quote]AlexD wrote:
SD, them being treated badly is none of your concern whatsoever… Hell they might just like it that way. On the other hand if they complain (to you?) about it, explain them that they are morons.[/quote]
They ALWAYS complain about it. Ever hear a girl go on about her loser boyfriend? I always wonder. Yes, this guy is a piece of shit. But you fuck him, so where does that put you? Methinks the ladies doth protest too much.
“Yes, this guy is a piece of shit. But you fuck him, so where does that put you?”
→ That’s usually how I start it lol, love your swimming in the toilet metaphore btw.
[quote]Vicomte wrote:
As a rule, I don’t respect anyone who takes dick from someone I don’t respect. They’re the bitches bitches.
You don’t respect these girls for associating with these guys, yet you associate with them yourself. You’re swimming in the toilet, yet you’re surprised you’re covered in shit.
Yes, it’s very sad these pretty girls have been tainted by loser cock. But let’s not cry over spilled milk, yeah? Milk only goes bad when it’s past the sell-by date. We all end up becoming ourselves.
[quote]AlexD wrote:
touche, should have used ‘when’ instead of ‘if’…
“Yes, this guy is a piece of shit. But you fuck him, so where does that put you?”
→ That’s usually how I start it lol, love your swimming in the toilet metaphore btw.[/quote]
But if you say shit, suddenly you’re the asshole for being ‘judgmental’.
People don’t like being ‘judged’ when they know the shit you say about them is true, and it wouldn’t bother them if they thought their actions had integrity, themselves.
Fuck a girl like a slut, no problem. Call her one, you’re an asshole.
For a small man I’ve always had a big mouth. I had no problem voicing my opinions to my friends. I often would get harsh reactions to my openness, but later on they’d usually thank me for my honesty and often admit that I was right.
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
For a small man I’ve always had a big mouth. I had no problem voicing my opinions to my friends. I often would get harsh reactions to my openness, but later on they’d usually thank me for my honesty and often admit that I was right.
Be a man. Speak up. [/quote]
yeah maybe if you have any tact you can trigger an epiphany in one of them. Maybe just an off hand remark once and drop it.
You got one life to live. Find some new friends who like things you like (lifting heavy things etc…) and if your loser friends get jealous then you know they are selfish assholes. You can only let them hold you back for so long. I don’t hang out with hardly anybody I went to high school or college with for the same reasons as you have listed.
You can’t help someone who doesn’t want help. Tell your boys your thoughts and if they’re too immature to deal with it fuck 'em. It’s obviously affecting you so you need to deal with it sooner rather than later.
And where are these girls coming from. Shit, Columbus girls are either ugly, crazy, or bitches.
[quote]Iron Dwarf wrote:
For a small man I’ve always had a big mouth. I had no problem voicing my opinions to my friends. I often would get harsh reactions to my openness, but later on they’d usually thank me for my honesty and often admit that I was right.
Be a man. Speak up. [/quote]
yeah maybe if you have any tact you can trigger an epiphany in one of them. Maybe just an off hand remark once and drop it.[/quote]
My friends are extremely stubborn, and would not be likely to admit fault. While this does sound like a good route to take in concept, in practice - at least with my friends, it would yield a very undesirable result.
CLIFF NOTES:
I’m a beta-male and this shows through my lack of discerning who I call my friends and that I can’t find a woman who will deal with my shit, let alone one that will confront any inappropriate behavior.
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[quote]theuofh wrote:
If I were you and wasn’t really friends with my so-called friends and they all have hot girlfriends, I’d try to bang all their girlfriends.