37 replies here. Every single one of em said the same thing:
*Man up and tell either the girl, your friend at the party, or the police what you saw.
Dont tell us our opinion meant shit to you.
You know what? It doesnt matter what anybody says. You will not do the right thing. I know that for a fact.
A girl was abused and raped and is now possibly suffering emotional distress. She could be pregnant. But somehow this is still about YOU. It’s about your glass life, which youre afraid will be shattered.
I’m not fond of judging anyone. I have seen none of the evidence, I have heard none of the claims from those who were at the party, I havent heard her side of the story; I dont know anything about the case besides what you told me.
But I can tell you one thing - I have never seen someone who’s innocent ever worry so much about getting caught for something they didnt do.
I said it once, Ill say it again. You’re no man. Wether you raped her (which we DON’T know), or wether you saw what you say you saw, you’re nothing but a scumbag unworthy of the title of Man. If a dog could talk, he’d probably say more than you have.
Picture this: One day you get married. A few years later you’re asleep. You are awakened in the middle of the night by your teenage daughter crying. You get up to see what it’s about. It’s late. Her clothes and makeup are a mess. After she calms down you find out she’s been raped and does not know by who. What do you do? What do you do? Every child deserves to be protected from people like you, whether you did something or did nothing, you are guilty.
I don’t know why I keep posting updates, I don’t want to make any of you mad, but here’s the latest: A couple of my friends were going to go wash cars with her boyfriend. I went along just to see if he said anything about it or whether or not she planned to press charges etc. It never came up, but she and one of her friends showed up while we were working. Everyone asked her how she was, and she said she was fine. I got a good look at her and I honestly don’t think its the same girl, it couldn’t be. At any rate, she doens’t plan on going to the cops, so as far as I’m concerned I’ve done my part. I took an entire afternoon off to find out what the story was so I’ve done more than my part in this whole thing. Someone said I dont like my little Glass Box life being disturbed, well your damn right I don’t, who does? I’ve decided if she goes to the cops I’ll send a letter or something. And NO, I didn’t rape anyone.
“I took an entire afternoon off to find out what the story was so I’ve done more than my part in this whole thing.”
Okay, either the whole thing is bullshit, or we’re dealing with a psychopath. Especially when you couple this with his other post about being disgusted by women. Either he’s yanking our chain, or we have our next serial killer on our hands.
Oh, and you’re still a pansy-ass bitch, either way.
totally agree Jared. What a loser, fucking psycho. And just listening and looking at a girl are not going the extra lengths to find ANYTHING out. Jesus man, you’re fucking lazy.
As a women myself, I feel sick to my stomach to think that even ONE guy out there would think twice about reporting a rape or even getting involved when he saw it happening. If it was a mistake and they ended up to be two consenting adults/teens having sex, then the worst that could have happened would be the guy intervening looking like a dolt. Just because I decide to go to a party, drink my face off and end up passing out somewhere in a house full of other partiers doesn’t give anyone the right to pull up my skirt and fuck me like I wasn’t a human being.
I AM however, thrilled to see that the majority of males on this post would do the right thing. I am the last person to pass judgment on people, but fuck…where is this world heading?
After rereading the posts, I have to say I’m pretty pissed off. One of you says that I deserve to be raped for drinking too much to know what’s going on? First off, I have the right to get as drunk as I want, I’m not driving or endangering anyone. If I get shitfaced than that’s my own business, I’m suppsoed to stay sober just in case I need to eyewitness someone? Secondly, how ignorant is this statement, look at the post above mine, noone DESERVES to be raped for drinking too much. Also, saying I’m just as bad as the rapist for not reporting it? What rationale is this based on. I’d take a passive spectator over a rapist any day of the week. You can call me psychotic or whatever you feel the need to disspell, but chances are you pass by people every day that need your help, with little to no risk on your part, and you don’t, so don’t point the finger at me. Saying I deserve to be raped for drinking and that I’m just as bad as a rapist for doing nothing is more ignorant than anything I’ve said.
Logically, you’re consenting to the rape of the girl. You saw it; you didn’t do anything about it. You and the rapist are both flaming pieces of shit. You have no value as a human being.
I know I ALWAYS stop when I see firsthand an accident, and I always help someone who needs it, no matter of the situation. Shit, I’ve given mouth to mouth before on numerous people, just because I was passing by when they need medical attention. It’s called Courage Under Fire. You do what needs to be done, what a moral human being would do, under pressure and without hesitation.
I recently found a purse in the street, and I didn’t know if it was stolen, or put on the top of a car mistakenly and it fell off.
I got the purse, found the person’s ID, found her in the phonebook, and called her. I knew that she might think I was the one who took it, but I didn’t care. I knew if the purse was left on the street, another person might take it. Others even told me that I was stupid to do this, even though it was such a minor thing.
One of the reasons this country has the problems it does is because people “Don’t want to get involved.” If you keep you mouth shut, and the next person he rapes is your sister, or a good friend, imagine how you would feel.
The person you are is based on the actions you take.
Mage - I did the same thing, but with a checkbook. I immediately found the guy’s number, gave him a call, and designated a time/place to meet him to return it.
CGB’sGirl was right - it’s nice to see that some of us still have morals AND balls.
Coercix you did squat. You went for a ride and bullshitted with you friends. Big fuckin deal.
Watch Black Hawk Down. The Army Rangers took heavy casualties that day. After witnessing the carnage, some Rangers went back to regroup and rearm. When ordered by his commander to get ready to go back in, one Ranger said ‘Sir, I cant go back in there’…the commander replied ‘I know you’re afraid…heck Im afraid. I’ve never been in a situation like this before. But those men are counting on us. They need us’ And they went back in.That after witnessing their comrades lose a limb, become engulfed in blood, die…One lost both legs, his arm, was covered in blood, and was still alive when they put him in the casualty truck.
THATS doing more than your part.
Do you think those men would just hang around the outskirts of town while their comrades fight for their lives…and when alls over that theyll simply say ‘hey, they couldve called us if they needed us. We wasted 4 hours and it didnt seem like they needed our help so…we did more than our part’? They’re men and they’re soldiers. They dont go for a fuckin drive and hang around for an afternoon waiting for a reason to do the right thing - they do it RIGHT AWAY!
A while back while driving down the highway I witnessed an accident. A big tractor trailer had hit another car causing it (the car) to flip and land on its roof.
Out of one car came two guys who IMMEDIATELY ran towards the flipped car to tend to them, and coordinated traffic. THAT’s what a man does.
Cervix what would YOU do in that scenario? Hang around in your car with your eyes closed (didnt ask to see it and itll mess up your day), and hang around while those people bled to death? Maybe a police car will stop by and then you can say you did more than your part by hanging around - alas youd heard no cries for help so you didnt know you shouldve done something…
You need to SERIOUSLY reevaluate your priorities, your values, your ethics, and check to see if you have 2 BALLS down there.
Gotta chime in here and give my 2 cents. Coercix - I agree with the fact thatyou have evry right to get stinking drunk whenever you want. There’s no law against that and most of us have done it more than once. BUT, think about it man. A girl was RAPED. She wasn’t slapped, or punched, or spit on. She was violated to the worst degree. And if you sit back and not at least go to the cops and tell them what you (may have) saw, that is brutally low dude. Like you said, maybe you can’t ID the guy. Shit, maybe you can’t even ID the girl. But if you tell them, they may question people at the part, and just maybe some sober girl or guy saw someone leaving the bedroom in a really hasty and suspicious manner. It doesn’t take much of a lead to get the ball rolling and get this scumbag tracked down. It was a party with lots of people. Chances are if the cops know something happened and start questioning people, someone will also have seen something not quite right. For you to sit back and alow this girl’s pain to go on without helping her nail this prick is the lowest of the low. Now slap a nice coat of brass on those balls and get your ass down to the cop shop.
I’m with RS on this one. The first post is normal enough, but the follow-ups seem too self serving, too cold-hearted and just a little too suspicious to me. I don’t buy your story, Coercix. Not calling you a rapist, but there are enough clues here for me to be awfully concerned about your legitimacy.
I’m tempted to contact the admin at T-Mag and try to figure out who this guy is. I’m convinced that this incident that he speaks of involved him having non-consensual sex with this person. He was concerned enough about this girl and the incident to start asking questions, yet he suddenly doesn’t want to get involved and she deserved it. He’s responsible for whatever happened, not some guy he can’t identify. He raped this girl and him talking about it is his way of trying to get it off his mind and at the same time, he is trying to turn the tables and even saying that the girl deserved it. This is classic stuff. I know enough about this sort of thing to understand what he is doing. The guilty mind acts in very predictable ways. He has to talk about it because he did something that he knows was wrong and it’s bugging the hell out of him and talking about it anonymously on a forum is his way of dealing with it
He’s just far too concerned about being “wrongly” accused. I found many many clues in his writing. He then turns the tables and says she deserved it and she’s not worth the trouble or his time when people tell him he needs to go to her and the cops and get the culprit. He wants everyone to know that he’s the only witness and since he can’t identify this “faceless” person, there’s no hope of catching him, when it’s really him. He’s trying to comfort himself with the idea that there are no witnesses, so no one can prove it’s him.
He posted a while back about his distaste for women and how he can’t have a normal relationship with them because they disgust him. So, he gets drunk, gets this girl incapacitated and has his way with her, because that’s the only way he can get release- with a girl who won’t judge him or dump him, as all the others have, or so he says, because they find out he’s weird and can’t bear to have sex with a woman because they disgust him, so they drop him and he feels worthless.
“I’m not going to sacrifice my reputation for some girl that couldnt’ control herself.”
For one, dirty cops are all over the place, and in a town where soemthing like this will be a big deal, they will have no problem trying to pin this thing on me so everyone goes to sleep happy. This girl was probably drugged or drunk and she could esasily confuse me with the rapists because I look familiar, and suddenly I’m screwed for trying to help someone out. Also, he made a good point that I’m not even sure of what I saw, for all I know it could be a totally different girl. Why should I go to jail for something I didn’t do? And for trying to help out. Maybe if the justice system wasn’t so screwed up…
I studied Criminal Justice in College for a while and one of my Professors was the Chief Police of a the City P.D.
A classic saying he had was ‘A criminal will always let you know who he is.’
Simply put, he meant, a person who commits a crime feels a need and compulsion to let someone else know, or give out clues as to his culpability in a crime.
Wether out of paranoia, fear, guilt, pride for his feat…a criminal mind always acts in ways as to unburden itself.
