I Am Becoming an A*shole

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[quote]niksamaras wrote:
For the past months, don’t know how long exactly, I have gradually stopped giving a shit what other people think of me or my actions, and I have stopped also caring what I say in public about anyone. I am not lying, I am saying the truth. I am not sharing anyone’s secrets, but if he does something I don’t like or approve, I am going to speak my mind, not in the nicest manner usually.

Therefore, I have turned into an asshole. Any advice for me? A book to read on self-restraint, psychology or something that will help me fix this? I have tried to just not speak my mind, but I can’t, I really can’t. It is slowly building up into me and then BOOM, all hell breaks loose. Any advice?[/quote]

Its ok to be an asshole. People even though they may not like it appreciate it and being fake is way worse.. I’ve never given a shit about what people think of me but Im 3rd generation asshole so I never had a choice.. I find that being a asshole gets me what I want faster and weeds out the turds in life. It also keeps people from bugging me about stupid shit.. The down side is people will either really like you or hate you. Theres no middle ground when your a douche bag..

Join the dark side

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[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]carbiduis wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:
Most people are assholes lately.

That isn’t an accomplishment.

This is only a good thing if your life is overall heading in a successful direction and you, family and friends are overall positive.

If you act like this and work as a cashier at Walmart with goals of one day working in the Stocking bay if you work hard enough, this is a cry for help.

If you act like this and don’t have a job because of your addiction to role playing games and skittles, this is a cry for help.

Being an asshole is only impressive if you make it work for you.[/quote]

This whole fucking thread is a cry for help.

OP how old are you?

If you’re a low quality person AND an “asshole”…in reality you are just a shitsmear. If you are a top notch human, but possess the qualities you have described, then you wouldn’t even make this thread.[/quote]

I have to agree here.

If you don’t care what people think, making this thread would not have crossed your mind.

Also, some people are assholes because they have emotional disorders. It is ok to ask for help with that.

However, no, being an asshole for the sake of it is just being another lemming taking up space.

if you are an asshole who has some seriously strong personal characteristics and goals and helps those around him reach for better, then yeah, be as “assholish” as you want.

No body wants to hear from the asshole who hasn’t done shit for anyone else or themselves.[/quote]

I figured you would say its OK to be an asshole as long as you are bigger, stronger, and more hardcore than the person you are being an asshole to … Because they deserve it, and you are … Well …bigger …and stronger …and more MF’n HARDCORE!!!

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Not giving a shit is the same as not worth a shit.
:slight_smile:

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[quote]Airtruth wrote:

[quote]BrickHead wrote:

[quote]Airtruth wrote:
Is getting mad that someone parks in front of my house being an asshole?[/quote]

Yeah. I’m not a tough guy but I’ve told off more than one person who thought they owned the street in front of their homes.

My grandfather once had his hands around some guy’s neck and said “You threaten him and I’ll kill you” because some tough guy rudely told my uncle he didn’t want him to park in front of his home and that he’d wreck his car if he did so. So Tough Guy/Asshole encountered an even tougher guy.

If someone is going to freely behave like an asshole, be ready. [/quote]

I generally don’t threaten, and usually if I threaten it’s probably going to happen unless the reasoning ends. Nothing tough about it, just don’t like to shell out empty threats. But if I ask nicely am I no longer an asshole?
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I’m assuming the street is not your property, so asking someone to move their car from where they are legally allowed to park is intrusive and rude.

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[quote]BlueCollarTr8n wrote:
Not giving a shit is the same as not worth a shit.
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Come on, 90% of the horseshit people throw in your way is best ignored.

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I’m addicted to role playing games, and skittles are my second favorite candy after Starbursts… am I in trouble?

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[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

So OP, what are you Really trying to tell us?

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Ram it up his poopchute?

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[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]SkyzykS wrote:

So OP, what are you Really trying to tell us?

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Ram it up his poopchute?[/quote]

Like a gay Evel Knievel!

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[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]TDub301 wrote:

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]Waittz wrote:

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]BrickHead wrote:

Yeah. I’m not a tough guy but I’ve told off more than one person who thought they owned the street in front of their homes.
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It’s a private street, I do own it.
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Techinally you dont. Try not paying your property tax, you’ll find out who really owns it pretty quickly. [/quote]

The same is true of any property but I’m pretty sure if someone parks on my patio I can have their vehicle removed.
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Is your patio built over top of the road in front of your house? If not, I’m having trouble seeing the relevance of your statement.

In general, if there’s a specific reason you don’t want them to park in front of your house, like, say it impedes your ability to get into your driveway or it takes space that you expect a friend or family member to use at some point, then no, you’re not an ass hole.

Also, if they park in front of your house when there’s plenty of space elsewhere for them to park, then that makes THEM ass holes.

Now, if you just don’t want them to park there because you’re a nazi about the road in front of your house and there’s nowhere else for them to park, then in my book, yes, you are a complete ass hole.

But maybe I’m just an ass hole for being honest.[/quote]

It is in relation to his statement that I will no longer own it if I fail pay the taxes. This is true of any property, including the property my patio is built on. Does not give anyone a RIGHT to park on private property, which includes private roads.

For the record I could not give two shits if someone parks in front of my house if there is a reason for them to be there, although it is a narrow dead end road and the neighbors lawn care guy has a tendency to make pulling in and out of my difficult. In fact I was such an asshole that I politely asked him to pull his rig forward so I could back into my drive like I normally do. You know what that asshole did? He said sure no problem and pulled up.[/quote]

Gotcha on the first part. I was looking at it from a “the street is not your personal property” angle.

Ya, it seems like you’re area is just swarming with ass holes, haha. It must cause a lot of tension.