[quote]tom63 wrote:
DouglasJ16 wrote:
It’s a tough situation no doubt. The guy on the cell phone was obviously being a dumb ass and didn’t handle the situation as best he could.
Maybe he deserved to take a punch or two–definitely not what he ended up getting though. It’s unfortunate that the guys in there didn’t do anything, though. Could they have held him down until the cops came? You bet. Did he have buddies in the car or a gun in his pants? Not sure…hindsight is 20/20, thats all I know.
It comes down to what TC wrote about a little bit ago: being a man. You have to try your best to think and do the right thing.
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If the fight has broken out already, the first task is a big failure. As people have mentioned it’s a way better idea to try to talk to these 2 guys and disarm them, get the one to apologize and tell the other dude he didn’t mean it and he’s dumb and you don’t want to end up in jail for killing him.
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WTF is with this lack of human decency? Mr. Hot Shot drug dealer feels the need to beat the hell out of this guy for making a fleeting comment about the dumb broad who did something wrong in the first place. It’s not a fair fight too, I mean I’m all for natural selection, but c’mon…you’re gonna try to kill this guy who’s 1/2 your size for a comment? A COMMENT?
He’s got parents, siblings, friends, a life it totally blows my mind that people make such a big deal out of such a small incident. Sure scare his ass, maybe push him around, but that just proves the big drug dealer is a coward and totally lacks any decency or sense of reality.
(Same goes for the grocery store hero… just pathetic)
- It seems people think being a man is being a bad ass in tough guy situations. (I will say a man DOES ACT, in situations when its needed) And I’m all for helping the guy in the video but like other said, what if it ended up getting someone shot and killed?
A real (smart) man would’ve done everything in his power to deescalate the situation. Just like a man wouldn’t beat a woman, try to shoot or stab someone unless it was life or death, or make a tiny incident–like a comment, grocery store line cut, or seat at a casino-- such a big fucking deal that someone will end up dead or in the ER.
Just like health and fitness (the basis of T-Nation)…most people have no idea how to, and don’t care to, learn to act the right way.
Exactly, your average tough guy I would do something would make it worse. The time to do something was before it got out of hand.
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IN poor innner city neighborhoods, people take respect VERY seriously. There are many theories on why this is and it explains why violent crime is higher in said areas. Its all in the upbringing. IF they were middle class its not as big of a deal, but from the neighborhoods they grew up in…respect and being a man is very vital