[quote]Mitchnasty wrote:
There is no such thing as “the one.” There are only people you are compatible with[/quote]
Wait wrong discussion
Personally, I think I"ll know when/if she comes along. This is why I adore sexually aggressive women. Once I’ve been fucked into submission, I find my frame of mind changes and I’m more ready to think about long term life stuff.
[quote]Bismark wrote:
How do you know when she is the one? How does she stand out from all of the other women you have had in your life?[/quote]
Agreed with most others on here, I mean you should love your future wife, but it’s a choice, and you need to objectively look at her and see if she is wifin material.
After a divorce and broken engagement, I physically wrote a list of what my next lady friend has to have for qualities. On the list were things like having a normal family, no absent parent or huge drinkers. She had to be a college grad and have a good job. I’d say I did well with my 2nd wife, can’t say anything bad about her. I was about 3 months into dating when I knew she was the one.
Rob
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
How about…
A little off her rocker, but lets you have the TW score in scrabble games (?)[/quote]
if I were young, single, and good looking I would drive up to the land of glaciers and wolverines just on the chance that you would go out with me!
If you have to ask the question than she is not the one.
[quote]DoubleDuce wrote:
Love is a choice. IMO the biggest reason marriages fail today is because people believe in “the one” and the “happily ever after”. Successful long term relationships are work. There is no magic chemistry that clicks in and fills your relationship with love and joy. You can only get out what you first put in.[/quote]
Well statistics say money and finances are the top reason for marriages failing. My personal opinion is that the top killer is when one or both give up simply because they are off the market. I mean that by letting themselves go or becoming contempt. This includes but is not limited too money, health, appearance, personal development, grooming etc.
[quote]silverblood wrote:
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
How about…
A little off her rocker, but lets you have the TW score in scrabble games (?)[/quote]
if I were young, single, and good looking I would drive up to the land of glaciers and wolverines just on the chance that you would go out with me![/quote]
Wow, you must really like getting the TW in scrabble…
You know she’s the one when you don’t feel the need to install a key logger on the computer.
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
You know she’s the one when you don’t feel the need to install a key logger on the computer.
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Or put a GPS Tracker on her car.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Honestly, its a leap of faith.
My motto is if you enjoy time with her outside of fucking and she makes good money, she is a keeper. [/quote]
The first one always gets me…
I was fairly certain my wife was ‘the one’ pretty early in the relationship. We went out on a semi-blind date (I had a mutual friend hook it up since I had no idea how to ask out a girl I had never talked to), and at the end already planned on going out again the next day (all day), and by the end of the weekend she was hanging out in my shop after work (we were stationed together on a ship). There was no conversation about ‘let’s get serious and see each other exclusively’, it just happened.
Can’t say there was ever an ‘aha’ moment, it all just kind of happened. We clicked really well from the start, and I put off initiating sex for a full month because I wanted to see where the relationship was going instead of jumping into bed too soon and potentially ruining it. I didn’t tell her this until later, it was just something I did. Paid off in spades, cause right around the month mark we ended up on the beach after leaving the bar we occasionally hung out at and she basically attacked me.
That was 17 years ago this coming summer, 15 years married in September. Honestly hasn’t taken a lot of work until a couple years ago when I decided to act like a selfish asshole. The secret is communication. We figured that out before we got married, and that has made everything else easy (or, easier).
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
Honestly, its a leap of faith.
My motto is if you enjoy time with her outside of fucking and she makes good money, she is a keeper. [/quote]
There’s always some risk but you can greatly mitigate that risk if you are smart about it. Unfortunately, the nicer her ass the harder it is for us to be smart.
Anal.
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
You know she’s the one when you don’t feel the need to install a key logger on the computer.
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Hey asshole!!!
that was actually really funny i LOL’d for real.
You’ll know if your Dick, Heart, and Mind can agree, then she’s the one to marry.
Hows your relationship with her mother?
[quote]randomonymous wrote:
[quote]SkyzykS wrote:
You know she’s the one when you don’t feel the need to install a key logger on the computer.
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Hey asshole!!!
that was actually really funny i LOL’d for real.[/quote]
Hi. I’m SkyzykS. I do stuff like that sometimes.
Its all for the lols. Nice to meet you.