How Do I Go About Approaching an Attractive Girl?

I have a prediction: at best, you will be friendzoned, forever a beta orbiter of this girl.

I also can tell you suck at being coached, as you are a know-it-all. Ergo, you will suck at life.

Start looking up the “incel” community. It’s your future.

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Damn, that’s cold.

But not far off the mark.

I’m generally not a fan of a lot of these sorts of terms. Like, the whole classification of males as alpha or beta tends to annoy me. BUT ‘beta orbiter’ is really good. And accurate, in this instance.

no. see, you made the following claim: ‘I have muscles’. You clearly don’t, based on the numbers you have posted. Soul was just reminding you of how small and weak and lacking in basic male qualities that you are.

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Then stop asking us for advice?

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Damn, the internet is a strange thing.

This thread just got good

Would not recommend. You got time to fix this though. This isn’t the only coaching/advice you’ve been resistant too @iamawesomedev

The oldest trick in the book.

I do not consider you making comments about my strength to be “advice.” This question has nothing to do with my strength. It is about building confidence. I understand you did give me sound advice, but those comments were unrelated.

My statement “I have muscle” was not refuted. It is biologically impossible to have no muscle at all. The weight on the bar has gone up, and I am making progress. It is going to take me a long time to get strong. I am 110 lbs when I began serious weight training. Before I started putting on fat, I was up to 125 lbs.

I apologize for being short with you earlier. That was uncivilized of me.

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Building strength has a lot to do with your level of confidence and Vice versa.

If you’re confident enough in the biological fact that you have muscle tissue in your body, you should be confident enough to approach this girl without any question.

Lol…

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Being stronger helps with girls. Strength is never a weakness

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Do you find practicing things makes you better or worse at said things?

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Damn!

Lighten the fuck up kid.

You know, I always notice that people who say they have high self esteem and confidence are usually inundated with suggestions to lighten up …

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Is this the same guy who was mediocre-to-bad at basketball and rejected everyone’s advice, including his coaches?

If not, they need to meet each other and talk about how great they should be, but everyone else is: stupid, biased, out to get them, or has lucky breaks.

I don’t think it’s the same guy - I don’t think it’s the same SN but that doesn’t mean the same guy didn’t create a new account.

I also think that guy was older than 16

It is. Years ago, a beta orbiter* of a girl I was sleeping with tearfully called me a “fucking Chad” when I was talking with him. I thought it was a reference to the Bush II/Gore Florida election (with “hanging chads”).

Anyway, I figured out what it was when that incel drove his van into a crowd and I read the wikipedia article.

  • Concur with the criticisms of “alpha” and “beta”, but I like the term “beta orbiter” to describe the disingenuous white knighters that circle around pretty girls as effectively slaves – they are not nice people. It is a quite dangerous game the girls play to have these servants, as these guys are one internet search away from drugging the girl and date rape.