How Can I Lower My Voice?

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[quote]Professor X wrote:
julia87 wrote:
Heres how I think:
In the end, when your dying, what would you think of more?

The power or wealth a person gave you, or the love and closeness? If it is what is to be the result, it is all that matters in the beginning to become true.

I do not expect to depend on someone else to make who I am, my personal identity, or to help me live whatever life I want-I make myself what I want to be, not someone else.

Im not a rare breed, I think that i think and id think other people think as well, regardless of what the “norms” are or other thoughts. You cares? You are who you are. So dont give me the:
“oh, well she is just Saying, they are just hollow words because she has boobies, and Ive seen how those booby people are, they just say one thing and do the other”

I guess I could not be a norm in that area, though Id think there are girls that dont bullshit out there, you and I just havent met any. My mom had borderline personality disorder among other things, she lied about her entire life to me-and most girls have been bitches to me yet my “friends” (?)

That doesnt mean I think all women are going to be that way. Everybody has differences, you cant just mark them down because of them being boobified…or fartified…or whatever -fied. I mean, its natural to be prejudiced about things but its also natural to think about how/those you judge too.

My comment didn’t have shit to do with your ‘boobies’ and everything to do with what I hear from most women when they aren’t specifically answering the question, “What do you want from a man?”.

I already wrote that the way you portray yourself is against the norm and even gave examples we have heard right here on this forum from women about how what type of shoes a guy wears actually mean something about his personality.

There seem to be some women on this site who take any generalization whatsoever as an afront to their entire personal being. Does it come as a surprise to you that men get grouped into one large group of dogs much more often?

We all have different experiences, and mine have informed me that most women…unless they are well educated or extremely goal oriented…are gold diggers. Any attempt to convince me otherwise would require a shit load of women who don’t fit that category.[/quote]

I think many [yes, perhaps not most women] will say they are looking for someone they love and can spend time and share things with. Someone they have some physical heat and a real connection. Yes, very few will choose insecurity and unstability if they find this with an unemployed artist. Unless perhaps they are independently wealthy or in a professional career where they will be the primary breadwinners. But most don’t have to make this choice. I’ve known plenty of women who passesd on extremely wealthy and prestigious guys they didn’t care about in favor of comfortable [monetarily] guys they did who would be able to make a solid living but didn’t look like they’d be setting the world on fire anytime soon. For a young person I’ve done pretty damn well and will make a good living. Still, I don’t think I’ll be the next Bill Gates. But I’ve also dated women who had the opportunity instead to date higher status or wealthier indivuduals. Maybe I’ve just met better women. There could be truth in what you said. Most of the women I have met have been well-educated or goal-oriented or at least come from good backgrounds. Perhaps the majority of women from a lower strata are mostly goldiggers. That could be true. But that doesn’t really matter. Why associate with those people? On a personal level, it shouldn’t really affect you anymore than most of this country being fat. It’s a shame and does cause some level of problems for all of us.

But shouldn’t affect daily life. Most people I know are not fat. Most women I know are not goldiggers.

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[quote]Classy_Cojones wrote:
Professor X wrote:
We all have different experiences, and mine have informed me that most women…unless they are well educated or extremely goal oriented…are gold diggers. Any attempt to convince me otherwise would require a shit load of women who don’t fit that category.

Which should lead anyone to conclude that it’s much better to be a hypermasculine, assertive guy with a great personality and tons of attitude, who gets to fuck his way through life, that someone who has the “opportunity” to marry a gold-digger courtesy of his bank account.

P.S: men who put two and two together and end up making the mental connection between their own abilities and their bank account will end up not really caring about the money.[/quote]

Well, ability and success are highly correlated. Of course, it depends on what field you are interested in. If your passion is for something that doesn’t provide a lot of money, you should still pursue that. You will be happier.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:
As far as how high someone’s voice is, Zap mentioned it may effect getting hired. I could see that happening if the person’s physical presence matched the voice. Otherwise, I don’t think it has all that much effect. I actually try to speak “softer” in some social situations (like meeting a patient for the first time) simply because I don’t want to make them uneasy. If I speak in my deeper range, I have had people act like they get nervous.[/quote]

Yeah. You just have to think about what’s appropriate. But as far as someone’s voice being truly high that could be a problem. OP, like that ERic guy on Jay Leno? You should look into the voice exercises that people mention.

I would think that there is some kind of surgery. I think there is one to raise people’s voices and make them higher [women usually get it obviously]. But I would consider that a last resort.

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[quote]jsbrook wrote:
Perhaps the majority of women from a lower strata are mostly goldiggers. That could be true. But that doesn’t really matter. Why associate with those people? On a personal level, it shouldn’t really affect you anymore than most of this country being fat. It’s a shame and does cause some level of problems for all of us.

But shouldn’t affect daily life. Most people I know are not fat. Most women I know are not goldiggers.
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Location, location, location.

Until recently, I was usually living within at least 10 miles of a college most of my life. You basically had your pick and could run into a woman who was at least going to most of her classes without even trying. In a situation like that, you would be right. However, I have had the wonderful experience of being in different parts of the country where the closest institution of higher learning might be a distant community college that most don’t even try to go to.

Needless to say…“slim pickin’s”. That is, except for Spring Break when it becomes a titty-fest which kind of breaks the monotony of ghetto-rats and half and half hoes. Maybe my standards are a little high…but I hate settling for MUCH less just because that is all that is geographically available. To my own fault, I don’t go to clubs much and don’t drink alcohol unless around people I trust (none of which are around me right now)so I am fully aware that I limit myself in that area.

Things will change soon enough…and perhaps, so will my perspective. Until then, I stand by my original statement. Most women are looking for a walking bank account with a dick. Many simply don’t have very good self esteem so they settle for less because more makes them feel self conscious.

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[quote]Professor X wrote:
jsbrook wrote:
Perhaps the majority of women from a lower strata are mostly goldiggers. That could be true. But that doesn’t really matter. Why associate with those people? On a personal level, it shouldn’t really affect you anymore than most of this country being fat. It’s a shame and does cause some level of problems for all of us.

But shouldn’t affect daily life. Most people I know are not fat. Most women I know are not goldiggers.

Location, location, location.

Until recently, I was usually living within at least 10 miles of a college most of my life. You basically had your pick and could run into a woman who was at least going to most of her classes without even trying. In a situation like that, you would be right. However, I have had the wonderful experience of being in different parts of the country where the closest institution of higher learning might be a distant community college that most don’t even try to go to.

Needless to say…“slim pickin’s”. That is, except for Spring Break when it becomes a titty-fest which kind of breaks the monotony of ghetto-rats and half and half hoes. Maybe my standards are a little high…but I hate settling for MUCH less just because that is all that is geographically available. To my own fault, I don’t go to clubs much and don’t drink alcohol unless around people I trust (none of which are around me right now)so I am fully aware that I limit myself in that area.

Things will change soon enough…and perhaps, so will my perspective. Until then, I stand by my original statement. Most women are looking for a walking bank account with a dick. Many simply don’t have very good self esteem so they settle for less because more makes them feel self conscious.
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True, true. You’re proably not gonna meet nice girls or spring break either. Not that nice girls don’t do both. It’s just unlikely to interact in a way with them that you get to know them. More about the hookup. But you’re a doctor. You must at least be starting to meet some nicer women. Through fellow residents or the wives of residents and such.

I’ve had pelnty of fun at bars and clubs. But as far as something more serious goes, I usually meet women of substance just though friends or through hobbies. Like running clubs and the like.

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Have Barry White’s entire family sit on your face.