OP I know other people have said similar things but I’m going to say it too. Lifting is always going to make you different than other people, you are always going to stand out… especially when you become a respectable size. People are going to remember one as “that buff dude”.
I have 17.5 inch arms now and everywhere I go people make comments about my body. They are good complements but at times I still find it annoying because I am a naturally shy person. I lift for my sake no one else’s and now when I go out to the bar people are always touching my arms and chest. It kind of creeps me out lol.
I know it sounds corny but you gotta accept who you are. Don’t let it consume you but embrace your lifestyle and how it makes you different. It makes you awesome. If people give you shit about it FUCK THEM. After high school you have the benefit of not having to hang out with shitty people all the time. Until then dig deep and keep doing your thing. Don’t let anyone ever hold you back. Not your parents, your friends, girlfriends, or anyone. The people that worth keeping in this world are the ones that inspire you to push it even further.
[quote]jtownlax wrote:
Ever time this kid says something i just ignore it and tell him to come up to my face and say it. he says “no ill get in trouble with the court system if we fight”. hes not worth my time. if he gets in my face ill knock him out besides that ill let go to community collage and work a minimum wage job all his life while hes a fattass.[/quote]
Like, seriously, I just got out of High School.
If you can form an articulate sounding sentence, and a sound argument, you really can’t lose.
Ask him why he feels the need to “pick” on you, you don’t have any beef with him, why should he have some with you?
Highschool isn’t some clusterfuck of animals…
Most of the kids who are the biggest cunts are the ones that nobody ever took the time to talk to about their actions, I honestly can’t tell you how many tense situations I put out in school, especially in sports-related situations, with effective communication.
It’s not hard to make someone realize their being a dick, especially if you be the bigger man and take the high road in confronting him both privately and non-violently.
Besides, you can “knock him out in 1 punch,” so what do you have to lose?
I’ve only been removed from high school for some time, so I’ll just give you my master plan. Only had to pull this nuke out once, because dude was 17, I had just turned 18, and his mom was our school districts highest officials, so noway I was beating his ass. But it did the job. There’s two ways to go about this. I used the first way, but the 2nd way is probably just as good.
1st Option:
Have hot female friend of your act interested in Fat Douche
Get said female friend to text and flirt with Fat Douche
Get said female friend to convince Fat Douche to send nudes to her (if he asks for her to send some first, just send a random pair of tits off the internet, no biggie)
(optional, but OHH such a good addition) Get hot friend to request something kinky ad humorous. (Dude I did this too, sent a dick pic, POSTED UP, WITH A COWBOY HAT AND SHADES ON!!!) Make her says she’s really into that type of shit.
Show every one Fat Douche’s beautiful physique and/or penis (direst correlation with smallness of victim’s wang and amount of lulz generated)
6)Profit
2nd Option:
Do same situation as above, but instead make a fake Facebook profile of some chick, and basically play the role of the hot female friend in the 1st Option. Take’s a little more skill, but just as funny
Be careful with this, however. If he’s underage TECHNICALLY it can be seen a child pornography in some cases, so don’t make flyers outta the picture or some shit. Just show everyone. ESPECIALLY if he has a big tummy / little dick combo. If he’s hung like a horse, well, accept defeat, and realize he CAN make fun of you, because he’s more of a man.
1st of all, if you’re going to fight, DO NOT do it on school property. It’s obviously preferable that you not handle things in the least creative way possible (which is with your fists. Come on. Monkeys think of better things to do with situations like this), but if you do, it’s incredibly important that you not do it at school. The punishment will be much worse if you do.
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whelp, there you go (again).
The above can be wrong wrong wrong. My son walked away from school property over the shopping center to duke it out. They got “arrested” and it was still considered a school incident since it started at school and he was suspended and disciplined. So to add to the suspension, we had to go to court for the fighting.
It’s advice like this is the reason you don’t have an advice column just yet.
I’m really laughing at those of you telling him to FIGHT this fool over some bullshit like this.
Fights in my school broke out over “real shit”…like Jose called your girl a fat ass during lunch hour…or someone keyed your car. This shit wouldn’t even register unless this is Beverly Hills 90210.
I was tiny in high school and I do not remember people picking in me or anyone else because of size. But then I really paid little attention to most others. When you have gang killings, an uptick in popular suicides and a growing herion problem in the school, who really cared about body size. And yes, I went to a good suburban school.
1st of all, if you’re going to fight, DO NOT do it on school property. It’s obviously preferable that you not handle things in the least creative way possible (which is with your fists. Come on. Monkeys think of better things to do with situations like this), but if you do, it’s incredibly important that you not do it at school. The punishment will be much worse if you do.
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whelp, there you go (again).
The above can be wrong wrong wrong. My son walked away from school property over the shopping center to duke it out. They got “arrested” and it was still considered a school incident since it started at school and he was suspended and disciplined. So to add to the suspension, we had to go to court for the fighting.
It’s advice like this is the reason you don’t have an advice column just yet.
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I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live.
[quote]Oleena wrote:
I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live. [/quote]
NFW is that a common practice, or an intelligent one. In this asininely litigious society that we live in, an administrator of any kind (be it principal, vice principal- whoever) is not going to assume that liability by condoning a fight.
I’m surprised that your vice principal didn’t end up on the evening news. Or did he?
[quote]Oleena wrote:
I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live. [/quote]
NFW is that a common practice, or an intelligent one. In this asininely litigious society that we live in, an administrator of any kind (be it principal, vice principal- whoever) is not going to assume that liability by condoning a fight.
I’m surprised that your vice principal didn’t end up on the evening news. Or did he?
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He didn’t. I don’t agree with the call or condoning fighting either (look at my original post). Unfortunately, some kids are still going to do it.
Thinking back, I bet one of the reasons that nothing came of it was that the area across the street from the high school wasn’t a public setting- it was a forest. No authorities were notified because no one saw it.
1st of all, if you’re going to fight, DO NOT do it on school property. It’s obviously preferable that you not handle things in the least creative way possible (which is with your fists. Come on. Monkeys think of better things to do with situations like this), but if you do, it’s incredibly important that you not do it at school. The punishment will be much worse if you do.
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whelp, there you go (again).
The above can be wrong wrong wrong. My son walked away from school property over the shopping center to duke it out. They got “arrested” and it was still considered a school incident since it started at school and he was suspended and disciplined. So to add to the suspension, we had to go to court for the fighting.
It’s advice like this is the reason you don’t have an advice column just yet.
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I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live. [/quote]
Again, wrong.
First, your assistance principal should have been fired for doing such a thing, but that’s beside the point.
My son had no “previous record”. Fighting is an automatic suspension. It had nothing to do with the specific law. It was school policy. School policy dictated that what began there, was still considered a school related incident even if it occurred off premises.
[quote]Oleena wrote:
I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live. [/quote]
NFW is that a common practice, or an intelligent one. In this asininely litigious society that we live in, an administrator of any kind (be it principal, vice principal- whoever) is not going to assume that liability by condoning a fight.
I’m surprised that your vice principal didn’t end up on the evening news. Or did he?
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I agree with the multiple points made that this is nothing to fight over. I disagree with the multiple suggestions to make sure the other kid throws the first punch. I doesn’t apply in this case since that other kid is never going initiate anything. It sounds like he just thinks he knows something about nutrition. In general, in cases of serious intimidation and harassment, you should make sure you throw the first punch. So what if you get suspended it will be worth the guarantee that no one will ever mess with you again. To be clear, I’m talking about kids in the age range of about 12 to 16.
[quote]on edge wrote:
I agree with the multiple points made that this is nothing to fight over. I disagree with the multiple suggestions to make sure the other kid throws the first punch. I doesn’t apply in this case since that other kid is never going initiate anything. It sounds like he just thinks he knows something about nutrition. In general, in cases of serious intimidation and harassment, you should make sure you throw the first punch. So what if you get suspended it will be worth the guarantee that no one will ever mess with you again. To be clear, I’m talking about kids in the age range of about 12 to 16.[/quote]
You’re never going to get that advice column at this rate. Never.
First, you punch first when you know you’re about to be attacked - not for “serious harassment or intimidation”. There are better ways to deal with that, and ways that are more instructive for becoming an adult.
And unless you’ve been living under a rock, kids in that age range have been known to escalate physical fights to the points of weapons, serious injury and death.
Shouldn’t you stick to what you know (whatever that may be)?
EDIT:
Although my reply stands, I thought it was Oleena, not On Edge. LOL
[quote]Professor X wrote:
I’m really laughing at those of you telling him to FIGHT this fool over some bullshit like this.
Fights in my school broke out over “real shit”…like Jose called your girl a fat ass during lunch hour…or someone keyed your car. This shit wouldn’t even register unless this is Beverly Hills 90210.[/quote]
I wont lie, I didnt read what the OP said.
This one time though, this guy said my GF had a penis so i called him a fat virgin out loud. Even the R.E. teacher laughed.
1st of all, if you’re going to fight, DO NOT do it on school property. It’s obviously preferable that you not handle things in the least creative way possible (which is with your fists. Come on. Monkeys think of better things to do with situations like this), but if you do, it’s incredibly important that you not do it at school. The punishment will be much worse if you do.
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whelp, there you go (again).
The above can be wrong wrong wrong. My son walked away from school property over the shopping center to duke it out. They got “arrested” and it was still considered a school incident since it started at school and he was suspended and disciplined. So to add to the suspension, we had to go to court for the fighting.
It’s advice like this is the reason you don’t have an advice column just yet.
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I’m sorry to hear your son got in trouble for this one. My advice was based off of an incident that happened at my own high school about 8 years ago. Two guys were fighting, the vice principle sent them across the street, they had their fight, and nothing ever came of it. I suppose it would have a lot to do with 1. The kid’s previous record, and 2. The law in the specific area where you live. [/quote]
Again, wrong.
First, your assistance principal should have been fired for doing such a thing, but that’s beside the point.
My son had no “previous record”. Fighting is an automatic suspension. It had nothing to do with the specific law. It was school policy. School policy dictated that what began there, was still considered a school related incident even if it occurred off premises.
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School policy is part of the specific law I was referring to in this situation. Obviously these policies are not universal.
[quote]on edge wrote:
I agree with the multiple points made that this is nothing to fight over. I disagree with the multiple suggestions to make sure the other kid throws the first punch. I doesn’t apply in this case since that other kid is never going initiate anything. It sounds like he just thinks he knows something about nutrition. In general, in cases of serious intimidation and harassment, you should make sure you throw the first punch. So what if you get suspended it will be worth the guarantee that no one will ever mess with you again. To be clear, I’m talking about kids in the age range of about 12 to 16.[/quote]
Throw the first punch in a situation where a douche is running his mouth about nonsense?
