[quote]Derek542 wrote:
She could probably out lift and kick your ass.
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This is were the anger kicks in lol
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
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You want to bang their heads off and they block cause they think you’re freaky?
What kind of dudes are you dating. Good lord.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
I take it English is not your first language.
Who is angry?
My wife is a latina, if you dont know what that is look it up. [/quote]
Take it easy derek, I didn’t mean to insult you
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
She could probably out lift and kick your ass.
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This is were the anger kicks in lol
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
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You want to bang their heads off and they block cause they think you’re freaky?
What kind of dudes are you dating. Good lord. [/quote]
HAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
No no no, not dating anyone.
Attempting to date/failing miserably/been single my entire life.
People always say , ohhh chicks could get laid easily, chicks can pick up dudes, etc etc, yadda yadda.
I ain’t a nasty woman, but I have literally been rejected by every single guy I’ve ever had a crush on.
SO STOP SAYING THAT STUFF PEOPLE CAUSE IT’S NOT ALWAYS TRUE!
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
I take it English is not your first language.
Who is angry?
My wife is a latina, if you dont know what that is look it up. [/quote]
Take it easy derek, I didn’t mean to insult you[/quote]
? How did you insult me.
[quote]undoredo wrote:
She might have more difficulty than most women in letting men know she’s interested without coming on too strong, or in not giving men too much of what they think they want, too soon.
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God knows how any female that is at least a 6/10 could have trouble getting laid or into a relationship.
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Isn’t this roughly the male analog of a woman saying “I don’t see how any employed, presentable male could have trouble getting a girlfriend”?
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Typically if I like a guy it usually takes me anywhere from 3-6 months before I have the courage to say hello.
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
It all goes down hill from there…
:S
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Maybe you should set a time limit on how long you will consider a crush to be “actionable”. If you have been thinking about a potential romantic interest more than two weeks without having a significant conversation with that person, perhaps your rule should be that situation is no longer “actionable” because you are now too screwed up in the head with regards to this person; and you will force yourself to look elsewhere.
I think I might have benefited greatly myself if I had used something similar to this rule when I was younger.
But I don’t know squat about these things. Ask some other people you know if they think this would be a good idea.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Typically if I like a guy it usually takes me anywhere from 3-6 months before I have the courage to say hello.
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
It all goes down hill from there…
:S
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I think I might have benefited greatly myself if I had used something similar to this rule when I was younger.
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Me too. Back in my single days If I acted on attraction I was fine but if I really started liking a girl before acting, I was toast.
[quote]Derek542 wrote:
She could probably out lift and kick your ass.
[/quote]
This is were the anger kicks in lol
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
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You want to bang their heads off and they block cause they think you’re freaky?
What kind of dudes are you dating. Good lord. [/quote]
HAAAAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaa
No no no, not dating anyone.
Attempting to date/failing miserably/been single my entire life.
People always say , ohhh chicks could get laid easily, chicks can pick up dudes, etc etc, yadda yadda.
I ain’t a nasty woman, but I have literally been rejected by every single guy I’ve ever had a crush on.
SO STOP SAYING THAT STUFF PEOPLE CAUSE IT’S NOT ALWAYS TRUE!
Some of us have a real hard time with dudes.
I will find someone someday.
YEP!!!
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I’ve known lots of attractive personable girls who’ve had a hell of a hard time meeting a man. I’ve been with my wife for over 20 years and in that time my wifes two younger sisters have had boyfriends for maybe a total of about 2 years. The youngest has never had a boyfriend in the time I’ve known her. Both the sisters are basically attractive with good personalities.
Of course an average girl could go out and get laid any time she wants if she’s willing to go out and tell a bunch of guys she would just like to ride some pony but how many chicks will actually go out and do that? It’s a lot safer, in many ways, for a girl to just stay home and slide a silky pillow between her legs.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Typically if I like a guy it usually takes me anywhere from 3-6 months before I have the courage to say hello.
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
It all goes down hill from there…
:S
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I think I might have benefited greatly myself if I had used something similar to this rule when I was younger.
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Me too. Back in my single days If I acted on attraction I was fine but if I really started liking a girl before acting, I was toast.
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So you’re saying that I have to somehow muster up the courage to talk to a dude I like within TWO WEEKS?!
I mean, it seems very logical and would probably be helpful, but yeesh.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Typically if I like a guy it usually takes me anywhere from 3-6 months before I have the courage to say hello.
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
It all goes down hill from there…
:S
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I think I might have benefited greatly myself if I had used something similar to this rule when I was younger.
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Me too. Back in my single days If I acted on attraction I was fine but if I really started liking a girl before acting, I was toast.
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So you’re saying that I have to somehow muster up the courage to talk to a dude I like within TWO WEEKS?!
I mean, it seems very logical and would probably be helpful, but yeesh.
That’ll take some getting used to…
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Two weeks?
Mystery had the three second rule, because if you dont do it by then your are already in your head, slowly freaking out.
[quote]undoredo wrote:
Isn’t this roughly the male analog of a woman saying “I don’t see how any employed, presentable male could have trouble getting a girlfriend”?
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Do you?
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Typically if I like a guy it usually takes me anywhere from 3-6 months before I have the courage to say hello.
And by that point I am usually already going mental with feelings of lustiness so when we do start conversing everything I say is totally infused with horny anxiousness/stupidity.
Then the dudes think I’m freaky and don’t wanna date me cause bitches be crazy.
It all goes down hill from there…
:S
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I think I might have benefited greatly myself if I had used something similar to this rule when I was younger.
[/quote]
Me too. Back in my single days If I acted on attraction I was fine but if I really started liking a girl before acting, I was toast.
[/quote]
So you’re saying that I have to somehow muster up the courage to talk to a dude I like within TWO WEEKS?!
I mean, it seems very logical and would probably be helpful, but yeesh.
That’ll take some getting used to…
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I didn’t say two weeks. I think the idea is to act before you are emotionally tied up, regardless of what the time frame is. If after five minutes of being attracted to a guy you become a train wreck, you better act within 4 minutes.
Both the sisters are basically attractive with good personalities.
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That doesn’t sound promising. [/quote]
You know, the average person is, well, average. The two sisters are a little above average in the looks department and I’d say well above average in the personality department. You would think that would be enough to meet someone. Life is complex and I’m sure they’ve got some issues going on but so do most other people too.
[quote]Prof wrote:
Edge if they live anywhere along the I5 corridor feel free to introduce us!
I’d like to think I’m basically attractive haha[/quote]
They are but in Southern California. Anyway, they are in their 40’s now and my comment on their looks was age adjusted. They aren’t good enough looking for you now.
Sorry OP, I can’t remember what the fuck this thread is about but I think a lot of perpetually single people would benefit by moving to smaller towns. I think in metro areas people have walls up that prevent them from connecting. When I lived in Southern California I saw over and over again friends leave to go “back home” and immediately meet someone, marry and now have a bunch of kids. One girl I knew moved away and a guy she left behind, just a friend, suddenly couldn’t live with out her. He talked her into coming back and now they are happily married with four daughters. He couldn’t act while she was there but when she was suddenly gone he did what he had to do.
