Okay. Little weird telling you this since I’ve told no one, but whatever. I have PCOS, have for years. The goods new? It can be absolutely controlled and gotten under control through the correct diet and exercise. The bad news? It is a life long commitment, and it takes a major lifestyle change.
She needs to learn how to meticulously manipulate her insulin levels with diet. I mean, she needs to keep a detailed food log and monitor the exact percentages of fat/protein/carbs going into her body, and note when the weight gain stops. No other diet is going to work…I tried them all, trust me.
For me, the diet had to have a high amount of fat (fish oils!), a good amount of protein, and very, very little carbs - I’m talking less than 30g a day. Most places say to keep protein highest, but for me, this was never effective. Keeping the fat higher keep the weight off.
In addition, bad foods have to go - all processed foods have to absolutely go. Starchy veggies like potatoes and corn have to go. She pretty much has to eat meat, veggies, nuts, oils, and fruit, and start drinking only milk, tea, coffee, and water. Very little saturated fat!
And…she has to start exercising at least an hour a day, and more than just running on a treadmill - something hard and something that involves the entire body. Kickboxing, racquetball, anything addictive, intensive, and that can be done for a long period of time that she enjoys.
This may sound like a jail sentence to some, and for the first four weeks or so she’s not going to be in the best mood, but after a month or so the diet becomes normal and the body changes start becoming apparent.
I was pushing towards the 325 mark at my highest; I developed skin tags on my arms and neck (which I can give instructions on getting rid of them ;)); my periods had likewise stopped for about 18 months before I went low carb.
Something interesting I noted, and this was the key that stopped a lot of the unwanted symptoms - after about 6 weeks of being very low carb, I just wanted some sugar, so I ate about 6 apples that day, a major sugar high - and three days late my period started.
I experimented, and for myself, I ate low carbs for the first half of the month, dropped extremely low for a week, and then spiked on carbs and my period would always start a few day later.
It was at this point that the weight started coming off fast - I’m talking, one month losing nearly 40lbs sort of fast (which led to gallbladder issues, argh). It did slow down, took about a year in total to lose it all. The adverse symptoms went away.
Today, a couple years after starting this, I don’t maintain a low carb diet constantly, though I do keep the carbs low in general - most of my meals are fish/poultry/beef with some rice and a lot of veggies, and snacks are nuts and couple pieces of fruit.
My period has returned, without diet manipulation. There is no more adverse effects - skin tags, weight gain, hair growth. Diet plays a big role in helping the symptoms, but I’m also convinced that regular, good, intensive exercise helps push it to a more effective level.
I exercise dame near every day.
It’s possible that this may not help her, but I am yet to meet/email a women with this issue that hasn’t been helped greatly by going low carb. If she nails the diet and starts really exercising in a way that will help increase muscle/strength, there’s a very good chance everything will change.
Here are some links that you may find interesting:
http://www.mja.com.au/public/issues/nov16/kidson/kidson.html#suba0
http://www.obgyn.net/pcos/pcos.asp?page=articles/pcos_and_diet_mckittrick
http://www.rtfm.com/lowcarb/lc-pcos.html
Good luck, and sorry for the mini essay.