Why do you think she would lie about it, if it didnt matter?
If she has a low body count, she’s probably chosen this man VERY carefully (which would mean this probably isn’t a one night stand) the way a man would be VERY careful with whom he proposes to.
I’d also say that if she’s having a one night stand, her body count is high enough to not feel much regarding emotional connection. It would be diminished the same way the 8th marriage proposal would be, because y’all are just doing it all willy nilly.
Of course not. They don’t see it that way because their feelings are their facts.
I’ve always strived to be the best version of myself and my successes in life have shown that. I do not see that my wife could retain a man who can provide for her and care for her the way i do.
Does that affect my relationship with her? Yes. She puts in effort to retain me. Have i changed any? Not really, i just let her - it makes both of us happy. Good women want to please their man (assuming he’s a good man).
BTW, these are all terrible, cold descriptive words. My wife and I are best friends and have been for years. I don’t view my relationship through this lense, i just know better than to let there be a better option out there. Phrased differently: “be the man she wants to cheat with”.
I’m trying to wrap my head around something here. Numerous times throughout the years posters on here have expressed a dim view on judging women’s number of sexual partners. It’s almost as if there’s a belief that such judgment is bad for women.
If I were a single man, and upon finding out a prospect’s, I ended association with her, would I be harming her? Would there be harm if she no longer could see me? I don’t get this?
That’s at an individual level. Or, do people have a grievance with collectively judging women for this? That is, if theoretically, nearly all men said, “the party is over,” and partook in a peaceful revolt and judged women on sex-partner count and stopped not only tolerating, but promoting their anti-social activities.
Where’s the harm in this?
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I actually know a gorgeous woman who was engaged six times. 
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Maybe she’s changed. Maybe she doesn’t want to be judged by dudes who think it’s manly to bed women but it’s slutty for women to have sex. Maybe she doesn’t want to be judged by insecure dudes who are afraid of comparison. Who knows? The point is her behavior is what should matter, not some arbitrary number.
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Its the old double standard. Guys with high body count = stud.
Women with high body count = tramp.
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Remember when people would strive for career success, health, sex and status… and none of it had anything to do with pills or the identity crisis behind their color labeling?
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… really? yikes.
You didn’t answer my question:
This double standard has existed forever. Men can impregnate 5 women a day but women can only have one child (unless twins) a year.
Don’t forget Pre-Selection Bias, which favors men - not women. Feel free to reference Just Go With It, where Adam Sandler literally gets more attention from women due to wearing a fake wedding band. It wouldn’t be a movie if it wasn’t a thing.
That is because men are seed spreaders and women are meant to select the best seed.
We simply are not the same. That is not a crazy concept.
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No, its quite clear.
But none of that explains why the double standard is not hypocrisy.
Saying “It has been like that for ever” doesn’t rationally justify anything. Neither does “Clearly we’re different” to a guy that has been tapping ass since before you were even a thought. 
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The socio-biological process behind why the standard exists explains why it is not hypocrisy.
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hypocrisy tends to mean “rules for thee but not for me”, but with the subtext that you are equal. Simply put, men and women are not equal.
I don’t advocate for men just ramming through women either, however there tends to be little psychological damage to men with high body counts but the opposite can absolutely be said for women with high body counts.
So why do you not yet understand this while I’m (probably) at least 15 years your junior?
And what is that socio-biological process?
It there some magical transformation that takes place after a woman has slept with X number of men?
Do you have any daughters?
Would you prefer they have a high or low body count and why?
If your arms get as big as your head has, you’ll be in the running for an ifbb pro card.
I’m pushing the last 2-3 snaps on a Snap Back (for real), so you’re correct.
If you’ll answer this question for me though:
Nah. We’re done.
Go get your info off of that redit pitty party.
This is about what I expected.
I wasn’t even being a dick, you were the one who tried using your age as if it showed you were correct.
You were definitely trying to be a condescending asshole.