Got Dumped

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]rrjc5488 wrote:
And since I’m sure Orion’s reading this thread, I’d like to thank him for recommending the book of pook.

So, uhh, you know. Thanks. [/quote]

You know why I do this, right?

When I was your or OPs age none of this was around.

Since I and men my age were the avant guarde, at least in my country we experienced what an avant guarde is designated to experience, we got slaughtered.

Now, I will not get those years back, or the missed opportunities, or the one or two women I actually could and would have married in good conscience as fucked up as the deal is, but it was my generation, with the help of the rise of the internet who compared notes and found out that, across continents, our experiences were the same.

If I can unplug a few guys who then go on to life their lives on their own terms I still wont get any of it back, but it will have made sense and served some purpose.

So dont thank me, I thank you. [/quote]
Wow, that was genuinely really nice.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in Jäger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro

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[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

I’m over her I don’t care much for her anymore. I’m transferring to a different university next year so i’m sure i’ll meet many new girls. She fed a lot of the feminist bull-shixt into me when I was a young teen. Which basically turned me into an emasculated pus*y. Just gotta keep lifting I will be posting before and after pics in the next 7-9 months so be on the look out for it.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ??Ã?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

I’m over her I don’t care much for her anymore. I’m transferring to a different university next year so i’m sure i’ll meet many new girls. She fed a lot of the feminist bull-shixt into me when I was a young teen. Which basically turned me into an emasculated pus*y. Just gotta keep lifting I will be posting before and after pics in the next 7-9 months so be on the look out for it.
[/quote]

Okay.

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ???Ã??Ã?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

I’m over her I don’t care much for her anymore. I’m transferring to a different university next year so i’m sure i’ll meet many new girls. She fed a lot of the feminist bull-shixt into me when I was a young teen. Which basically turned me into an emasculated pus*y. Just gotta keep lifting I will be posting before and after pics in the next 7-9 months so be on the look out for it.
[/quote]

Okay.[/quote]
L-O-L

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[quote]EmilyQ wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ???Ã??Ã?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

I’m over her I don’t care much for her anymore. I’m transferring to a different university next year so i’m sure i’ll meet many new girls. She fed a lot of the feminist bull-shixt into me when I was a young teen. Which basically turned me into an emasculated pus*y. Just gotta keep lifting I will be posting before and after pics in the next 7-9 months so be on the look out for it.
[/quote]

Okay.[/quote]

ok ok

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[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

Great post QW. I have two questions though. Where do you bank that lets you have a negative balance, and where do you get bags of milk?

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[quote]on edge wrote:

[quote]Quiet Warrior wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I went back and looked at some of those messges and cringed very hard. One message that I sent…“I don’t want to live on this planet without you and you can make this pain go away”.She probably took it as me trying to manipulate her into getting back together by threatning suicide. (FYI I was never suicidal)
[/quote]
no man
she propably laughed her ass off, send your message to all of her friends and met to chit chat over a few glasses of sweet wine about how fucking shallow you are.
Then she went to a club and made out with a guy she got by having her friend use the “she just broke up with her boyfriend and is sooo vulnerable” strategy.

I honestly can’t believe how you could possibly keep thinking about this woman.
Look at what you let her do to you. You got trouble with your back, you are out of shape, you stopped caring about yourself, you lost a good amount of money.
And I don’t mean the 500$ she stole from your dumb ass but the thousands of dollars you spend on her when she was with you.
She simply got bored and dumbed you, because you weren’t giving her any thrills anymore.

I’d be angry for all of what happened. Not at her, because you can’t change a woman anyway, but at yourself.
Look at how dumb you behaved, look at the mistakes you made. I’d propably try to drown myself in JÃ??Ã?¤ger if I was you right now.

The only solution is:
change it. Really, start over. Attack those weights with vengeance, surround yourself with positive things.
the walls of my entire appartment are plastered with athletes, role models, runes and symbols for strength and perseverance from all over the world. I have never even once suffered from depression, even when my bank account was at -1000, i had pennies in my pockets and the only thing in my fridge left was a bag of milk on sunday morning.

A positive mindset will get you out of the shitter, no matter how deep you’re stuck in it.

As orion seems to be in the mood to give stuff away I’ll contribute with Rev Shannon’s Predatory female.

Good luck bro
[/quote]

Great post QW. I have two questions though. Where do you bank that lets you have a negative balance, and where do you get bags of milk?[/quote]

My god, do they keep their milk in bags in Austria?

That explains a lot.

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[quote]on edge wrote:
Great post QW. I have two questions though. Where do you bank that lets you have a negative balance, and where do you get bags of milk?[/quote]
By -1000 I meant the amount of money I borrowed while my bank account was arround zero.
And yes there is such thing as milk bags, i just looked it up

Crazy canadians.

What I meant though was a milk carton. nevermind.
Imagine all that i said with an arnold esque accent and it will start to make sense to you.

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“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

What my ex just sent me after I followed the advice on here and ignored her text. Don’t know what to think of this. This wasn’t the entire message of course it was a bit longer.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

What my ex just sent me after I followed the advice on here and ignored her text. Don’t know what to think of this. This wasn’t the entire message of course it was a bit longer. [/quote]

Well, if it were me I’d start by thinking she’s an asshole. Then, I’d probably get a diet coke and think about maybe eating some potato chips, which is what I just did without getting a text like that. Just because it seemed like a good thing to think about and my weight is down a bit.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

What my ex just sent me after I followed the advice on here and ignored her text. Don’t know what to think of this. This wasn’t the entire message of course it was a bit longer. [/quote]

I think she’s a bitch who is trying to make herself feel better judging by this response.

Hell, it should make you feel better about moving on.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

What my ex just sent me after I followed the advice on here and ignored her text. Don’t know what to think of this. [/quote]

Dont know what to think of this?

How do make an attention whore rage?

You dont give her any.

She is fishing for a reaction, any reaction.

The only reply she would get from me are my banking details and the amount she owes me.

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[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

What my ex just sent me after I followed the advice on here and ignored her text. Don’t know what to think of this. [/quote]

Dont know what to think of this?

How do make an attention whore rage?

You dont give her any.

She is fishing for a reaction, any reaction.

The only reply she would get from me are my banking details and the amount she owes me. [/quote]

Pretty much this, but if you do respond about the money make sure you handle it like a man. You respond something like ‘Sara, I’m sorry you’re hurt, I really just didn’t have much to say. Hey, regarding that 5 hundred bucks you owe me, are you able to pay me back yet? If you’re having a hard time I don’t mind a all if you just send me a hundred bucks a month until it’s paid off’. However she responds, whether its good or bad, don’t respond yourself. Just cash checks if they show up.

Don’t ask how I know her name is Sara.

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Btw, her message to you was a win for you. I know it didn’t feel like a win but it was. You got to her.

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So I’ve been noticing some weird things going on lately. When I’m at work when I pick up the phone there’s always an unresponsive person on the other line, once I say “hello like three times” they hang up. Didn’t think much of it at first but then the same thing has been happening on my cell as an “unknown” number. I’m beginning to think it’s my ex doing this just to hear my voice, what should I do about this?

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[quote]spar4tee wrote:
When it comes to gym:
Train hard. Train smart. Do both at the same time. Learn as much as you can from people that are badasses. Don’t be a bitch, but also learn it’s not that serious.

When it comes to women:
Play hard. Play smart. Do both at the same time. Learn as much as you can from people that are badasses. Don’t be a bitch, but also learn it’s not that serious.

Don’t do one for the other. Do both because you want to do both.

Don’t get into the habit of being shit at school either.[/quote]

This. People who think they missed out by not lifting weights cause they were with a girl are fucking idiots. You are with someone they’re going to want your time. It’s only natural.
Your fault for not managing your time properly.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
So I’ve been noticing some weird things going on lately. When I’m at work when I pick up the phone there’s always an unresponsive person on the other line, once I say “hello like three times” they hang up. Didn’t think much of it at first but then the same thing has been happening on my cell as an “unknown” number. I’m beginning to think it’s my ex doing this just to hear my voice, what should I do about this?[/quote]

From the way this thread has gone, I’d bet that you are the one calling her just to hear her voice.

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elliot has the answer

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[quote]Uncle Gabby wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
So I’ve been noticing some weird things going on lately. When I’m at work when I pick up the phone there’s always an unresponsive person on the other line, once I say “hello like three times” they hang up. Didn’t think much of it at first but then the same thing has been happening on my cell as an “unknown” number. I’m beginning to think it’s my ex doing this just to hear my voice, what should I do about this?[/quote]

From the way this thread has gone, I’d bet that you are the one calling her just to hear her voice. [/quote]

hahaha no actually i’ve met a girl who is the same major as me, lifts, and is hotter than my ex. I’m doing just fine without her and I bet it’s killing her right now. I deleted her off FB a while back and she probably noticed it recently and that’s why she’s doing this. Either way i’m lifting, got a hot girl friend with similar interest, have a decent job, and have all A’s so far. I’m doing fine, btw I i’d like to thank everyone that gave me advice ITT whether it was nice or mean I had to hear it.