Got Dumped

[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
If the date goes south thrown your drink in her face. That’s what real men do! [/quote]
Then slam her purse and awkwardly stutter leave.

So I went back and read the rest of this farce.

You want to go to med school.

Consider this. This special unique one of a kind person has already shown her willingness to use the nuclear option and ruin your life FOREVER.

Let me reiterate. FOREVER. Can you imagine what would happen if you got back together, got married and then divorced. You would be crucified.

All she has to do is lie once, for whatever reason, or even exaggerate and you are done.

Run for your fucking life.

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]nsimmons wrote:
3/3 Consensus.
The forum speaks

I will add that you completely ignoring her forever will damage her ego, and you are doing some future guy a favour.[/quote]

Everything was said out of spite. She contacted me so I’m sure she’s swallowed her pride. She’s not a bad person we just got hit with a perfect storm.I’m in a lot better shape than I was when I made this thread so we’ll see how she reacts to that. I never said that my primary goal was to get back together. [/quote]
I can’t believe what I’m reading lol

You’re an idiot.

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Meeting her for the first time since the break up this Saturday. I’m sure it’ll be very emotional. What are the do’s and don’ts?[/quote]

I hope it is to throw a drink in her face and toss her purse on the ground.

edit: son of a bitch I knew I should have read the whole thread!

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Meeting her for the first time since the break up this Saturday. I’m sure it’ll be very emotional. What are the do’s and don’ts?[/quote]

I hope it is to throw a drink in her face and toss her purse on the ground.
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[quote]usmccds423 wrote:
If the date goes south thrown your drink in her face. That’s what real men do! [/quote]

[quote]Testy1 wrote:
edit: son of a bitch I knew I should have read the whole thread![/quote]

lol

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Meeting her for the first time since the break up this Saturday. I’m sure it’ll be very emotional. What are the do’s and don’ts?[/quote]

Normal people can generally meet their ex’s and be fine. It’s been 8 months since you made the OP and I would hope you would be over it by now especially since this was not a mature relationship.

I went to a small-ish private college and had occasions where I was around an ex and didn’t have any real issues. But that probably had more to do with the nature of my college and its social scene where avoiding someone would be obvious and look childish. I was distraught after my first LT GF dumped me but I was seriously over it within a month and was able to fuck her a few times afterwards without rekindling lost feelings. That’s where you want to be.

But it’s clear you still have feelings for her based on your recent posts and the way you predicted “it’ll be very emotional”. The final straw is she filed a restraining order on you. Either she is not stable or you are not stable for that to have happened. I would never ever willingly meet with someone who filed a restraining order on me no matter who’s fault it was. There’s no reason for any meeting to be emotional 8 months after a relationship between teenagers.

You should have bounced back already. You say you are in better shape. If so you should have confidence to put yourself out there and get some strange. You only live once and you’re only in your early 20s going to college once. Do not waste it. You also have some growing up to do and it’s better to get it done now than later because worthwhile women outside of college do not want immature boys.

Met her today. Found out she fuked some other guy 1 month prior. Once I heard that I excused myself to go to the bathroom and never came back. She’s probably still waiting for me to come back (oh the irony) anyways good riddance. Thanks guys

Thank you for not going full retard. Or you know… throwing your drink in her face… or slamming her purse on the ground.

I feel kinda bad for her. Her life is so bad that the she has to mess w/ some guy’s emotions from 2 months ago in order to feel good about herself? pathetic

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Met her today. Found out she fuked some other guy 1 month prior. Once I heard that I excused myself to go to the bathroom and never came back. She’s probably still waiting for me to come back (oh the irony) anyways good riddance. Thanks guys[/quote]

I’ll give you an F for execution, but a B for recovery. Ordering a huge meal and leaving would have received an A.

Just got an email from her telling me she’s pregnant with my baby. If true I fucked up so badly smh.

HAHHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAA!!!

if that’s true you are a fucking idiot.

When’s the last time you fucked her?

I think about 36-48 hours before she told me. Well there goes half my future salary.

And how about the last time before that?

there’s no way she can know after 2 days.

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
And how about the last time before that?

there’s no way she can know after 2 days.

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She said she was throwing up all morning and felt very fatigued. When she went to her doctor he said she’s likely pregnant. He advised her to take the test next week to know for sure.

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:

[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
And how about the last time before that?

there’s no way she can know after 2 days.

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She said she was throwing up all morning and felt very fatigued. When she went to her doctor he said she’s likely pregnant. He advised her to take the test next week to know for sure. [/quote]
You don’t get fucking morning sickness after 48 hours bozo, lol.

Morning sickness CAN however start as soon as a month in… Which sounds like the exact time when she fucked some other guy.

Don’t you dare do anything unless you obtain DNA proof, in person, from the doctor.