Got Dumped

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“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
These past few months I believe I have done everything I could possibly do to forget about her. I’ve focused at my job (got a promotion and raise),Focused in School (got very decent grades), focused on lifting (made excellent gains). I even tried getting a new gf whom sounds much better on paper but all I ever did was compare her to my ex and it wasn’t fair for her so I just let that go a month ago. I know i’m going to get flamed for this question but is possible even in the slightest to get back together with her and have everlasting relationship? [/quote]
Alright that’s it. Fuck it. Yes. Throw yourself at her. Get back in touch and do everything you can to win her back.

Have a nice fucking life.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I even tried getting a new gf whom sounds much better on paper but all I ever did was compare her to my ex and it wasn’t fair for her so I just let that go a month ago. [/quote]

Of course you compared the new GF to your ex - she was all you fucking knew!

You’re 20 or 21 and dated her for 3 years. Live another 10 years and have a bunch more relationships, then - maybe - you can compare them to your ex hosebeast.

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chill boys,

youngen make youngen decisions. This is par for the course so don’t flip out on him.

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I had dozens of successful relationships in my early 20’s, none of which ended in marriage.

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[quote]twojarslave wrote:
I had dozens of successful relationships in my early 20’s, none of which ended in marriage.

[/quote]

Right?

This is an awesome attitude. We need to stop looking at every relationship that doesn’t end in a trip down the aisle as a “failed” relationship.

I had a 10 year marriage end, and with the lessons I’ve learned - that I put to good use in a new relationship - I don’t even use the term “failed”

A failed relationship is one that you’ve learned nothing from.

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PIIHB A2M then JK CYA FTMFW

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But really Csulli is 100% correct about there really only being one way to screw this up, and you seem to be headed right nicely down that path. So good luck on your future goals, I don’t know why we are even wasting our time.

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If you want to get back with her, this is your opening. It’s also you’re opening to lay the ground rules. I don’t remember much of your situation but didn’t she discourage you from training? Obviously shit like that has to stop.

Also, it’s not victory until you PIIHP.

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Gf of 2.5 years just recently left me. I was an avid lifter before I met her. I was only 17 at the time but I was in love with lifting weights. Anyways eventually once college came I had to choose between her or lifting. I chose her like an idiot and she left me about a month ago. I’m in the worst shape of my life but began lifting about a couple of weeks ago.

I’ve never been so motivated in my life to get into the BEST possible shape I can be. Anyone else have similar stories?[/quote]

If a woman makes you choose, never choose the woman. It’s always a lose situation.

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[quote]pat wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
Gf of 2.5 years just recently left me. I was an avid lifter before I met her. I was only 17 at the time but I was in love with lifting weights. Anyways eventually once college came I had to choose between her or lifting. I chose her like an idiot and she left me about a month ago. I’m in the worst shape of my life but began lifting about a couple of weeks ago.

I’ve never been so motivated in my life to get into the BEST possible shape I can be. Anyone else have similar stories?[/quote]

If a woman makes you choose, never choose the woman. It’s always a lose situation.[/quote]

Great wisdom!

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This had me believing you are a solid man and moving forward with your life.

Just keep doing the stuff in the first paragraph and work on you man. After some time you can try and go find another woman, if one doesn’t fall into your lap first.

[quote]

I know i’m going to get flamed for this question but is possible even in the slightest to get back together with her and have everlasting relationship? [/quote]

You’re damn right you’re gonna get flamed for this. Or at least you should. You sound like a real bitch right here. (I know I have done the same stupid shit before) Move the FUCK on man. Move the FUCK on! That means MOVE THE FUCK ON! <I would type this bigger if I could

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Sack up, dude. Imagine if a friend of yours was in the same situation as you. You’d tell him to not be a dumbass, right?

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[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
So, you want to know if you should respond to the ex who:

  1. dumped you
  2. owes(d) you money
  3. filed a restraining order against you, and
  4. sent you this message: “I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

The only reason she’s contacted you again is she either is lonely and figures she can get some easy attention from you, or her self-esteem is in the shitter and she knows you’re easily manipulatable.

Do not reply, delete her info from your phone and computer so you’re not tempted to contact her when you’re feeling lonely, and go about with your fucking life.

You are not a person to her right now, you’re a salve for her ego. Once she gets her little ego boost, she’s done with you. Again.
[/quote]
(Just in case it’s not clear: the above implies that the answer is “no”.)

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[quote]mbdix wrote:

This had me believing you are a solid man and moving forward with your life.

Just keep doing the stuff in the first paragraph and work on you man. After some time you can try and go find another woman, if one doesn’t fall into your lap first.

I’m going to take your advice. I’m going to focus on my studies so I can get into medical school in two years. I guess I’ve got to let go. Thanks everyone

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[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I’m going to take your advice. I’m going to focus on my studies so I can get into medical school in two years. I guess I’ve got to let go. Thanks everyone [/quote]
Phew, thank God!

Anyway, we’ll see you back here in a couple months I guess; good luck till then :wink:

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[quote]csulli wrote:

[quote]Justliftbrah wrote:
I’m going to take your advice. I’m going to focus on my studies so I can get into medical school in two years. I guess I’ve got to let go. Thanks everyone [/quote]
Phew, thank God!

Anyway, we’ll see you back here in a couple months I guess; good luck till then ;)[/quote]

How are you with GPS trackers?

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HAHA. I got cheated on and dumped by the start of last month. Now I’m planning on taking her hella more mature coworker to my second powerlifting competition in a couple of weeks!

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[quote]Dr. Pangloss wrote:
“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals”

“I tried to be nice to you but it’s obvious you’ve moved on. You think you’re better than me HA! I’m glad i’m not with you and I bet you’re still crushed over it. You’ll never find a girl like me but you can try looking. Anyways I don’t even know why i’m wasting my time good luck with your future goals” [/quote]

Haha, yay.

Excellent, well-stated advice, Dr. P.

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Don’t worry man.
I’ve had worst situations.
We all go through this.

My workout partner is a clinic psychologist and he says, when people are depressed and sad, that’s because they choose to be so!
Instead of focusing how to improve and move forward to find another girl, they focus on the past and how good they felt.

You’ll make it!