Gold's Gym Massage Nightmare

[quote]Airtruth wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]dirtman wrote:
His word against hers …he can say it was consensual or deny it out right. Unless she has proof IE video or DNA sample. I suspect money grab. But knowing our society just her saying he assaulted her is enough to wreck this guys rep.

You have to wonder if criminal charges were brought up? [/quote]

Even still, this isn’t much difference than spitting on someone according to her. No “abuse” actually happened…and I find it hard to believe that someone can have someone masturbate behind them standing that close in a private room and not know it until the orgasm.

She wasn’t raped. I hoped this gets thrown out unless she can PROVE something.[/quote]
Hahaha,

Dude, spitting on someone is not comparable to cumming on them. One is a sexual act, one isn’t.

I agree proof should be validated in the interest of innocence until proven guilty however if he were rubbing a hand up and down her calf, with her face shoved in that little face hole on massage tables, in a relaxed state with music playing, he could’ve wacked off with his other hand.

It’s not impossible he would play his jizz off like heated oil and rub her feet with it either.

Regardless, I’m willing to bet he broke workplace rules and was fired, criminality aside.[/quote]

I was being hyperbolic about the spitting. The point was, she was NOT assaulted here and she was apparently blind and deaf for at least…what…two-six minutes? What’s the average jerk time?

I am guessing…unless EXTREMELY talented, he would need at least one hand for this deed and at least one to massage someone.

I don’t care what anyone says…this guy was a MASTER!!![/quote]
I don’t know everything sexual assault law encompasses but if somebody came on me, I would certainly feel sexually violated.
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Pretty much…

This is beyond spit, although I believe spit is considered assault in some places. Sexually getting off by touching some form of my body without permission is definitely sexual assault, otherwise Sandusky would be a free man.
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Sandusky touched your body?

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Airtruth wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]dirtman wrote:
His word against hers …he can say it was consensual or deny it out right. Unless she has proof IE video or DNA sample. I suspect money grab. But knowing our society just her saying he assaulted her is enough to wreck this guys rep.

You have to wonder if criminal charges were brought up? [/quote]

Even still, this isn’t much difference than spitting on someone according to her. No “abuse” actually happened…and I find it hard to believe that someone can have someone masturbate behind them standing that close in a private room and not know it until the orgasm.

She wasn’t raped. I hoped this gets thrown out unless she can PROVE something.[/quote]
Hahaha,

Dude, spitting on someone is not comparable to cumming on them. One is a sexual act, one isn’t.

I agree proof should be validated in the interest of innocence until proven guilty however if he were rubbing a hand up and down her calf, with her face shoved in that little face hole on massage tables, in a relaxed state with music playing, he could’ve wacked off with his other hand.

It’s not impossible he would play his jizz off like heated oil and rub her feet with it either.

Regardless, I’m willing to bet he broke workplace rules and was fired, criminality aside.[/quote]

I was being hyperbolic about the spitting. The point was, she was NOT assaulted here and she was apparently blind and deaf for at least…what…two-six minutes? What’s the average jerk time?

I am guessing…unless EXTREMELY talented, he would need at least one hand for this deed and at least one to massage someone.

I don’t care what anyone says…this guy was a MASTER!!![/quote]
I don’t know everything sexual assault law encompasses but if somebody came on me, I would certainly feel sexually violated.
[/quote]

Pretty much…

This is beyond spit, although I believe spit is considered assault in some places. Sexually getting off by touching some form of my body without permission is definitely sexual assault, otherwise Sandusky would be a free man.
[/quote]
Sandusky touched your body?[/quote]

Don’t look at me like that

[quote]Airtruth wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Airtruth wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]CargoCapable wrote:

[quote]Professor X wrote:

[quote]dirtman wrote:
His word against hers …he can say it was consensual or deny it out right. Unless she has proof IE video or DNA sample. I suspect money grab. But knowing our society just her saying he assaulted her is enough to wreck this guys rep.

You have to wonder if criminal charges were brought up? [/quote]

Even still, this isn’t much difference than spitting on someone according to her. No “abuse” actually happened…and I find it hard to believe that someone can have someone masturbate behind them standing that close in a private room and not know it until the orgasm.

She wasn’t raped. I hoped this gets thrown out unless she can PROVE something.[/quote]
Hahaha,

Dude, spitting on someone is not comparable to cumming on them. One is a sexual act, one isn’t.

I agree proof should be validated in the interest of innocence until proven guilty however if he were rubbing a hand up and down her calf, with her face shoved in that little face hole on massage tables, in a relaxed state with music playing, he could’ve wacked off with his other hand.

It’s not impossible he would play his jizz off like heated oil and rub her feet with it either.

Regardless, I’m willing to bet he broke workplace rules and was fired, criminality aside.[/quote]

I was being hyperbolic about the spitting. The point was, she was NOT assaulted here and she was apparently blind and deaf for at least…what…two-six minutes? What’s the average jerk time?

I am guessing…unless EXTREMELY talented, he would need at least one hand for this deed and at least one to massage someone.

I don’t care what anyone says…this guy was a MASTER!!![/quote]
I don’t know everything sexual assault law encompasses but if somebody came on me, I would certainly feel sexually violated.
[/quote]

Pretty much…

This is beyond spit, although I believe spit is considered assault in some places. Sexually getting off by touching some form of my body without permission is definitely sexual assault, otherwise Sandusky would be a free man.
[/quote]
Sandusky touched your body?[/quote]

Don’t look at me like that[/quote]
I can’t help it. You should’ve stayed quiet.

No pics of the chic? I am disappoint.

[quote]Airtruth wrote: Sexually getting off by touching some form of my body without permission is definitely sexual assault, otherwise Sandusky would be a free man.
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in this case, it’s clearly not sexual assault, but

battery AND
vicarious liability AND
negligence AND
negligent hiring AND
negligent supervision AND
emotional suffering AND
psychological suffering

Sometimes, I can very much see the advantages that introducing sharia courts in Germany would produce.

I can’t even imagine my reaction to feeling something odd on my foot and turning to discover that it’s some guy’s penis and he’s ejaculating on me. I would be completely freaked out by it. It would absolutely be sexual assault.

I’m laughing thinking about this woman’s profit motive as imagined by defenders. Dude works in a gym and woman can afford personal trainers and massages. What’s she after, do you suppose?

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
What’s she after, do you suppose? [/quote]

Dude was on the job, so she would obviously also be suing Gold Gym owner and Golds Gym corporate if was a franchise location (not sure if corporate actually owns locations or not).

[quote]waldo21212 wrote:

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
What’s she after, do you suppose? [/quote]

Dude was on the job, so she would obviously also be suing Gold Gym owner and Golds Gym corporate if was a franchise location (not sure if corporate actually owns locations or not).[/quote]

Ah, true enough. I wasn’t thinking about that.

I’m still shuddering over the story.

Well I already said I’d bang her.

[quote]EmilyQ wrote:
I can’t even imagine my reaction to feeling something odd on my foot and turning to discover that it’s some guy’s penis and he’s ejaculating on me. I would be completely freaked out by it. It would absolutely be sexual assault.

I’m laughing thinking about this woman’s profit motive as imagined by defenders. Dude works in a gym and woman can afford personal trainers and massages. What’s she after, do you suppose? [/quote]

Umm, millions of dollars, maybe?

Let’s see:

Five separate charges, aimed at both the masseur and the company that hired him. The company in question is supposed to be able to read the minds of potential employees, I suppose, to screen for sexual deviance. If I am reading this right, too, FOUR of the charges are aimed not at her alleged foot slimer, but at Gold’s Gym, who did not, so far as I’m aware, even so much as expose itself to her.

Sorry, I’m with Professor X here, something ain’t adding up. Even if it is as she says, her blatant opportunism raises some serious red flags as to the degree of emotional trauma she is actually suffering.

Just my male chauvinist pig opinion.

So Emily, genuinely curious, no sarcasm, could you tell me this: If it happens to be the case that everything happened exactly as she said, what should be her compensation, in your opinion.

I am of the mind that ejaculation could easily have occurred in this manner. He could have his penis between her foot bottoms and his hands, like an oily penis sandwich, and have been purporting massage her feet. He’s possibly even done it to a bunch of women without their noticing, or at least not enough to gather up the courage to actually lift their head out of the face-hole and turn around.

Still, call me old fashioned, I think things like this should remain between the two people it started with, unless there is a clear, malicious connection to other parties.

Next time a 7-11 cashier brushes against my hangnail when handing back my change, I’m following this girl’s lead. Cha-ching!

[quote]aeyogi wrote:
“It follows research which shows that seminal fluid contains chemicals that elevate mood, increase affection, induce sleep and also contain at least three anti-depressants.”

This explains why gay men always seem so cheerful.

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I laughed, hard.

[quote]super saiyan wrote:
Bwahahahahaha[/quote]

Who knew Hugh Jackman was gay?

*edit: quote debacle

why is a woman getting a massage from a trainer in the first place?

[quote]Cortes wrote:
Let’s see:

Five separate charges, aimed at both the masseur and the company that hired him. The company in question is supposed to be able to read the minds of potential employees, I suppose, to screen for sexual deviance. If I am reading this right, too, FOUR of the charges are aimed not at her alleged foot slimer, but at Gold’s Gym, who did not, so far as I’m aware, even so much as expose itself to her.

Sorry, I’m with Professor X here, something ain’t adding up. Even if it is as she says, her blatant opportunism raises some serious red flags as to the degree of emotional trauma she is actually suffering.

Just my male chauvinist pig opinion. [/quote]

I’m with you on this 100%. She’s not just pressing charges against him, and barring prior sexual misconduct, there is NO way Gold’s could have known this to be a potential issue. They, as a company, seem to have done nothing wrong.

The fact that she’s also suing Gold’s Gym doesn’t throw up any red flags for me.

  1. The incident occurs

  2. she talks to a lawyer about seeking damages

  3. the lawyer informs her of what she’s able to sue for.

  4. When she finds out there’s a potential for an even larger settlement if she includes Gold’s Gym in the lawsuit, she decides to sue the corporation as well.

Basically she’s still exploiting the system but not to the extent you guys are suggesting. This is all assuming the event actually took place.

lol, awesome!

I was having some work done on my IT bands at a massage therapy school. This older lady was working on the bands and brushes her hand over my junk. Then does it again. True story.

If she was hotter, I would have banged her right there.