[quote]USAWchamp wrote:
I wish I could be 20 again so I could be young enough to go after some teen vag.[/quote]
oh boy[/quote]
Shit especially knowing what I know now.[/quote]
Papa John’s will get you teen vag. It’s all about timing and placement.[/quote]
I don’t need Papa John’s to get vag[/quote]
Wasn’t addressing you specifically[/quote]
No worries I didn’t think you were, besides I’m not even sure I know what that means.[/quote]
The first guy in this chain has built a trollworthy reputation on this site.[/quote]
How so ?
[quote]USAWchamp wrote:
I wish I could be 20 again so I could be young enough to go after some teen vag.[/quote]
oh boy[/quote]
Shit especially knowing what I know now.[/quote]
Papa John’s will get you teen vag. It’s all about timing and placement.[/quote]
I don’t need Papa John’s to get vag[/quote]
Wasn’t addressing you specifically[/quote]
No worries I didn’t think you were, besides I’m not even sure I know what that means.[/quote]
The first guy in this chain has built a trollworthy reputation on this site.[/quote]
How so ?[/quote]
Starts with this thread, I believe
Does anyone think I should try to start talking to one of bald guy’s friends to intertwine myself into his social circle?
Clearly I am scared to death of men I am sexually attracted to, but I can probably easily talk to one that I don’t really care about.
I’m not going to like hit on him or anything, I’ll just make some friendly comment or something.
Or I’ll block is path and then apologize in a really friendly way so that we’re on a hello to hello smile daily type of dealio.
Yes yes, I know, I am supposed to be confident and brave etc… and I’ll get to it!!! But it typically takes like 8 months or so…
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Okay I have more questions/concerns/comments:
Does anyone think I should try to start talking to one of bald guy’s friends to intertwine myself into his social circle?
Clearly I am scared to death of men I am sexually attracted to, but I can probably easily talk to one that I don’t really care about.
I’m not going to like hit on him or anything, I’ll just make some friendly comment or something.
Or I’ll block is path and then apologize in a really friendly way so that we’re on a hello to hello smile daily type of dealio.
Yes yes, I know, I am supposed to be confident and brave etc… and I’ll get to it!!! But it typically takes like 8 months or so…
UM YA.
THANKS
[/quote]
Spockie,
Can I call you Spockie? Cool.
The whole “bite your lip, look down and away” thing is a shoe in, but it’s also going to be hard for someone as nervous as you to pull off. Fret not, though!
In all honesty, a girl as adorkable as you could literally get away with writing “Hey! I don’t want to interrupt you during your workout, but I think you’re cute and would love to talk sometime ### ### ####… The name’s Spockie!” on a little piece of paper and handing it to him with a shy smile.
In all honesty, girls don’t have to be smooth - that’s the guys job. Girls just have to tell guys what they want/mean/think, because otherwise we have no idea what the shit’s going through your head. For all you know, he’s on some other forum writing a thread on how to talk to the cute chick at the gym who keeps checkin’ him out.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Okay I have more questions/concerns/comments:
Does anyone think I should try to start talking to one of bald guy’s friends to intertwine myself into his social circle?
Clearly I am scared to death of men I am sexually attracted to, but I can probably easily talk to one that I don’t really care about.
I’m not going to like hit on him or anything, I’ll just make some friendly comment or something.
Or I’ll block is path and then apologize in a really friendly way so that we’re on a hello to hello smile daily type of dealio.
Yes yes, I know, I am supposed to be confident and brave etc… and I’ll get to it!!! But it typically takes like 8 months or so…
UM YA.
THANKS
[/quote]
Dont
The guy you become friends with will get the idea that youre flirting and the other guys will back off
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Okay I have more questions/concerns/comments:
Does anyone think I should try to start talking to one of bald guy’s friends to intertwine myself into his social circle?
Clearly I am scared to death of men I am sexually attracted to, but I can probably easily talk to one that I don’t really care about.
I’m not going to like hit on him or anything, I’ll just make some friendly comment or something.
Or I’ll block is path and then apologize in a really friendly way so that we’re on a hello to hello smile daily type of dealio.
Yes yes, I know, I am supposed to be confident and brave etc… and I’ll get to it!!! But it typically takes like 8 months or so…
UM YA.
THANKS
[/quote]
Dont
The guy you become friends with will get the idea that youre flirting and the other guys will back off
[/quote]
100% this. Don’t talk to any of his friends. You need to just start a convo with him Spock.
I am curious, do most people approach strangers that they’re interested in? If there was a hot, grunty, non-bald woman you saw daily who tickled your fancy would you talk to her? Even if she seemed focused or busy? What if you thought she could have a boyfriend somewheres? Do the same cautionary rules apply to women when wanting to approach a man?
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Ya’ll are a sweet helpful bunch!
I am curious, do most people approach strangers that they’re interested in? If there was a hot, grunty, non-bald woman you saw daily who tickled your fancy would you talk to her? Even if she seemed focused or busy? What if you thought she could have a boyfriend somewheres? Do the same cautionary rules apply to women when wanting to approach a man? [/quote]
no they don’t apply. Unless he is already taken, you have about a 95% probability of success. Other way around, not so much. When a man approaches a woman, all sorts of shit is probably running through her mind and her decision is made before he even opens his mouth. When a woman approaches a man the mental process is “she looks cute/good/sexy and wow she’s talking to me, sure lets give her a chance”. So much easier for you.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
I am curious, do most people approach strangers that they’re interested in? If there was a hot, grunty, non-bald woman you saw daily who tickled your fancy would you talk to her? Even if she seemed focused or busy? What if you thought she could have a boyfriend somewheres?[/quote]
Yes definitely. I’d try and strike up a little conversation while she was resting between sets. I wouldn’t think about whether or not she had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend is not my problem. If he’s so great she’ll tell me to piss off, but you never know if you don’t try.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Do the same cautionary rules apply to women when wanting to approach a man? [/quote]
No. You have no rules and basically 100% chance of success.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Ya’ll are a sweet helpful bunch!
I am curious, do most people approach strangers that they’re interested in? If there was a hot, grunty, non-bald woman you saw daily who tickled your fancy would you talk to her? Even if she seemed focused or busy? What if you thought she could have a boyfriend somewheres? Do the same cautionary rules apply to women when wanting to approach a man? [/quote]
All you’ve to do is look at men and eventually someone will take the initiative to talk to you. Fortunately, I’ve great luck with women. I get the look pretty regularly. It’s only that the women looking at me are under 18[I’m 24], in their 30s and married, already in a relationship or pregnant. Just yesterday a cute girl walked past me and checked me out, I’m not the biggest talker but I took the initiative to ask her out, and about 10 steps away from her a woman walked up to her and asked to feel her bump and asked when she’s due.
If you aren’t any of those things; pregnant, underage, married or dating someone then things will work themselves out for you. Just show guys that you’re interested in them, it makes it easier for us to approach someone.
[quote]Spock81 wrote:
Ya’ll are a sweet helpful bunch!
I am curious, do most people approach strangers that they’re interested in? If there was a hot, grunty, non-bald woman you saw daily who tickled your fancy would you talk to her? Even if she seemed focused or busy? What if you thought she could have a boyfriend somewheres? Do the same cautionary rules apply to women when wanting to approach a man? [/quote]
All you’ve to do is look at men and eventually someone will take the initiative to talk to you. Fortunately, I’ve great luck with women. I get the look pretty regularly. It’s only that the women looking at me are under 18[I’m 24], in their 30s and married, already in a relationship or pregnant. Just yesterday a cute girl walked past me and checked me out, I’m not the biggest talker but I took the initiative to ask her out, and about 10 steps away from her a woman walked up to her and asked to feel her bump and asked when she’s due.
If you aren’t any of those things; pregnant, underage, married or dating someone then things will work themselves out for you. Just show guys that you’re interested in them, it makes it easier for us to approach someone.[/quote]
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Trust me when I say it’s all in the eyes. Guys actually respond really well to blatant non-verbal communication. Don’t go through his dude friends. What do you have to lose? In cases where i’ve just gone for it and found out the guy was taken, i ended up gaining a really cool guy friend instead! And sometimes it takes a looooong time to work your angle. first you let them know you’re there and you noticed them then stand back for awhile, then come back with a flirtatious comment after a week or so and then step back and wait, then again with something different maybe my eye contact/lip bite recipe.
Show him you’re into him without coming off as creeper and needy.
