I have gotten way more attention from the ladies since I started lifting weights. Someone women don’t like muscular dudes but that’s rare really. Women like someone who can protect them. Now you might come off too cocky, which may be your problem.
You guys just need to PM Detazathoth and ask him about this. The guy never misses a meal and is bloated as hell half of the time, but he pulls more ass than anyone I know.
[quote]Joe Joseph wrote:
lol! Great post though. I agree with that whole heartedly…
Little off topic (Gerdy, pens at the ready…)
I always cheated as a young man… i tried to be faithful but couldn’t resist the sexy come-ons…(i was good with me last GF tho) especially if i was doing well in the gym.
Now i am married, i get more than ever - partly due to the ring and partly due to the physique - maybe my personality too…? Anyway, i LIKE to turn them down, and show my ring (wedding ring, childish!) It makes me feel good, empowered that i can turn down sexy women for the love of my wife…
OH MY GOD… WHAT HAVE I DONEEE!!!
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HAHAHAHAHA! Ya I’m fearing that I might be settling down as well…no marriage but I’d rather be in LOVE with somebody than just pull ass all the time. The shallowness hits my conscience but hey, MEN were designed with TESTOSTERONE and women with MONEY…that’s what it comes down to. God gave eve adams rib and then she took his wallet…b*tch. LOL just kidding for all you girls…
FOR ALL READING. The best way to get some PLAY is to get some money. $$$$$$$$$$$$$$
You want somebody to LOVE you, then it’s all about personality. Looks, fortune, fame only go so far. Beauty is only skin deep and yadayada I know plenty of ugly guys who have decent looking girls. They didn’t get them with their looks but got them with their personalities. Your true personality will come out when you find a girl that you actually want to Love you and not just WANT to sleep with you.
Gerdy
I have to agree with some people on here, and disagree with a lot.
That is, all the girls I know are attracted to ripped guys. As other people have said, the big bodybuilding physique is something women don’t like.
But a ripped guy, who does still have quite a bit of muscle, but not to the extreme. Will get plenty of women.
[quote]jtg987 wrote:
girls generally dont like the look, or the food choices i make(high protein diet)…hell i’ve been told by girls im intimidating, a gorilla and that my arms are gross(there around 17-17.5inches)…women…sheesh[/quote]
I hear the exact same, except it’s from my wife. Gorilla. She has no idea what I have in mind for the future.
It really comes down to what extent you want to go. Yeah if you wanna go for the classic Arnie style look, then yeah it’s going to be harder to find a girl who likes that, because it’s an extremity, it’s not what society or even nature would call normal. If you’re going, however, for a more lean look, then most chicks dig that.
Certainly the reaction I’ve got with my shirt off has been promissing.
Do what you love. If that is training and eating clean just do it.
Eventually you will find a girl that will accept and support you. You are young. Enyou it.
How many times has this discussion happened on this forum? At least four times to my memory.
Last time it featured Brad Pitt and Jay Cutler. I don’t think either of them posted though.
I’d have generally thought that if you started off looking like warm shite and as a result of working out looked better, then you probably would have more success with the opposite sex.
On the other hand, if you are a sociopath with a face like a smacked arse, then being built as opposed to ripped would probably make little difference.
I thought the conclusion reached in the past was that that money won.
Ah, women. Can’t live with 'em, can’t hit them in the head with a hammer and stuff them in the trunk of your '78 Buick Regal. Sigh
Make no mistake-- women love men’s asses as much as men love women’s asses.
[quote]ahzaz wrote:
msd0060 wrote:
Shit, diet down to a six pack and you’ll do the best with women, sadly, lol.
The sad truth.
Women dont mind guys that are “built” they just dont want a ronnie coleman. They wont mind an arnold or a frank zane. Most of the “classical” builders, they actually think are good looking. Its just the mass monsters that turn them off.[/quote]
Women tend to go for guys with the more lean athletic look, not necessarily the 300 lb mass monsters whose purpose in life is to take up as much space as humanly possible
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What women really want is guys with a 10 inch schlong… hey I had to say it.
Today a lot of men are big in the wrong places. In my opinion a girl would much rather have someone who is “big” with muscle than someone who is “big” with a beer-belly.
[quote]WillH wrote:
It really comes down to what extent you want to go. Yeah if you wanna go for the classic Arnie style look, then yeah it’s going to be harder to find a girl who likes that, because it’s an extremity, it’s not what society or even nature would call normal. If you’re going, however, for a more lean look, then most chicks dig that.
Certainly the reaction I’ve got with my shirt off has been promissing.[/quote]
I think Arnold’s physique was awesome with that out of the way…look at his wife.
[quote]The Mighty Stu wrote:
I find that girls that are in to me because of the muscles are usually the most boring ones to be around. The best advice I recently gave to my friend COrey, who I train with (he’s 23, and I’m 35, so I preach a lot -lol) is to get in sick ass shape, and then don’t acknowledge the fact that you even work out.
Write it off with ‘I try to stay in shape’ or something like that. Humility (or at least fake humility!) is a big thing.
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The mighty Stu is a mighty genius. It is a known fact girls, for some reason, love the “whatever” aspect as I will refer to it.
If you really are digging a girl, it makes her more attracted to you if you don’t necessarily show it, as if she is expendaple and you could leave at any time. All the while of course keeping her interest. The “Whatever” Aspect.
Mystery Man writes a lot about the philosophical way of chicks, the “whatever” aspect, or fake humility, his stuff is pretty entertaining, helpful, and I would suggest it to any man to read.
for real, “treat a chick like dirt, and shell stick to you like mud” - Slackers.
“treat 'em mean, keep 'em keen” -Joe (j/k)