Ok… at my age im not sure whats the correct term that is considered appropriate. In regards to addressing the woman i have been in a relationship with now for a bit of time.
On my end the notion of being called the term " Boyfriend " makes me cringe. Since im in grandpa age range.
Thoughts?
On the side note… ive been warned never to call her “my old lady” since shes not a biker chic …lol
Reminds me of a very funny scene between two brothers in a very funny movie (American Fiction).
Thelonious ‘Monk’ Ellison: Who is that? What are you doing?
Clifford Ellison: I’ve taken a lover.
Thelonious ‘Monk’ Ellison: You’ve taken a lover?
Clifford Ellison: You got a problem with that, homophobe?
Thelonious ‘Monk’ Ellison: I’m not offended that you’ve taken a lover, Cliff. I’m offended, Cliff, that you call it ‘taking a lover.’
Clifford Ellison: Hmm. You can eat shit, nigga. I’m gonna take my lover right now.
Significant other
To others- Companion etc.
To eachother- anything goes.
Significant Other seems like pronoun territory though.
We started calling my one neices long term boyfriend “husbaint” just as a joke, but now they’re married so that joke kinda faded.
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Seriously though, I started dating again at 44 and I hated the thought of boyfriend/girlfriend as well.
I just got current on how you’re supposed to talk about stuff like this.
We do it all for the nookie
I actually kinda forgot about that. That song had some funny implications when I started going to meetings. 
Would it be odd if i asked her to call me Daddy? 
Most people I know just say “my other half”.
Sometimes people adjust it to “my better half” or something playfully derogatory depending on the audience.
I think girlfriend can either be interperted as a potential marrage in the pipeline, or just a fun connection.
Like how partner can be seen as keeping people at arms length about whats going on in the relationship, or interpreted as a sign of respect and equality.
Those Janus words are tricky.
I agree with the other commentors, it’s your relationship, call it what you want.
Edit: Or maybe asking them what they would like to be referred to as would save a lot of mental energy on your part and keep things running smooth.
“Partner” is a homosexual term.
My preferred relationship pronoun is Turbo Lover.
I would say that how I would refer to my “partner” and how she refers to me is our business and no one else has to like it.
Bitch?
Hi, this is my bitch.
Gender neutral.
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She’s okay with you demeaning her by implying that you’re equals?
I usually go with
bread knife
trouble and strife
misses
The cook (only when she is out of earshot)
Better half
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