Girl Friend Getting Fat, A Tale of Horror and Despair

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[quote]mud lark wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]mud lark wrote:

[quote]Brother Chris wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:
Over the summer (In Australia) I met this Dutch back packer and dated her for a period of 8 weeks

when I first met her she was 23 an about 62kgs 5’8 D cup tits nice tight perky ass
After hanging out with her for the first week I noticed she would binge on carbs like a starving horse. This habit concerned me the first time I noticed it. Often she would eat a whole baking tray of potatoes for lunch, huge bowls of oats and pasta for breakfast and dinner.

at about week 3 I confronted her in a polite way about this habit stating it was dangerous to eat that much, she was all like “no no I never get fat, I can eat what I want” I rolled my eyes and hoped deep down that it was true

week 4
I noticed she had gotten a little bit thicker around the belly, one morning in the bath room I weighed myself then jokingly (planned) I said she should way herself she laughed and hopped on to the scale. 65kgs ! she was like wow thats weird i’m usually around 60kgs. My heart sunk, my suspicions had become reality. I said maybe she should try to eat less until she went back to her normal weight, she glared at me like I had stuck a finger in her ass.

Week 6
The eating continued at a brutal pace, milk shakes chocolate etc, carbs carbs carbs. she was starting to not look good naked in full light, I was panicking on the inside, I had to say something and get her to stop eating so much and start working out. I thought about it long and hard, the best wording choice, the best time of the day. I approached her in the kitchen while she was cooking a large meal of baked potatoes, I started by talking about how I am a combat athlete and have been for 6 years and you know I have a lot of knowledge about foods and exercise, to attain my credibility in giving advice, I then stated that at her current rate she would continue to put on large amounts of fat and that she should please stop eating so much and maybe I could train her a few times a week. She told me to fuck off and was like " ill eat what I fucking want its my body blah blah blah" I walked away with sadness in my heart.

Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked now, that beautiful body destroyed by the weakness of her mind, I was mad ! I came at her, aggressively, every time she would cook id say its to much and you are ignorant, and even said she was getting fat a few times and that her eating habits disgusted me which would result in abusive arguments, I didn’t care I knew it was going to be over soon either way, I had tried being nice now I was going for broke, none of my abusive comments made a difference if anything she ate more just to spite me

Week 8
I made her weigh herself, 71kgs !!! she made a stupid comment about the scale being broken, I knew I was dealing with a crazy person at this stage… I got the fuck out with only a few memories of that once beautiful body and the wonderful sex we shared, now all that was left was a fat chick with a fucked up attitude and a kitchen filled with carbs. I said that I didn’t want to see each other any more and stated that I think our lifestyles are not compatible

Any body else had to deal with watching a pretty girl destroy themselves with food ?

This experience has freaked me out about getting married and having kids with a girl, because in this situation we were only dating nothing serious, if you loved the person and had a life and children with them it was be even more stressful and sad to watch your love go from hot to fat/unattractive

Any ideas on how you would go about approaching this situating ? [/quote]

You’re not her husband, you have no say over her body. Period. [/quote]

Following the same logic, if you are married, do you have domain over your wife’s body? [/quote]

Matters what you mean by domain. [/quote]

I could understand trying to stop negative behavior, notably if it affected others - such as alcoholism, drug addiction, etc.

Past that, what say would someone have over their spouseâ??s body? Not trying to be a troll. Genuinely curious.
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What other things do you have say over spouse’s body?

Everything in Marriage, mutual submission (though not identical). This is to serve each other because of our responsibility to each other’s happiness. And, happiness is only derived with love. The greatest love is of course self-sacrifice for a friend. This is why this is said in the context that the spouses are not prone to objectifying each other. Otherwise people are abused (usually women) and taken advantage of.

Don’t mistake me here, I’m not talking about micromanaging. More like what King Arthur found out by the ragged old maid on the side of the road as he went to his death: What a woman wants most, is to have her own way.

[quote]PimpBot5000 wrote:
She’s quite the cute girl. I have a thing for Dutch women.

I wonder if she’s posted your pic on some Dutch message board, with the title “Backpacken Downen Under: Und Dicken Minisculen!”, describing her escapades with her dietary-nazi Australian boyfriend and his tiny, flaccid penis…[/quote]

Don’t talk about my penis creep…

And don’t look at her or ill cut you !

[quote]therajraj wrote:
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If she stands still she’s quite sexy.

Once she dances I feel like doing my taxes or something.

[quote]Judas wrote:
Over the summer (In Australia) I met this Dutch back packer and dated her for a period of 8 weeks

when I first met her she was 23 an about 62kgs 5’8 D cup tits nice tight perky ass
After hanging out with her for the first week I noticed she would binge on carbs like a starving horse. This habit concerned me the first time I noticed it. Often she would eat a whole baking tray of potatoes for lunch, huge bowls of oats and pasta for breakfast and dinner.

at about week 3 I confronted her in a polite way about this habit stating it was dangerous to eat that much, she was all like “no no I never get fat, I can eat what I want” I rolled my eyes and hoped deep down that it was true

week 4
I noticed she had gotten a little bit thicker around the belly, one morning in the bath room I weighed myself then jokingly (planned) I said she should way herself she laughed and hopped on to the scale. 65kgs ! she was like wow thats weird i’m usually around 60kgs. My heart sunk, my suspicions had become reality. I said maybe she should try to eat less until she went back to her normal weight, she glared at me like I had stuck a finger in her ass.

Week 6
The eating continued at a brutal pace, milk shakes chocolate etc, carbs carbs carbs. she was starting to not look good naked in full light, I was panicking on the inside, I had to say something and get her to stop eating so much and start working out. I thought about it long and hard, the best wording choice, the best time of the day. I approached her in the kitchen while she was cooking a large meal of baked potatoes, I started by talking about how I am a combat athlete and have been for 6 years and you know I have a lot of knowledge about foods and exercise, to attain my credibility in giving advice, I then stated that at her current rate she would continue to put on large amounts of fat and that she should please stop eating so much and maybe I could train her a few times a week. She told me to fuck off and was like " ill eat what I fucking want its my body blah blah blah" I walked away with sadness in my heart.

Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked now, that beautiful body destroyed by the weakness of her mind, I was mad ! I came at her, aggressively, every time she would cook id say its to much and you are ignorant, and even said she was getting fat a few times and that her eating habits disgusted me which would result in abusive arguments, I didn’t care I knew it was going to be over soon either way, I had tried being nice now I was going for broke, none of my abusive comments made a difference if anything she ate more just to spite me

Week 8
I made her weigh herself, 71kgs !!! she made a stupid comment about the scale being broken, I knew I was dealing with a crazy person at this stage… I got the fuck out with only a few memories of that once beautiful body and the wonderful sex we shared, now all that was left was a fat chick with a fucked up attitude and a kitchen filled with carbs. I said that I didn’t want to see each other any more and stated that I think our lifestyles are not compatible

Any body else had to deal with watching a pretty girl destroy themselves with food ?

This experience has freaked me out about getting married and having kids with a girl, because in this situation we were only dating nothing serious, if you loved the person and had a life and children with them it was be even more stressful and sad to watch your love go from hot to fat/unattractive

Any ideas on how you would go about approaching this situating ? [/quote]

It’s not the “weakness of her mind”, sugar is addictive, like nicotine or heroin.

Read Wheat Belly, Dr david explains it all very well.
Or check out his blog wheatbellyblog.com.

I do wonder why she started eating so much after contact with you - was she tense???Over eating often starts from unhappiness or stress. or did she eat like that before you met too?

[quote]Judas wrote:
Over the summer (In Australia) I met this Dutch back packer and dated her for a period of 8 weeks

when I first met her she was 23 an about 62kgs 5’8 D cup tits nice tight perky ass
After hanging out with her for the first week I noticed she would binge on carbs like a starving horse. This habit concerned me the first time I noticed it. Often she would eat a whole baking tray of potatoes for lunch, huge bowls of oats and pasta for breakfast and dinner.

at about week 3 I confronted her in a polite way about this habit stating it was dangerous to eat that much, she was all like “no no I never get fat, I can eat what I want” I rolled my eyes and hoped deep down that it was true

week 4
I noticed she had gotten a little bit thicker around the belly, one morning in the bath room I weighed myself then jokingly (planned) I said she should way herself she laughed and hopped on to the scale. 65kgs ! she was like wow thats weird i’m usually around 60kgs. My heart sunk, my suspicions had become reality. I said maybe she should try to eat less until she went back to her normal weight, she glared at me like I had stuck a finger in her ass.

Week 6
The eating continued at a brutal pace, milk shakes chocolate etc, carbs carbs carbs. she was starting to not look good naked in full light, I was panicking on the inside, I had to say something and get her to stop eating so much and start working out. I thought about it long and hard, the best wording choice, the best time of the day. I approached her in the kitchen while she was cooking a large meal of baked potatoes, I started by talking about how I am a combat athlete and have been for 6 years and you know I have a lot of knowledge about foods and exercise, to attain my credibility in giving advice, I then stated that at her current rate she would continue to put on large amounts of fat and that she should please stop eating so much and maybe I could train her a few times a week. She told me to fuck off and was like " ill eat what I fucking want its my body blah blah blah" I walked away with sadness in my heart.

Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked now, that beautiful body destroyed by the weakness of her mind, I was mad ! I came at her, aggressively, every time she would cook id say its to much and you are ignorant, and even said she was getting fat a few times and that her eating habits disgusted me which would result in abusive arguments, I didn’t care I knew it was going to be over soon either way, I had tried being nice now I was going for broke, none of my abusive comments made a difference if anything she ate more just to spite me

Week 8
I made her weigh herself, 71kgs !!! she made a stupid comment about the scale being broken, I knew I was dealing with a crazy person at this stage… I got the fuck out with only a few memories of that once beautiful body and the wonderful sex we shared, now all that was left was a fat chick with a fucked up attitude and a kitchen filled with carbs. I said that I didn’t want to see each other any more and stated that I think our lifestyles are not compatible

Any body else had to deal with watching a pretty girl destroy themselves with food ?

This experience has freaked me out about getting married and having kids with a girl, because in this situation we were only dating nothing serious, if you loved the person and had a life and children with them it was be even more stressful and sad to watch your love go from hot to fat/unattractive

Any ideas on how you would go about approaching this situating ? [/quote]

Oops, typo, the author of WheatBelly is Dr DAVIS, William Davis.

[quote]Judas wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:
you want to put on 9kgs of fat while bulking ? Just eat as much fruit, chocolate, baked potatoes and pumpkin, oats and sweet stuff as you can 7 days a week.

I think she had recently gone through some difficult stuff and was using the food as a kind of therapy or something, I dunno how it works but something like that.

If a chick is annoying/has bad habits fuck sticking around more than 2 months in the hopes that she will magically turn good and reveal her true nature :S [/quote]

I tried to add 5kg of fat to my frame in 2 months once but that was a bitch. It’s easy when you just sit on your ass 17/24hr, 7 days a week and do nothing. I’m super active. Plus my body responds violently to daily shitty binge eating. Twice a week is the maximum I can do.

And I still have a hard time believing your story though. Regarding the two months stage, I was just surprised how quick she got comfortable in your short relationship to reveal her ‘‘nasty’’ habit. Did you even ask her what kind of mental stuff she dealing with?

But like she told you, it’s her body, she does what she wants with it. If she wants to get unhealthy, great. Her loss. What I don’t understand is why some people want to impose their choice or vision on a new gf or bf, or why they see their partner’s body as their possession.

Look for women with the same lifestyle as yours.
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You must have crazy Alpha genes, I think its easy to get fat for most people, Just eatting a lot of junk food is probably all 90% of the population needs to pack on some pounds.

Yea I learnt from this experience and will be screening for healthy habits next time around for sure

I don’t think it was about her letting her guard down and showing me, I think she just had no control and was totally ignorant to what she was doing, she wouldn’t even acknowledge that she was getting fatter ![/quote]

Jesus Christ, you meet this girl after she’s been dumped, she’
s probably got issues she needed to dceal with, and all you do is worry ab out the effect of her overeating on YOU!!!
And you end up abusing her for eating which in any person’ life is only going to add stress and unhappiness.

I’m glad for this women that you, toxic little pill, are out of her life.

As for healthy habits, if she was slim before, i’d make this assumption that the overeatng was a reaction to her being dumped in a country nbot her own then meeting an asshole like you who is totally selfish and immature.

Hopefully she has learned coping skills better than overeating but if that got you out of her life then it can onyl have been beneficial.

It sounds like you’ve got your eating habits down.

now you just need to work on your emotional/empathy development.

[quote]'nuffsaid wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:

[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:
you want to put on 9kgs of fat while bulking ? Just eat as much fruit, chocolate, baked potatoes and pumpkin, oats and sweet stuff as you can 7 days a week.

I think she had recently gone through some difficult stuff and was using the food as a kind of therapy or something, I dunno how it works but something like that.

If a chick is annoying/has bad habits fuck sticking around more than 2 months in the hopes that she will magically turn good and reveal her true nature :S [/quote]

I tried to add 5kg of fat to my frame in 2 months once but that was a bitch. It’s easy when you just sit on your ass 17/24hr, 7 days a week and do nothing. I’m super active. Plus my body responds violently to daily shitty binge eating. Twice a week is the maximum I can do.

And I still have a hard time believing your story though. Regarding the two months stage, I was just surprised how quick she got comfortable in your short relationship to reveal her ‘‘nasty’’ habit. Did you even ask her what kind of mental stuff she dealing with?

But like she told you, it’s her body, she does what she wants with it. If she wants to get unhealthy, great. Her loss. What I don’t understand is why some people want to impose their choice or vision on a new gf or bf, or why they see their partner’s body as their possession.

Look for women with the same lifestyle as yours.
[/quote]

You must have crazy Alpha genes, I think its easy to get fat for most people, Just eatting a lot of junk food is probably all 90% of the population needs to pack on some pounds.

Yea I learnt from this experience and will be screening for healthy habits next time around for sure

I don’t think it was about her letting her guard down and showing me, I think she just had no control and was totally ignorant to what she was doing, she wouldn’t even acknowledge that she was getting fatter ![/quote]

Jesus Christ, you meet this girl after she’s been dumped, she’
s probably got issues she needed to dceal with, and all you do is worry ab out the effect of her overeating on YOU!!!
And you end up abusing her for eating which in any person’ life is only going to add stress and unhappiness.

I’m glad for this women that you, toxic little pill, are out of her life.

As for healthy habits, if she was slim before, i’d make this assumption that the overeatng was a reaction to her being dumped in a country nbot her own then meeting an asshole like you who is totally selfish and immature.

Hopefully she has learned coping skills better than overeating but if that got you out of her life then it can onyl have been beneficial.

It sounds like you’ve got your eating habits down.

now you just need to work on your emotional/empathy development.[/quote]

you sound like a cunt lol

[quote]'nuffsaid wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:
Over the summer (In Australia) I met this Dutch back packer and dated her for a period of 8 weeks

when I first met her she was 23 an about 62kgs 5’8 D cup tits nice tight perky ass
After hanging out with her for the first week I noticed she would binge on carbs like a starving horse. This habit concerned me the first time I noticed it. Often she would eat a whole baking tray of potatoes for lunch, huge bowls of oats and pasta for breakfast and dinner.

at about week 3 I confronted her in a polite way about this habit stating it was dangerous to eat that much, she was all like “no no I never get fat, I can eat what I want” I rolled my eyes and hoped deep down that it was true

week 4
I noticed she had gotten a little bit thicker around the belly, one morning in the bath room I weighed myself then jokingly (planned) I said she should way herself she laughed and hopped on to the scale. 65kgs ! she was like wow thats weird i’m usually around 60kgs. My heart sunk, my suspicions had become reality. I said maybe she should try to eat less until she went back to her normal weight, she glared at me like I had stuck a finger in her ass.

Week 6
The eating continued at a brutal pace, milk shakes chocolate etc, carbs carbs carbs. she was starting to not look good naked in full light, I was panicking on the inside, I had to say something and get her to stop eating so much and start working out. I thought about it long and hard, the best wording choice, the best time of the day. I approached her in the kitchen while she was cooking a large meal of baked potatoes, I started by talking about how I am a combat athlete and have been for 6 years and you know I have a lot of knowledge about foods and exercise, to attain my credibility in giving advice, I then stated that at her current rate she would continue to put on large amounts of fat and that she should please stop eating so much and maybe I could train her a few times a week. She told me to fuck off and was like " ill eat what I fucking want its my body blah blah blah" I walked away with sadness in my heart.

Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked now, that beautiful body destroyed by the weakness of her mind, I was mad ! I came at her, aggressively, every time she would cook id say its to much and you are ignorant, and even said she was getting fat a few times and that her eating habits disgusted me which would result in abusive arguments, I didn’t care I knew it was going to be over soon either way, I had tried being nice now I was going for broke, none of my abusive comments made a difference if anything she ate more just to spite me

Week 8
I made her weigh herself, 71kgs !!! she made a stupid comment about the scale being broken, I knew I was dealing with a crazy person at this stage… I got the fuck out with only a few memories of that once beautiful body and the wonderful sex we shared, now all that was left was a fat chick with a fucked up attitude and a kitchen filled with carbs. I said that I didn’t want to see each other any more and stated that I think our lifestyles are not compatible

Any body else had to deal with watching a pretty girl destroy themselves with food ?

This experience has freaked me out about getting married and having kids with a girl, because in this situation we were only dating nothing serious, if you loved the person and had a life and children with them it was be even more stressful and sad to watch your love go from hot to fat/unattractive

Any ideas on how you would go about approaching this situating ? [/quote]

It’s not the “weakness of her mind”, sugar is addictive, like nicotine or heroin.

Read Wheat Belly, Dr david explains it all very well.
Or check out his blog wheatbellyblog.com.

I do wonder why she started eating so much after contact with you - was she tense???Over eating often starts from unhappiness or stress. or did she eat like that before you met too?

[/quote]

there is no excuse for getting fat…

[quote]Judas wrote:

[quote]'nuffsaid wrote:

[quote]Judas wrote:
Over the summer (In Australia) I met this Dutch back packer and dated her for a period of 8 weeks

when I first met her she was 23 an about 62kgs 5’8 D cup tits nice tight perky ass
After hanging out with her for the first week I noticed she would binge on carbs like a starving horse. This habit concerned me the first time I noticed it. Often she would eat a whole baking tray of potatoes for lunch, huge bowls of oats and pasta for breakfast and dinner.

at about week 3 I confronted her in a polite way about this habit stating it was dangerous to eat that much, she was all like “no no I never get fat, I can eat what I want” I rolled my eyes and hoped deep down that it was true

week 4
I noticed she had gotten a little bit thicker around the belly, one morning in the bath room I weighed myself then jokingly (planned) I said she should way herself she laughed and hopped on to the scale. 65kgs ! she was like wow thats weird i’m usually around 60kgs. My heart sunk, my suspicions had become reality. I said maybe she should try to eat less until she went back to her normal weight, she glared at me like I had stuck a finger in her ass.

Week 6
The eating continued at a brutal pace, milk shakes chocolate etc, carbs carbs carbs. she was starting to not look good naked in full light, I was panicking on the inside, I had to say something and get her to stop eating so much and start working out. I thought about it long and hard, the best wording choice, the best time of the day. I approached her in the kitchen while she was cooking a large meal of baked potatoes, I started by talking about how I am a combat athlete and have been for 6 years and you know I have a lot of knowledge about foods and exercise, to attain my credibility in giving advice, I then stated that at her current rate she would continue to put on large amounts of fat and that she should please stop eating so much and maybe I could train her a few times a week. She told me to fuck off and was like " ill eat what I fucking want its my body blah blah blah" I walked away with sadness in my heart.

Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked now, that beautiful body destroyed by the weakness of her mind, I was mad ! I came at her, aggressively, every time she would cook id say its to much and you are ignorant, and even said she was getting fat a few times and that her eating habits disgusted me which would result in abusive arguments, I didn’t care I knew it was going to be over soon either way, I had tried being nice now I was going for broke, none of my abusive comments made a difference if anything she ate more just to spite me

Week 8
I made her weigh herself, 71kgs !!! she made a stupid comment about the scale being broken, I knew I was dealing with a crazy person at this stage… I got the fuck out with only a few memories of that once beautiful body and the wonderful sex we shared, now all that was left was a fat chick with a fucked up attitude and a kitchen filled with carbs. I said that I didn’t want to see each other any more and stated that I think our lifestyles are not compatible

Any body else had to deal with watching a pretty girl destroy themselves with food ?

This experience has freaked me out about getting married and having kids with a girl, because in this situation we were only dating nothing serious, if you loved the person and had a life and children with them it was be even more stressful and sad to watch your love go from hot to fat/unattractive

Any ideas on how you would go about approaching this situating ? [/quote]

It’s not the “weakness of her mind”, sugar is addictive, like nicotine or heroin.

Read Wheat Belly, Dr david explains it all very well.
Or check out his blog wheatbellyblog.com.

I do wonder why she started eating so much after contact with you - was she tense???Over eating often starts from unhappiness or stress. or did she eat like that before you met too?

[/quote]

there is no excuse for getting fat…[/quote]

[quote]naxis wrote:

Another tip, be careful of dating girls from colder places than where you live. Staying warm burns calories and the local diets will match this. Take the girl to a warmer climate and she will still carry some of her dietary habits even though her body has less requirement, which equals weight gain. Better to take a girl from a hot climate to a colder one! Especially as they will then be more bikini conscious.[/quote]

Naxis, it seems that you have never been to Florida. Or to Canada, for that matter.

There were some real “beauties” in the semi-tropical climate of Florida – I mean women with large beer bellies (not from pregnancy) wearing tube tops and navel jewelry to seemingly call extra attention to their problem area… And, unfortunately, this was not just on the beach.

The issue with being bikini conscious is that it’s a bit like an American Idol audition. There seems to be any number of people out there who are deeply deluded about themselves or who are suffering from an overdose of self-confidence. And it goes for both sexes, too. In Florida, it was also common to see shirtless guys who probably “worked out” (once a year) but actually looked like they just walked out of a filming of COPS.

You contrast that to the cold climate of Canada, where most people of both sexes seem to have an appropriate level of concern for not looking like complete slobs. Up here, there’s no Movechelle Obama telling people to eat veggies and exercise an hour a day, but it seems to be the case that being somewhat fashion conscious actually helps encourage people to not totally let themselves go once they reach adulthood.

[quote]BodyBldgBabe wrote:
You should of dumped her the moment you found out she didnt like a finger in her ass…I mean what REAL woman dislikes that shit???[/quote]

x2

have you tried hitting her?

[quote]hanban wrote:
have you tried hitting her?[/quote]
took 4 pages

[quote]BobParr wrote:

[quote]naxis wrote:

Another tip, be careful of dating girls from colder places than where you live. Staying warm burns calories and the local diets will match this. Take the girl to a warmer climate and she will still carry some of her dietary habits even though her body has less requirement, which equals weight gain. Better to take a girl from a hot climate to a colder one! Especially as they will then be more bikini conscious.[/quote]

Naxis, it seems that you have never been to Florida. Or to Canada, for that matter.

There were some real “beauties” in the semi-tropical climate of Florida – I mean women with large beer bellies (not from pregnancy) wearing tube tops and navel jewelry to seemingly call extra attention to their problem area… And, unfortunately, this was not just on the beach.

The issue with being bikini conscious is that it’s a bit like an American Idol audition. There seems to be any number of people out there who are deeply deluded about themselves or who are suffering from an overdose of self-confidence. And it goes for both sexes, too. In Florida, it was also common to see shirtless guys who probably “worked out” (once a year) but actually looked like they just walked out of a filming of COPS.

You contrast that to the cold climate of Canada, where most people of both sexes seem to have an appropriate level of concern for not looking like complete slobs. Up here, there’s no Movechelle Obama telling people to eat veggies and exercise an hour a day, but it seems to be the case that being somewhat fashion conscious actually helps encourage people to not totally let themselves go once they reach adulthood.[/quote]

Interesting approach!

I come from a Spanish island with super good weather so : People can be more active since weather is good 80% of times, even in Winter. People don’t wear much clothes due to higher temperatures. Again, since the weather is good, you don’t have to stay at home so often and you can do tons of things outside. Result? Around 50% of people are overweight (different grades).

Estonia : Winter lasts 5-6 months. In January and February the temperatures are very low and really discourage any kind of outside activity. It’s 8th May and I’m still wearing my coat outside, so clothing is much heavier in general. Result? Tons of skinny people of both genders.

It’s in the food I guess…

[quote]BobParr wrote:

[quote]naxis wrote:

Another tip, be careful of dating girls from colder places than where you live. Staying warm burns calories and the local diets will match this. Take the girl to a warmer climate and she will still carry some of her dietary habits even though her body has less requirement, which equals weight gain. Better to take a girl from a hot climate to a colder one! Especially as they will then be more bikini conscious.[/quote]

Naxis, it seems that you have never been to Florida. Or to Canada, for that matter.

There were some real “beauties” in the semi-tropical climate of Florida – I mean women with large beer bellies (not from pregnancy) wearing tube tops and navel jewelry to seemingly call extra attention to their problem area… And, unfortunately, this was not just on the beach.

The issue with being bikini conscious is that it’s a bit like an American Idol audition. There seems to be any number of people out there who are deeply deluded about themselves or who are suffering from an overdose of self-confidence. And it goes for both sexes, too. In Florida, it was also common to see shirtless guys who probably “worked out” (once a year) but actually looked like they just walked out of a filming of COPS.

You contrast that to the cold climate of Canada, where most people of both sexes seem to have an appropriate level of concern for not looking like complete slobs. Up here, there’s no Movechelle Obama telling people to eat veggies and exercise an hour a day, but it seems to be the case that being somewhat fashion conscious actually helps encourage people to not totally let themselves go once they reach adulthood.[/quote]

I was travelling from Canada down to Chicago last year and we passed into America by way of the bridge at Niagara falls. Holy shit!!! All of a sudden it becomes fat city. We went through Buffalo on a bus and I now assume the city is named after the women.

[quote]Edevus wrote:

[quote]BobParr wrote:

[quote]naxis wrote:

Another tip, be careful of dating girls from colder places than where you live. Staying warm burns calories and the local diets will match this. Take the girl to a warmer climate and she will still carry some of her dietary habits even though her body has less requirement, which equals weight gain. Better to take a girl from a hot climate to a colder one! Especially as they will then be more bikini conscious.[/quote]

Naxis, it seems that you have never been to Florida. Or to Canada, for that matter.

There were some real “beauties” in the semi-tropical climate of Florida – I mean women with large beer bellies (not from pregnancy) wearing tube tops and navel jewelry to seemingly call extra attention to their problem area… And, unfortunately, this was not just on the beach.

The issue with being bikini conscious is that it’s a bit like an American Idol audition. There seems to be any number of people out there who are deeply deluded about themselves or who are suffering from an overdose of self-confidence. And it goes for both sexes, too. In Florida, it was also common to see shirtless guys who probably “worked out” (once a year) but actually looked like they just walked out of a filming of COPS.

You contrast that to the cold climate of Canada, where most people of both sexes seem to have an appropriate level of concern for not looking like complete slobs. Up here, there’s no Movechelle Obama telling people to eat veggies and exercise an hour a day, but it seems to be the case that being somewhat fashion conscious actually helps encourage people to not totally let themselves go once they reach adulthood.[/quote]

Interesting approach!

I come from a Spanish island with super good weather so : People can be more active since weather is good 80% of times, even in Winter. People don’t wear much clothes due to higher temperatures. Again, since the weather is good, you don’t have to stay at home so often and you can do tons of things outside. Result? Around 50% of people are overweight (different grades).

Estonia : Winter lasts 5-6 months. In January and February the temperatures are very low and really discourage any kind of outside activity. It’s 8th May and I’m still wearing my coat outside, so clothing is much heavier in general. Result? Tons of skinny people of both genders.

It’s in the food I guess…

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But take an Estonian to a hot country and they get fat! Michael Phelps eats about 15,000 calories day but burns about 3,500 on the average day. The rest are used to combat against water temperature.

Italy is a funny place. You do get fat people, but everybody else is super body conscious. It is often impossible to guess a women’s age without seeing the face. I have been walking behind what I thought was a hot looking girl (great ass, body, walk, clothes, hair, etc) and then discovered they were about 50!

[quote]Judas wrote:Week 7
It was do or die time, I couldn’t take it any more she had become unattractive while naked I got the fuck out with only a few crabs.