Girl Beats Up Boyfriend on Train

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
He did not Respect the fact that this bitch was crazy enough to Kick him in the face. AND because of that lack of respect for the truth she kicked his ass in the face.

Respect the truth, Duck, do not allow the foot to meet your face. Let her fall on her stomach, cross her hands to the back, sit on her and wait for the cops.
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For some reason those first two sentances made me laugh. Loudly. You’ve got a way with words dude.

As for restraining her, “ I tried to get away officer, but he was holding me down He’s such a bully, he’s always doing things like that I was so SCARED!!!” Cop: “WHY THAT SCOUNDREL! I’LL SAVE YOU MADAM! HE’LL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!”. You: .

You aren’t respecting the fact that there are people more powerful than you who are completely fucking retarded, and will mistreat you far worse than her. She’s a buzzing mosquito. Swatt her at your own risk. There’s always someone with a bigger fly swatter. They wear blue, carry a badge, and are gullable as fuck when it comes to teary eyed women.[/quote]

Considering that I’m not a small guy and do know how to defend myself. The same statement can be made if it was two or 3 smaller guys trying to beat my ass on the train. “why officer look at him, we came at him as a group out of fear he would beat us around the Neck and Head”

Sometimes you just have to make a choice, his was to take the spit and foots to the face. Mine would be to let her ass hit the floor and chill her ass. If I can’t just get off the train.

My option would never be to just let someone follow thru with foot to face. But thats my way.

[quote]roguevampire wrote:

You have a right to defend yourself, regardless if your a big guy getting hit by a woman. If you tell her to stop and she doesn’t, any good lawyer would eat her up in court. There are many things a guy can do without actually hitting them… When i was a bouncer, I worked with guys that got rough with some chicks that got mouthy. The girls tried to have them arrested. Since the chicks started and instigated the problem, they were the ones who got in trouble. [/quote]

“Good lawyers” are expensive. Taking a few hits is free. Court sucks wether you win lose, or draw. And in the mean time if your cohabitating you will be BANNED FROM YOUR OWN HOME until the conclusion of the proceedings. It does’t matter if your guilty or innocent. You’re not going home for a few months. If you want to throw money away, and not be permitted in your own home, than by all means have at it. If you want to go home, AND THROW HER THE FUCK OUT, chill out and take it. Anything you do risks putting her in a position of power, and the last fucking thing you want to give a crazy bitch is fucking power.

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
He did not Respect the fact that this bitch was crazy enough to Kick him in the face. AND because of that lack of respect for the truth she kicked his ass in the face.

Respect the truth, Duck, do not allow the foot to meet your face. Let her fall on her stomach, cross her hands to the back, sit on her and wait for the cops.
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For some reason those first two sentances made me laugh. Loudly. You’ve got a way with words dude.

As for restraining her, “ I tried to get away officer, but he was holding me down He’s such a bully, he’s always doing things like that I was so SCARED!!!” Cop: “WHY THAT SCOUNDREL! I’LL SAVE YOU MADAM! HE’LL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!”. You: .

You aren’t respecting the fact that there are people more powerful than you who are completely fucking retarded, and will mistreat you far worse than her. She’s a buzzing mosquito. Swatt her at your own risk. There’s always someone with a bigger fly swatter. They wear blue, carry a badge, and are gullable as fuck when it comes to teary eyed women.[/quote]

Considering that I’m not a small guy and do know how to defend myself. The same statement can be made if it was two or 3 smaller guys trying to beat my ass on the train. “why officer look at him, we came at him as a group out of fear he would beat us around the Neck and Head”

Sometimes you just have to make a choice, his was to take the spit and foots to the face. Mine would be to let her ass hit the floor and chill her ass. If I can’t just get off the train.

My option would never be to just let someone follow thru with foot to face. But thats my way.[/quote]

3 smaller guys cannot even begin to measure up to the immediate simpathy a crying woman will invoke. If your attacker has a cock, you are fucking golden. It doesn’t matter if there’s only one of him, and he’s no bigger than this woman. It’s a completely different game. As soon as there’s a vag involved, there’s white knights on the hunt for a damsel in distress to save, and they are itching to run every inch of their lances into your pooper. I’d rather take a few hits than take a lance in the pooper.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
He did not Respect the fact that this bitch was crazy enough to Kick him in the face. AND because of that lack of respect for the truth she kicked his ass in the face.

Respect the truth, Duck, do not allow the foot to meet your face. Let her fall on her stomach, cross her hands to the back, sit on her and wait for the cops.
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For some reason those first two sentances made me laugh. Loudly. You’ve got a way with words dude.

As for restraining her, “ I tried to get away officer, but he was holding me down He’s such a bully, he’s always doing things like that I was so SCARED!!!” Cop: “WHY THAT SCOUNDREL! I’LL SAVE YOU MADAM! HE’LL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!”. You: .

You aren’t respecting the fact that there are people more powerful than you who are completely fucking retarded, and will mistreat you far worse than her. She’s a buzzing mosquito. Swatt her at your own risk. There’s always someone with a bigger fly swatter. They wear blue, carry a badge, and are gullable as fuck when it comes to teary eyed women.[/quote]

Considering that I’m not a small guy and do know how to defend myself. The same statement can be made if it was two or 3 smaller guys trying to beat my ass on the train. “why officer look at him, we came at him as a group out of fear he would beat us around the Neck and Head”

Sometimes you just have to make a choice, his was to take the spit and foots to the face. Mine would be to let her ass hit the floor and chill her ass. If I can’t just get off the train.

My option would never be to just let someone follow thru with foot to face. But thats my way.[/quote]

3 smaller guys cannot even begin to measure up to the immediate simpathy a crying woman will invoke. If your attacker has a cock, you are fucking golden. It doesn’t matter if there’s only one of him, and he’s no bigger than this woman. It’s a completely different game. As soon as there’s a vag involved, there’s white knights on the hunt for a damsel in distress to save, and they are itching to run every inch of their lances into your pooper. I’d rather take a few hits than take a lance in the pooper.[/quote]

Hey I can understand your issue with it. But I’m not taking 1 hit.

In the end I will have to take my chances with the law and i’m walking into it knowing that.

On another note. If she was rolling with me she would have known way before she put on those fuzzy face kicking boots that I’m not the one to raise them to.

She knew he would do nothing and that just made the hits keep coming.

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
Well if it is a volitile relationship(this does not look like the first time) then yes it takes two. Maybe it’s never been this bad before but still, I don’t see a woman flying off the handle like this all unexpected, it’s happened before.
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You’re looking at women through rose coloured glasses. Members of both genders are capable of flying off the handle “unexpected”. If people were all as “normal” as they seem on the outside, the world would be a much different place. This video is a snap shot of their relationsip, it’s hard to say what exists that isn’t on this film.

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
I have a friend and an aunt who get into volatile relationships, not as bad(that I’ve seen) as on the train, but still pretty bad.

The men they go for are non masculine men who they then expect to act like men which, of course they don’t. Then you have nagging, screaming, and frustration and then sometimes violence. Sometimes it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back or it’s that she screams and insults(no hitting) and then gets hit. Basically they’re in it together, bringing out the worst in each other.

:-/
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Your’s, your friend’s, and your aunt’s expectations of masculenity are irrelevent to their poor behaviour. This is no different than a man that hits a woman for not using the tangy zip of miracle whip on his sandwhich. It’s not these men’s “fault” that these women are abusing them, and you should be holding them acountable for their actions, not excusing them, and blaming the victim. Don’t make me draw a rape analagy. :stuck_out_tongue: Yes these men should get the fuck out, but there’s a host of reasons why they won’t, and while that does in a way make them responsible for their own suffering, it does not make them responsible for their partner’s actions.

[quote]=Charlie Horse said:

He was talking to the crowd about what she was doing. lol Like he wanted sympathy.

What type man wants sympathy for making his own foolish decisions? He should be embarrassed.
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The kind of man that knows he could use some help. I’m sorry, but this is misandry at it’s finest Charles. Again, insert a rape analagy here. “What kind of a woman wants sypathy for her own foolish actions?” (she shouldn’t have gone to that part of town right?). And Jews shouldn’t have been living in 1942 Germany either.

[quote]=Charlie Horse said:
Sorry if this is coming off as harsh but the holidays are looming and that means my friend(who’s in a volatile relationship) wants me to visit. Ugh!

Hopefully I’m not letting personal stuff cloud my judgement. lol

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Maybe you should talk to her about it.

[quote]four60 wrote:
She knew he would do nothing and that just made the hits keep coming.[/quote]

Or maybe she thought he would, and was hoping to gain some leverage in a seperation. Maybe she was frustrated by his lack of responce, and it only served to enrage her. It’s hard to speculate on what either was thinking. There’s alot of ways this can go wrong. Alot. It’s not called crazy for nothing.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
Well if it is a volitile relationship(this does not look like the first time) then yes it takes two. Maybe it’s never been this bad before but still, I don’t see a woman flying off the handle like this all unexpected, it’s happened before.
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You’re looking at women through rose coloured glasses. Members of both genders are capable of flying off the handle “unexpected”. If people were all as “normal” as they seem on the outside, the world would be a much different place. This video is a snap shot of their relationsip, it’s hard to say what exists that isn’t on this film.

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
I have a friend and an aunt who get into volatile relationships, not as bad(that I’ve seen) as on the train, but still pretty bad.

The men they go for are non masculine men who they then expect to act like men which, of course they don’t. Then you have nagging, screaming, and frustration and then sometimes violence. Sometimes it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back or it’s that she screams and insults(no hitting) and then gets hit. Basically they’re in it together, bringing out the worst in each other.

:-/
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Your’s, your friend’s, and your aunt’s expectations of masculenity are irrelevent to their poor behaviour. This is no different than a man that hits a woman for not using the tangy zip of miracle whip on his sandwhich. It’s not these men’s “fault” that these women are abusing them, and you should be holding them acountable for their actions, not excusing them, and blaming the victim. Don’t make me draw a rape analagy. :stuck_out_tongue: Yes these men should get the fuck out, but there’s a host of reasons why they won’t, and while that does in a way make them responsible for their own suffering, it does not make them responsible for their partner’s actions.

[quote]=Charlie Horse said:

He was talking to the crowd about what she was doing. lol Like he wanted sympathy.

What type man wants sympathy for making his own foolish decisions? He should be embarrassed.
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The kind of man that knows he could use some help. I’m sorry, but this is misandry at it’s finest Charles. Again, insert a rape analagy here. “What kind of a woman wants sypathy for her own foolish actions?” (she shouldn’t have gone to that part of town right?). And Jews shouldn’t have been living in 1942 Germany either.

[quote]=Charlie Horse said:
Sorry if this is coming off as harsh but the holidays are looming and that means my friend(who’s in a volatile relationship) wants me to visit. Ugh!

Hopefully I’m not letting personal stuff cloud my judgement. lol

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Maybe you should talk to her about it.[/quote]

Never once said the women weren’t crazy only taking exception with it being all blamed on them.

Oh and just so we’re clear my friend and aunt are the ones who ended up being more violently hurt than their men. They pushed them until they freaked. So I am blaming them for getting involved with men who were obvious looser. Obvious to me anyways.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
She knew he would do nothing and that just made the hits keep coming.[/quote]

Or maybe she thought he would, and was hoping to gain some leverage in a seperation. Maybe she was frustrated by his lack of responce, and it only served to enrage her. It’s hard to speculate on what either was thinking. There’s alot of ways this can go wrong. Alot. It’s not called crazy for nothing.[/quote]

She spit on a cop so “Crazy” is most def on the table for her.

I think she was a open book as far as her emotions went. “You cheat on me, Hulk Smash”

[quote]simpstr1 wrote:
Do you think its mostly younger women?[/quote]

I think there’s an age curve involved. There’s an epidemic that’s been stewing for years where a great many factors are snowballing through the generations. On the woman’s side there’s a perpetual increase in power, privlidge, and entitlement that’s safegaurded and insured by the higher ups in the halls of power. This leaves us with a bunch of spoiled, overprivlidged, underdisciplined, crazys with no fear. What do they have to fear? Nothing. With the army of people standing behind them they know they can do whatever they want. On the men’s side, there’s generations of men raised by women to be subserviant. Restraint enforced by fear.

The proper responce to being spit on by ANYONE is to jack knife power bomb them through the nearest table, but god help you if you do. Unless you’ve got a vag. Than you’ve got girl power, the law, and all of the truly powerful on your side.

I see it far less in older women at any rate.

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
…it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back…

…taking exception with it being all blamed on them.

Oh and just so we’re clear my friend and aunt are the ones who ended up being more violently hurt than their men. They pushed them until they freaked. So I am blaming them for getting involved with men who were obvious looser. Obvious to me anyways.
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They hit the dudes. They got hit back. They pushed them until they freaked. So it’s their fault that they got hit because they got involved with men who do not meet your expectations of masculenity who made them lose thier temper by not meating those expectations which than escalated to the “losers” losing tempers and hitting them back. These women didn’t get hit because they antagonized the shit out of, and physically attacked someone bigger, and stronger than them. They got hit because they dated losers. Wait… what?! Excuse me while my head explodes.

GENTLEMEN!

This is what women think about when they think you MIGHT hit them back. They don’t think “Oh fuck I’d best not hit him, he might hit me back”, they think “If he hits me, it’s only because he’s a loser”. If they respect you, you’re not a loser, so they’re safe to swing away, because a winner would never hit them back. If they don’t respect you they’ll hit you because you deserve it for being a loser. Either way, your getting hit, and no matter the outcome, it’s your fault, because she should have known better. Makes no sence, but hey, it is what it is. Keep calm, and carry on.

I still love you though internet mom.

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:
…it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back…

…taking exception with it being all blamed on them.

Oh and just so we’re clear my friend and aunt are the ones who ended up being more violently hurt than their men. They pushed them until they freaked. So I am blaming them for getting involved with men who were obvious looser. Obvious to me anyways.
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They hit the dudes. They got hit back. They pushed them until they freaked. So it’s their fault that they got hit because they got involved with men who do not meet your expectations of masculenity who made them lose thier temper by not meating those expectations which than escalated to the “losers” losing tempers and hitting them back. These women didn’t get hit because they antagonized the shit out of, and physically attacked someone bigger, and stronger than them. They got hit because they dated losers. Wait… what?! Excuse me while my head explodes.

GENTLEMEN!

This is what women think about when they think you MIGHT hit them back. They don’t think “Oh fuck I’d best not hit him, he might hit me back”, they think “If he hits me, it’s only because he’s a loser”. If they respect you, you’re not a loser, so they’re safe to swing away, because a winner would never hit them back. If they don’t respect you they’ll hit you because you deserve it for being a loser. Either way, your getting hit, and no matter the outcome, it’s your fault, because she should have known better. Makes no sence, but hey, it is what it is. Keep calm, and carry on.[/quote]

The women are to blame for their behavior but do the men not get any responsibility for being in the relationship at all with a crazy person? Do they not contribute anything to the drama? Just innocent victims?

He chose to be with her and she with him. Both are fucked up! BOTH!

Your post is still confusing to me btw. Not even sure if I responded to it or not.

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]simpstr1 wrote:
Do you think its mostly younger women?[/quote]

I think it takes two people to be in this kind of relationship.

I doubt this is the first time this has happened between these two. [/quote]

Upon what are you basing this?[/quote]

That this is not the first time? [/quote]

That it takes 2, and this is not the first time.[/quote]

Well if it is a volitile relationship(this does not look like the first time) then yes it takes two. Maybe it’s never been this bad before but still, I don’t see a woman flying off the handle like this all unexpected, it’s happened before.

I have a friend and an aunt who get into volatile relationships, not as bad(that I’ve seen) as on the train, but still pretty bad.

The men they go for are non masculine men who they then expect to act like men which, of course they don’t. Then you have nagging, screaming, and frustration and then sometimes violence. Sometimes it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back or it’s that she screams and insults(no hitting) and then gets hit. Basically they’re in it together, bringing out the worst in each other.

:-/

He was talking to the crowd about what she was doing. lol Like he wanted sympathy.

What type man wants sympathy for making his own foolish decisions? He should be embarrassed.

Sorry if this is coming off as harsh but the holidays are looming and that means my friend(who’s in a volatile relationship) wants me to visit. Ugh!

Hopefully I’m not letting personal stuff cloud my judgement. lol

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If I may, while I may also be bringing in my own interpretation rather than truly observing the video in an objective fashion, I see his verbal responses as embarrassment. It isn’t exactly easy to sit there in an impassive fashion when you’re fully aware of dozens of onlookers (some perhaps with video phones). Plenty of people feel the need to say something, and he perhaps didn’t want to come across as an aggressor or an abuser, which is going to be on the minds of some people. Sure, he could have picked better words, but this isn’t exactly something that everyone can easily improv. To assume that he is immediately less than an ideal masculine role-model merely for this type of verbal choice…is perhaps indicative of past experiences that would lend a less than objective mindset to this scenario.

The irony, to me, is that I think that responses of this man’s type come from the seed planted by assumptions such as the one you’re making. I do not mean to say your assumptions are not legitimate, but rather that your assumptions, and this man’s statement, are further evidence of how utterly messed up and ‘no-win’ this type of scenario tends to be. In domestic disputes, everyone brings a lifetime of baggage to the table, good and bad, which tends to polarize people in their judgement of the situation.

Pardon me if I was less than clear, it is getting late here and my brain is moving into ‘standby’ mode.

[quote]LHT wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]simpstr1 wrote:
Do you think its mostly younger women?[/quote]

I think it takes two people to be in this kind of relationship.

I doubt this is the first time this has happened between these two. [/quote]

Upon what are you basing this?[/quote]

That this is not the first time? [/quote]

That it takes 2, and this is not the first time.[/quote]

Well if it is a volitile relationship(this does not look like the first time) then yes it takes two. Maybe it’s never been this bad before but still, I don’t see a woman flying off the handle like this all unexpected, it’s happened before.

I have a friend and an aunt who get into volatile relationships, not as bad(that I’ve seen) as on the train, but still pretty bad.

The men they go for are non masculine men who they then expect to act like men which, of course they don’t. Then you have nagging, screaming, and frustration and then sometimes violence. Sometimes it’s her that slaps and slaps and then he finally hits back or it’s that she screams and insults(no hitting) and then gets hit. Basically they’re in it together, bringing out the worst in each other.

:-/

He was talking to the crowd about what she was doing. lol Like he wanted sympathy.

What type man wants sympathy for making his own foolish decisions? He should be embarrassed.

Sorry if this is coming off as harsh but the holidays are looming and that means my friend(who’s in a volatile relationship) wants me to visit. Ugh!

Hopefully I’m not letting personal stuff cloud my judgement. lol

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If I may, while I may also be bringing in my own interpretation rather than truly observing the video in an objective fashion, I see his verbal responses as embarrassment. It isn’t exactly easy to sit there in an impassive fashion when you’re fully aware of dozens of onlookers (some perhaps with video phones). Plenty of people feel the need to say something, and he perhaps didn’t want to come across as an aggressor or an abuser, which is going to be on the minds of some people. Sure, he could have picked better words, but this isn’t exactly something that everyone can easily improv. To assume that he is immediately less than an ideal masculine role-model merely for this type of verbal choice…is perhaps indicative of past experiences that would lend a less than objective mindset to this scenario.

The irony, to me, is that I think that responses of this man’s type come from the seed planted by assumptions such as the one you’re making. I do not mean to say your assumptions are not legitimate, but rather that your assumptions, and this man’s statement, are further evidence of how utterly messed up and ‘no-win’ this type of scenario tends to be. In domestic disputes, everyone brings a lifetime of baggage to the table, good and bad, which tends to polarize people in their judgement of the situation.

Pardon me if I was less than clear, it is getting late here and my brain is moving into ‘standby’ mode.
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I did mention the holidays being soon and having to visit volatile friends and that maybe my judgement was off of the situation.

^^^ I recall and I understand, that’s why I didn’t want to appear overly critical of your opinion per se, rather I hoped to use it as an opportunity to elucidate some of the possible subtext in this sort of scenario.

[quote]LHT wrote:
^^^ I recall and I understand, that’s why I didn’t want to appear overly critical of your opinion per se, rather I hoped to use it as an opportunity to elucidate some of the possible subtext in this sort of scenario. [/quote]

I will say this then.

If I have ever screamed at someone it was when I was a little girl and I have never hit anyone like that ever.

Women who are like that are always like that.

So do you think a woman who is like that can be perfectly sane and normal in all other situation?

Can she hide it?

edit by always I mean when they loose their temper they’re like that

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
He did not Respect the fact that this bitch was crazy enough to Kick him in the face. AND because of that lack of respect for the truth she kicked his ass in the face.

Respect the truth, Duck, do not allow the foot to meet your face. Let her fall on her stomach, cross her hands to the back, sit on her and wait for the cops.
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For some reason those first two sentances made me laugh. Loudly. You’ve got a way with words dude.

As for restraining her, “ I tried to get away officer, but he was holding me down He’s such a bully, he’s always doing things like that I was so SCARED!!!” Cop: “WHY THAT SCOUNDREL! I’LL SAVE YOU MADAM! HE’LL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!”. You: .

You aren’t respecting the fact that there are people more powerful than you who are completely fucking retarded, and will mistreat you far worse than her. She’s a buzzing mosquito. Swatt her at your own risk. There’s always someone with a bigger fly swatter. They wear blue, carry a badge, and are gullable as fuck when it comes to teary eyed women.[/quote]

Considering that I’m not a small guy and do know how to defend myself. The same statement can be made if it was two or 3 smaller guys trying to beat my ass on the train. “why officer look at him, we came at him as a group out of fear he would beat us around the Neck and Head”

Sometimes you just have to make a choice, his was to take the spit and foots to the face. Mine would be to let her ass hit the floor and chill her ass. If I can’t just get off the train.

My option would never be to just let someone follow thru with foot to face. But thats my way.[/quote]

3 smaller guys cannot even begin to measure up to the immediate simpathy a crying woman will invoke. If your attacker has a cock, you are fucking golden. It doesn’t matter if there’s only one of him, and he’s no bigger than this woman. It’s a completely different game. As soon as there’s a vag involved, there’s white knights on the hunt for a damsel in distress to save, and they are itching to run every inch of their lances into your pooper. I’d rather take a few hits than take a lance in the pooper.[/quote]

Hey I can understand your issue with it. But I’m not taking 1 hit.

In the end I will have to take my chances with the law and i’m walking into it knowing that.

On another note. If she was rolling with me she would have known way before she put on those fuzzy face kicking boots that I’m not the one to raise them to.

She knew he would do nothing and that just made the hits keep coming.[/quote]

right on!

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]LHT wrote:
^^^ I recall and I understand, that’s why I didn’t want to appear overly critical of your opinion per se, rather I hoped to use it as an opportunity to elucidate some of the possible subtext in this sort of scenario. [/quote]

I will say this then.

If I have ever screamed at someone it was when I was a little girl and I have never hit anyone like that ever.

Women who are like that are always like that.

So do you think a woman who is like that can be perfectly sane and normal in all other situation?

Can she hide it?

edit by always I mean when they loose their temper they’re like that[/quote]

Ah I think I understand…so you’re saying that the combined evidence, such as him sticking with he for two years, in addition to the obvious instability demonstrated by her ludicrous public display, would tend to indicate that both parties are, for lack of a better term, a little messed up? Her for whatever reasons, and him for sticking with someone obviously ‘disturbed?’

[quote]LHT wrote:

[quote]Charlie Horse wrote:

[quote]LHT wrote:
^^^ I recall and I understand, that’s why I didn’t want to appear overly critical of your opinion per se, rather I hoped to use it as an opportunity to elucidate some of the possible subtext in this sort of scenario. [/quote]

I will say this then.

If I have ever screamed at someone it was when I was a little girl and I have never hit anyone like that ever.

Women who are like that are always like that.

So do you think a woman who is like that can be perfectly sane and normal in all other situation?

Can she hide it?

edit by always I mean when they loose their temper they’re like that[/quote]

Ah I think I understand…so you’re saying that the combined evidence, such as him sticking with he for two years, in addition to the obvious instability demonstrated by her ludicrous public display, would tend to indicate that both parties are, for lack of a better term, a little messed up? Her for whatever reasons, and him for sticking with someone obviously ‘disturbed?’
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Pretty much yep.

But I also mentioned that it did not mean that it was like this all the time, maybe this was a bit extreme for them. Or not.

I think you would also have to be trapped(and this could be where my bias is coming from) in a situation with people like this to really see how both are at fault.

But the woman in this scenario is definitely the criminal and I’m not arguing for actual criminal charges against the man.

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:

[quote]Broncoandy wrote:

[quote]four60 wrote:
He did not Respect the fact that this bitch was crazy enough to Kick him in the face. AND because of that lack of respect for the truth she kicked his ass in the face.

Respect the truth, Duck, do not allow the foot to meet your face. Let her fall on her stomach, cross her hands to the back, sit on her and wait for the cops.
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For some reason those first two sentances made me laugh. Loudly. You’ve got a way with words dude.

As for restraining her, “ I tried to get away officer, but he was holding me down He’s such a bully, he’s always doing things like that I was so SCARED!!!” Cop: “WHY THAT SCOUNDREL! I’LL SAVE YOU MADAM! HE’LL NEVER DO THAT AGAIN!”. You: .

You aren’t respecting the fact that there are people more powerful than you who are completely fucking retarded, and will mistreat you far worse than her. She’s a buzzing mosquito. Swatt her at your own risk. There’s always someone with a bigger fly swatter. They wear blue, carry a badge, and are gullable as fuck when it comes to teary eyed women.[/quote]

Considering that I’m not a small guy and do know how to defend myself. The same statement can be made if it was two or 3 smaller guys trying to beat my ass on the train. “why officer look at him, we came at him as a group out of fear he would beat us around the Neck and Head”

Sometimes you just have to make a choice, his was to take the spit and foots to the face. Mine would be to let her ass hit the floor and chill her ass. If I can’t just get off the train.

My option would never be to just let someone follow thru with foot to face. But thats my way.[/quote]

3 smaller guys cannot even begin to measure up to the immediate simpathy a crying woman will invoke. If your attacker has a cock, you are fucking golden. It doesn’t matter if there’s only one of him, and he’s no bigger than this woman. It’s a completely different game. As soon as there’s a vag involved, there’s white knights on the hunt for a damsel in distress to save, and they are itching to run every inch of their lances into your pooper. I’d rather take a few hits than take a lance in the pooper.[/quote]

Hey I can understand your issue with it. But I’m not taking 1 hit.

In the end I will have to take my chances with the law and i’m walking into it knowing that.

On another note. If she was rolling with me she would have known way before she put on those fuzzy face kicking boots that I’m not the one to raise them to.

She knew he would do nothing and that just made the hits keep coming.[/quote]

Exactly. 100% agree.