[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
SHE NEVER CHEATED ON ME… [/quote]
lol. I love your optimism.
[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
Sorry guys, I’m kinda distraught and not typing everything well.
SHE NEVER CHEATED ON ME… She fucked this dude when we were broken up, but she lied about his advances while we were together. I trust that she didn’t cheat on me, even with all the pessimism about everything else. Me not having my shit together and her lies about her past with a friend in the group is what’s throwing me off and making me feel so bad. Sorry for the confusion. Had she cheated I’d be done and would have turned the house upside down already, trust me, without skipping a beat.[/quote]
Unfortunately this is irrelevant. You’re on a downward spiral and your self esteem will only get lower the longer you stay in this relationship. And there is a good chance she will eventually cheat or already has; a self-fulfilling prophecy.
I’ve been through something similar, and the only thing that got me back to the confident person I know myself to be was getting rid of the GF that was draining my self esteem.
[quote]Anonymity wrote:
[quote]Bod-of-Phwoar wrote:
Have you considered GPS tracking?[/quote]
Bravo[/quote]
It was a cheap shot, but damn it I’d do it again
Grow a pair of balls and leave her then get on with your life , you will be better for it.
[quote]:
We have been dating for 3 1/2 years now, it’s serious, and I want to marry this girl.
about 2 years into it we broke up. I was a “hot shot” at the gym, had a ton a friends, and girls hitting on me. I never did anything, but she broke it off bc she claimed I was trying to cheat on her… There’s more to all this, but these are the bullet points and I’ll be happy to clarify anything else…
We lived together when we broke up, and I had no warning for any of this, so we still lived together for a month or so after we broke up. That sucked.
She made a rule that I can’t bring anyone in the house, and that was fine. She went home that weekend for about a week and fucked some guy without protection, and we had sex later. She didn’t tell me and I got the clap (my ass still itches to this day from the meds fucking w my system). [/quote]
Saw this, LOL’d and stopped reading.
OP is pussy-whipped to the extreme. She played the “if he can do better maybe ill fuck other guys but do a pretend breakup” card and he fell for it!
LMFAO! Dude, go and get laid with some chicks you dont care about and realise you just stayed with this one because you were dumb enough to fall for her “charms”. Did she gargle?
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
Grow a pair of balls and leave her then get on with your life , you will be better for it.[/quote]
No shit, I swear there is not a piece of ass that could make me deal with all of that. GPS her to make sure though.
[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
Sorry guys, I’m kinda distraught and not typing everything well.
SHE NEVER CHEATED ON ME… She fucked this dude when we were broken up, but she lied about his advances while we were together. I trust that she didn’t cheat on me, even with all the pessimism about everything else. Me not having my shit together and her lies about her past with a friend in the group is what’s throwing me off and making me feel so bad. Sorry for the confusion. Had she cheated I’d be done and would have turned the house upside down already, trust me, without skipping a beat.[/quote]
Listen wether or not she cheated on you is irrelevant that is not the only reason to end a relationship and not the reason i ended my marriage it was a symptom of a screwed up relationship and trying to "win"her back from this other guy is not fair to you. But its a free world and it is not easy to move on we are all just trying to save you some pain but maybe you will have to go through what some of us seem to have went though. Also if she had given you herpes or HIV would you be so forgiving ? Yes she did not cheat on you but you had a right to know if she was with someone else before you restarted your relationship on a sexual level and if you were broke up and no kids involved why did she put restrictions on you bringing women to your house ? Anyways just to let you know how screwed up my ex was after years of zero contact I dont participate in social media or anything like that my ex called me at my work (not sure how she found me) just to catch up and “see how i was doing.” And started saying how she was unhappy in her current marriage, nice huh and this is marriage number 3 for her poor bastard she is married to probabaly has no idea. Had i been a total d bag i could have pursued a fling but i am not like that and it sounds like your are an honest person too. Anyways good luck.
[quote]MWP wrote:
[quote]bdocksaints75 wrote:
Grow a pair of balls and leave her then get on with your life , you will be better for it.[/quote]
No shit, I swear there is not a piece of ass that could make me deal with all of that. GPS her to make sure though. [/quote]
I would have had a hard time not smashing her face in a wall after she gave me an STD.
[quote]VTTrainer wrote:
Sorry guys, I’m kinda distraught and not typing everything well.
SHE NEVER CHEATED ON ME… She fucked this dude when we were broken up, but she lied about his advances while we were together. I trust that she didn’t cheat on me, even with all the pessimism about everything else. Me not having my shit together and her lies about her past with a friend in the group is what’s throwing me off and making me feel so bad. Sorry for the confusion. Had she cheated I’d be done and would have turned the house upside down already, trust me, without skipping a beat.[/quote]
First of all, if someone is obsessed with you potentially cheating is very often projecting her character traits on you.
Meaning, she is likely to cheat and therefore thinks you might be too.
Second, she might be worried that there are a lot of girls out there who drop their panties at a moments notice.
She is right, and where might she have learned that?
I mean, just because she hangs around with people who have STDs, dont use condoms or drive into a tree drunk as a skunk…
Id like to see OP continue this relationship. It will bring me pleasure beyond measure.
and they said I was crazy…
is anyone still curious why I don’t respect women?
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
and they said I was crazy…
is anyone still curious why I don’t respect women?[/quote]
No
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
and they said I was crazy…
is anyone still curious why I don’t respect women?[/quote]
They are mostly all evil cunts. But they have a vagina.
[quote]MWP wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
and they said I was crazy…
is anyone still curious why I don’t respect women?[/quote]
They are mostly all evil cunts. But they have a vagina.[/quote]
this is true, but it’s not worth std’s and feeling emasculated by every creature with a penis
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
Fuck that bitch!
S’cuse me, but there are women I will not stand by. So, she forbade you to bring anyone in the house while she was out there spreading her legs and catching some diseases? WTF?
Kick that STD infested cunt out of your fucking house NOW!! Get a fucking hold of yourself already. WTF?? Are you a man?? No, you’re a fucking pussy! A fucking pussy who will continue to be a fucking pisswipe as long you fall for your gf’s shenanigans. No wonder your life is fucking toxic right now.
Talk to her, tell her it’s fucking OVER.
Fucking hell. Where the fuck has the testosterone gone in this motherfucking world?[/quote]
can’t agree more. OP seems like a good guy but a major chump
You’ll feel like a puss as long as you remain with her because…you’re being a puss
She’s an opportunist who didn’t sacrifice much for you. She’s looking out for herself
You didn’t look out for yourself and sacrificed way too much for her. If she cared, she wouldn’t have let your life turn to crap.
- dump her & block all contact from her
- get extremely drunk that night
- the next morning you will wake up with that same drive you had for your fitness and career that you had years ago
[quote]csulli wrote:
Listen to me VT.
Seriously.
This girl cheated on you, and she probably still is. She is a disgusting whore who gave you gonorrhea, has eating disorder issues, and hangs out with shitty people.
You need to tell her to fuck off and never come back. Tell her you don’t love her and you never want to see her again as long as you live. She is draining you. You are becoming weaker mentally and physically as long as her influence pervades your environment. You need to take your balls back. Get rid of her and get back in the gym and turn yourself into a barbarous savage. Reclaim your masculinity and you will reclaim your life. The first step to controlling all the stressing factors is to eliminate the succubus who is feeding off you.
You’re worried about her leaving you because you’re inferior. It’s the opposite. You are an honest, faithful, and helpful person. She is a lying, cheating, crazy person. YOU need to leave because you are superior. You must not continue to surround yourself with people who will drag you down so that they may climb atop your corpse to make themselves feel higher.
Trust me. She is literally tanking your testosterone. Once you find the power to rid yourself of her, you will regain your confidence, security, and strength both physically and mentally. You will eventually find yourself in a position to be with someone much better and more stable than her.[/quote]
OP, you need to follow this advise. Read this post, re-read this post every fucking day if you have to. DarkNinja’s post was good too.
cliffs:
-OP was jacked and was moving forward with his career
-OP got a GF who wouldn’t do much for him but would do things to spite him
-he got fat, career/college ended completely, spent thousands of hours and dollars being her Dr. Phil, got gonorrhea, and feels like crap all the time
next steps??? keep in mind this is what true love is
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
[quote]MWP wrote:
[quote]Mr. Walkway wrote:
and they said I was crazy…
is anyone still curious why I don’t respect women?[/quote]
They are mostly all evil cunts. But they have a vagina.[/quote]
this is true, but it’s not worth std’s and feeling emasculated by every creature with a penis[/quote]
maybe quality women just aren’t interested in you?
[quote]DarkNinjaa wrote:
Fuck that bitch!
S’cuse me, but there are women I will not stand by. So, she forbade you to bring anyone in the house while she was out there spreading her legs and catching some diseases? WTF?
Kick that STD infested cunt out of your fucking house NOW!! Get a fucking hold of yourself already. WTF?? Are you a man?? No, you’re a fucking pussy! A fucking pussy who will continue to be a fucking pisswipe as long you fall for your gf’s shenanigans. No wonder your life is fucking toxic right now.
Talk to her, tell her it’s fucking OVER.
Fucking hell. Where the fuck has the testosterone gone in this motherfucking world?[/quote]
This…OP!