[quote]Cephalic_Carnage wrote:
Just saw this thread now…
Eating infrequently always makes me feel lethargic and tired after a relatively short time of being awake… I used to do it all the way through school and that sucked… Even now with a much better understanding of how to structure my diet I really just can’t do it… I end up needing excessive amounts of sleep vs. time awake for some reason (same calorie count) and I’m maybe good for the first 7-8 or so hours of the day, then I may as well lie down and go to dreamland because my brain certainly does.
Never been able to chug down really huge amounts of calories in one meal either, makes my stomach hurt and I end up looking bloated…
A few years back trying to get to 300 lbs and eating a shit ton of food obviously made the infrequent eating approach impossible for me, but now that I’ve been sitting at 265-275 for half a year or so and don’t have to eat remotely as much, 3 meals per day still doesn’t work any better.
Fortunately I’m rather flexible when it comes to my diet with only a few rules I stick to (protein intake and total cals mostly)… Getting in enough protein to keep my strength gains coming in quickly enough (whether while gaining bodyweight or staying at a weight such as I’m doing now) is just about impossible on a low frequency diet for me.
And after over a decade of eating 5-6+ (almost never done more than that though, unless I had to work the night through or something… I used to get by on 3-5 hours of sleep a night tops all throughout uni, but that totally doesn’t work if I’m eating infrequently… Now about 5-6 hours a night is plenty, though I sometimes wish I could fall asleep a little easier) meals/big shakes per day, I’ve figured out lots of little tweaks for my diet, how to avoid getting gassy etc, what I can eat a lot of “safely”, how to reduce prep time and what have you so that it’s actually no chore at all as long as I’m not trying to get in 8000 or so (that’s a bother no matter what I do, obviously).
If I’m with friends somewhere at a restaurant or whatever, I can eat just fine as long as I actually like the food (that’s my main issue, I’m a bit limited in food choices not because of a strict diet but because most of the stuff served at local pub’s, restaurants etc is stuff I don’t like).
Alcohol is a non-issue as I don’t drink it anyway (no particular reason) and all the people I know are used to that.
Having a wife who lifts seriously and approaches things in a very similar fashion helps a ton though. We’ve been together (only married recently) for pretty much as long as I’ve been training.
Anyway, as far as I’m concerned just do what gets the job done well in your particular case… If that’s eating few meals a day, that’s cool too.
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Hey Cephalic,
Good post. A lot of what dictates meal frequency is lifestyle, nutrient needs, and even cultural norms. If I remember correctly, in Germany, lunch is the largest meal of the day and breakfast and dinner are relatively light. Kinda surprising though, consdering that at the German restaurant I go to around here, nearly every meal serves up 1000-2000 calories and 50-75 grams of protein! 
I’m like you. At this point I really just concern myself with protein, total caloric amount, enough fruits and veggies, and a small amount of EFAs per day (eg, serving of fish or some flaxseeds or flaxseed oil in a salad or yogurt). I highly dislike shakes now - to the point of not being able to drink one, even peri-workout. My goals are different than yours, so my protein intake is lower (something like 1.7-2.0 g/kg); that’s not a whopping amount at all.
Like I said above, it has and is being done, but getting in 6,000 calories in 2 to 4 meals can be a chore, especially if someone doesn’t follow a liberalized diet (won’t eat out, won’t eat a piece of cake, won’t have that pizza).
Me right now - I don’t want to even think of food, except when it’s time to eat. Eating six times per day had me thinking of food nearly all day! “Where can I put this cooler?” “Where’s there to get some good food in an hour?” “It’s really late; I gotta get home to eat.”
Couldn’t take it anymore!
And it’s a good thing that I let go of the notion that going for more than four hours without food will miraculously lead muscle loss and a halt in metabolism. Letting go of that notion also let me have more flexibility in my diet. If I planned on eating dinner at 7, but for some reason get home at 9, then I’m having dinner at 9:30. And nothing “bad” is going to happen.
I remember Charles Glass wrote in a magazine long ago, “One of my clients lost 15 lbs from missing a meal.” Yeah, sure.