[quote]SexMachine wrote:
- Getting a date from a drivethru chick would be nearly impossible because:
A). They surely get flirted with all the time [/quote]
Probably more so than women who do not work with the public, but this is the case for ALL or NEARLY ALL women who are not hunchbacks! Seriously, even ordinary women are getting hit on… all… the time. And judging from those with partners, even some homely ones are never without a man.
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B). They surely wouldn’t like to be chatted up by a strange guy calling out from his car window [/quote]
You are assuming this. Some will mind. Some won’t.
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C). No chance to really talk. [/quote]
Then you will simply have to try something smooth and quick, and see if it works.
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D). Couldn’t really wait around till she finishes because that would be creepy. [/quote]
So? If you are not harassing her and if she is creeped out a bit, then she’ll have to deal with it. And she will get through it. I deal with creepy people everyday of my working life and in the town I work in and I’m fine.
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E). They would probably assume a well dressed man in a nice car is only looking for a one night stand from a drive thru chick. [/quote]
A man who wants female companionship or to get laid. What a surprise! I’m sure she can live with this impression too considering the world is filled with we normal men who want to get laid.
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But anyway, I think I still might be able to pull this one off. I have a plan. But firstly, any ideas? Advice?[/quote]
Look, I’ve been through this hesitant, modest, self-effacing, and above all, OVERLY CAREFUL crap before, and it just doesn’t work… in any area of life, not just dating!
If a man is acting respectful and knows when to back off then a grown woman will just have to deal with some INTRUSION from men here and there. I used to not talk to stranger women because I thought I would be intrusive. Meanwhile my close friend who didn’t really give a damn–but was always respectful and never rude–got one date after another when we were younger. If he saw a woman he found attractive, he would wave, wink, yell out a compliment from his parked car, honk the horn, strike up a conversation, make a gesture to dance together, WHATEVER it took to show interest. His brother was and is the same way now (he did not get married). Both never lacked short or long term female company.
I will NEVER have their personality, but when I stopped giving a rat’s ass about everyone liking me or people not being able to deal with my flaws or quirks or style or preferences or whatever about me, my life got better, and actually more people wanted to be part of my life, male and female, and now I have someone special in my life who I will be marrying this summer.
Cliff’s: Stop worrying about being so damn careful and see what happens. If you’re not nuts, she will live with your flirtation, even if it’s corny, intrusive, creepy, or whatever!