Honestly I agree with the one’s here that said it was a lack of communication. I have a few fuck buddies and they are just that and know it. As long as both people know up front what the other wants/expects usually everyone ends up on the same page.
Guys don’t tend to be one’s to think they are dating as much as girls do (my experience) so I find it hard to believe you didn’t lead him on a bit. Then there are the guy’s that cling on to the first piece of ass they get or have gotten in a long time and that is a whole different story.
sounds like any “relationship” i’ve ever been in for the past couple years: fun for a while, sex every couple days, then miscommunication leading to hurt feelings leading to awkwardness.
i couldn’t resist as steely is dead on. and the roles seem reversed here, in my experiance it’s the gurls that act this way not hte guy.
Wideguy
it’s astronomically coincidental that p-dog was dating/dry humping a gurl named ericka, she made him cake and everything.lol I think i have an explanation for p-dogs falling in luv. He has no anti-e for his cycle.lmao
according to pepe la mule it will be here saturday. don’t worry ericka once he gets the extra E out of his system he might be somewhat normal again. btw ericka i’ll be at the pub tonight so come to p-town and bring some friends.
maybe the guy planned to take you out but the weather was bad or something.
sounds to me like hes a really great guy that just happens to enjoy sex. id give him another shot if i were you. guys like that may only come along once in a lifetime!
BrentM,
Yes he also frequents this site, but I did not post this in the hopes that he sees it. We actually have discussed the situation more than once and have remained friends eventhough I “cut him off” and we will continue to remain friends. I also told him right from the start that i didn’t want to play games and that I realized pretty quickly that we would not be more than just “buddies”. Yet he never wanted to talk about it.
I agree with P-dog.
maybe he had to wash his hair that night? rotf
btw p-dog has a shaved head.
There is an official name for dry humping, we actually have to teach this snazzy catch phrase to people who catch std’s as an alternative to fucking…
“outercourse”
B.
I’m flabbergasted at the significance you seem to put into the actual act of going on a date.
I don’t think I have ever been on a “date” in the sense of asking someone I don’t know out to do whatever. Basically the entire idea of “dating” simply doesn’t exist in Denmark the way it does in the US. That doesn’t mean there aren’t any couples. Dating isn’t the determining factor of whether or not you’re a couple. I know he said “dating” but I would think that he just meant he thought you were being exclusive.
Was he wrong to assume that? Yeah probably. Did you kiss each other every time you were together? That sort of thing? If not I can see your perspective. Either way I don’t understand how it can be a total surprise to you that he felt how he felt.
/Jacob
P-Dog, the way that last post sounds, you are the guy Erika is talking about! Mdog, pepe la mule? That is fuckin’ great.
rep
in denmark isn’t the leagal age 14? i can see why you have no dating there either.lol ok lunch is over
I have to say this is entertaining… However… here is an idea… why don’t one of you (who-ever you are) pick up the phone and call your “friend”. Then get back to all of us and let us know what happened. You could call it “Friends with Benefits… Round 2”
it aint me godammit!
Age of consent in Denmark is 15. I agree with that generally, though the thought gets icky with the 15 year old girl matched with my grandfather.
It’s not that I have never been to a restaurant with a girl (obviously), but never one I hadn’t already been with, or where the result of the evening wasn’t really known beforehand.
/Jacob
P-Dog, you are way to sensitive about it for it to not be you. 
Definitely Fuck-Friend.
The guy is sort of pissed-off because you cut the relationship first. He seems to have feelings for you, not just lust. Were it only lust, he’d just go chasing elsewhere the minute you tore the ‘deal’. So you know he was expecting more of you, or, at the very least, did not have the same expectations.
You were in fuck-friend mode. Not him. That’s the bottom-line. All the rest is damage-control.
Just my 2 cents. Maybe more later.
One of my favorite dates was heading out to get pizza, getting a motel room instead, and ended up eating breakfast after. That was about date three with her. We didn’t go on a lot of traditional dates. We’d been on a four day hiking trip and gone swimming etc.
We’ve been married for 21 years now so it must have worked out OK.
The way we knew we were exclusive, even way back in the dark ages of the 80s, was by talking about it. She’d been seeing another guy when she met me. That night she talked to him and said she wouldn’t be seeing him any longer. A few days later we decided we were a couple and that was that.
We’re still fond of going out to breakfast after sex. Funny how habits get started that way.
You can only know for sure if you’re exclusive if you ask. Caveat emptor.
That said, it’s generally a good rule of thumb that if you have a pair of people having sex on a regular basis, and it hasn’t been established that they are NOT dating, at least one assumes they are. Just MHO.
Jesus P-DOG you cheapskate, at least bring over some Chinese take-out. Besides, think of the fun you two (whoever the other person is…wink, wink) can have with the duck sauce. 
STEELY: Your story could almost be summed up by the slogan of the New York State Lotto:
Hey, you never know!