hurt feelings are a son of a bitch. i find it makes me feel better to tell them when they do that. “hey, _______ really hurt my feelings and made me think __________.” they’re not mind readers, and sometimes they’re still 11 years old and need to be told those things.
or,
“you are not going to stop me from having sex with my husband”
or,
new shoes.
Air humps - FTW, and very cute toe cleavage.
My ghetto ymca has no smith machine squat pad, or yoga matt or what not-
i do miss air humps.
Im about as old and busted as joe and we have a 14 month old at home,
and we are kind of both big city workaholics
needless to say some of our fun time changed with baby
but it is spring- see if hormones will fire with weather
Bear got most of it.
Hubby has been on Vaca, and thinking bout sex for 95% of his day, instead of just 90% as usual
Hubby has sent out the signals, flirty, making eyes, hugging more/calling more
Hubby makes the move,
wife says…mebbe later after blahblahblah
Hubby hears ‘I just ain’t into it, or you for that matter, you fat-ass pigface’
wife completes her duties/chores/projects and makes move towards hubby
hubby thinks ‘I ain’t into it now, so suffer bitch. How’s if feel not to be wanted/desired?’
Wife thinks WTF?
hubby sleeps on the couch, feeling a combination of hurt and vindication.
pride, my dear. men are complicated creatures, the think that there is no emotion and drama, when in reality we just don’t understand or know how to deal with the emotion and drama.
think I may be close?
GREAT shoes…sorry you got your feeling hurts. that sucks. 
also thanks for posting the glute bridge vid, i had no clue how i could set it up on my own 
I second Edgy’s analysis. And add–when you were not initially available, hubby like took matters into his own hands. I don’t think he got his cookies anywhere else.
im so glad i let edgy take that one. its funny to see someone else say it, and bc it makes me think im right.
i’ll spare you my indepth opinion abt cheating, but at this point the two of you are both dealing with hurt feelings and bruised egos. someone is gonna hafta step up and make it better first, and i get the feeling that the two of you could be stubborn as mules if you so chose. don’t do that, it’ll just make things worse.
show him the new shoes, as hes getting out of the shower. while youre wearing them. just the shoes.
Agree with Edgy and Bear.
i agree, too.
i suck at this kinda stuff, but it makes a lot of sense.
awww, hopefully just a rough patch…
we all have em…Imagine throwing kids and pets into the mix! It’ll be ok…
(hugs)
I’ll agree with all of the analysis as well. But honestly, as long as you’re still in love with each other (which by reading your log over the last couple of months I would have a hard time believing you aren’t) then things will work themselves out. Just try again. The shoes are hot, so take Bear’s advice. I hardly ever see me my man anymore, but he still goes nuts for me in heels. With or without other clothing.
it all makes sense in a twisted fucked up way.
my beef is when I see him doing stuff/ stressed for work/ being busy, I will back off without a hitch.
men are such babies…
Mims- I have no idea how families make it work. We would be so lost. I’m sure my cat thinks “what did I do to deserve these humans??” lolz.
Anywho, I am not one for grudging too long, watched a movie last night, Narnia 3 cause we are both fantasy geeks.
Today is major good day: PL gym in a bit, between my business trip to vancouver and easter family weekend, I haven’t been in 2 weeks. It should be fun:) After I will dutifully replace all my lost calories with a BBQ at the bro’s place: t-bone veal steaks, wine and play time with my cookie face before bedtime. All is right with the world.
I might even consider limiting my wine drinking in order not to fall in a deep coma sleep on our drive back home…
No relationship is 100% plain sailing. Then again I am not one to give advice seeing as my boyfriend can’t be arsed to see me more than twice a year. Heh.
The shoes are good though.
or maybe you could stop on the side of the road, and uh…
teehee!
Have fun at the PL gym…sounds like a good day in store!
Frenchie, I’m not drinking AT ALL tonight. My bf hates to smell the booze on me and I am not jeopardizing getting laid. So drink a glass of wine for me, have fun with the family-- especially cookie face, and then go home and get down with your hubby!
Oh, and have a killer time at the PL gym. Can’t wait to come back to hear all about it!
EDIT: Oh, and I will be making full use of my heels tonight. Can’t decide which color though…
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EDIT: Oh, and I will be making full use of my heels tonight. Can’t decide which color though…[/quote]
I’ll have a glass of wine for you but you mutst post your top 3 heels and let people vote and which pair you should keep on tonight… that would be so cool!
damn I gotta sign off a get my ass to the gym. I expect some shoe pics when I get back! 
edit:
Mims you dirty girl! I like the way ya think…
Cal - a nice heel trumps all. except good times wearing heels…
so powerlifting gym:
Bench: Forgot my log book so I improvised…
bar x12
95 x8
115 x5
125 x3
135 x2
140 x1
145 x1
135 x3
115 x8
Dumbell Rows
40 x12, 50 x12
superset with
kettle bell shrugs
24kg x 10, 16kg with chains x10 - never used chains before… so cool
Alternating red band tricep pull down 3x20
Alternating red band wood chop 3x20
Fat man pullups with rings 3x10 - was supposed to do pullups but ran out of gas.
Now to enjoy this beautiful sunny day…
cheerios!
Nice lifting Mainy!
Re the hubby I’ve been there too. Hang in there! Back when I started getting back in shape and starting to feel good about myself after a long bout of meh I wasn’t getting the response I was hoping for and it was pretty confusing. It was all about bruised egos in the end but it still stung, especially when I’d just discovered I was worthy of sexing after all.
LOL girl I’m a label ho, I saw that! 
Awesome workout chicka.
Pressing looked really good.
As to the other stuff, I know very few couple where the sex drive’s match well. Its one of those things I guess.
Great effort! love to see you pushing it hard!