Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.
Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get. [/quote]
Lol, these two things aren’t mutually exclusive man.[/quote]
Yes, they are. [/quote]
Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding isn’t even enjoyable unless you are emotional clean.
Unless our ideas of emotionally clean are vastly different. [/quote]
Instead of “emotionally safe,” maybe he should have said “egalitarian.”
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Fair enough, that would make sense.
I don’t think egaliatrianism leads to healthly relationships. Genders are different for a reason.
In the movie Pretty Woman, Richard Gere tells Julia Roberts that a person’s first exposure to blowjobs is very important. If she loves it, she will always love it. If she doesn’t, she may learn to appreciate it, but it will never become part of her soul…I may be paraphrasing here.
Anyway, if the first time a girl gives a bj it is because her boyfriend pressures her and she acquiesces before she is ready, then she is most likely to view bjs as demeaning and merely a task to be performed. However, if she reaches the point where she wants to do it on her own, she is much more likely to enjoy it.
Fast forward 15 years and you have women who only do it to get something in return (ie shoes, jewelry or return oral). Then, there are those who genuinely ENJOY it and recognize that there is a great amount of power and dominance when you are in control of another person’s pleasure.
[quote]DBCooper wrote:
Unfortunately, I know of something that he likes. He’s said before that he likes the way I write on here and that my ability to argue a point is without peers.
Not really sure how to take that.[/quote]
Dude. He was being ironic.[/quote]
Not really sure how to take that either.[/quote]
This is one of the funniest things on the internet.
[quote]hastalles wrote:
Do you like ANYTHING? Serious question.
You’re hating on someone or something in literally every one of your posts I’ve seen.
Someone with such highly tuned tastes must be pretty awesome.
I want to see some evidence of how excellent you are at whatever it is you do. Give me some motivation to keep striving for glory that even you would approve of.[/quote]
the premise of this thread is false, if you have been stalking me as much as you claim, you will know that your opening question is nonsense.
therefore why would i bother responding - i know that i could write a dozen 500 word replies to your questions and get nowhere as you do not like my posts regardless. you are hardly going to end this thread with “actually, i apologise, you have proven me wrong, let’s be best buddies.”
more importantly than this, i genuinely do not care if you and others do not like my posts, so have no motive to respond in the first place.
ps - no surprise to see you and your sweaty palms here, Bundy.
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that ain’t even the goal
[quote]SmilingPolitely wrote:
Then, there are those who genuinely ENJOY it and recognize that there is a great amount of power and dominance when you are in control of another person’s pleasure.[/quote]
I’ve been with two of these types of women and they are, to say the least, AWESOME!
I’ll make it clear, this is what’s wrong with curling. It’s on ice (it has that going for it) but there is no puck, no stick, no goalie, no shooting, no skating, no hitting, no fighting.
But there is copious amounts of booze consumed from my understanding which is good. [/quote]
Have you ever played shuffleboard?
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Yep. I wonder if there is a single hot chick who plays shuffleboard, doubt it.
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I’ll bet there are more hot chicks playing shuffleboard than there are playing football.
For the record, , and speaking as his close personal friend And someone who knows him in real life as well, not only on the Internet: Chushin about as far from a creep as you can get. I can personally vouch for his superior character, anyone who follows him around the site, sniping at him and behaving like a child, not only demonstrates that they clearly have no clue who he is or what he’s about, but they make themselves look very bad in the process.
Chushin is my man, and I can promise you that any concern he expresses toward any other member of this site is made in the spirit of utmost sincerity.
Yolo, you’re wrong. You would do well to take the high road and back off,
I hope you have more class than to slap at the hand of someone who’s offering an olive branch.
[quote]Chushin wrote:
I have to admit that being called that bugged me at first. Till I realized that people here know and respect me. People who, over the years, have become friends. The same people who know that your kind of “fun” is completely out of character for me, and that I wouldn’t be engaging in it if I hadn’t been provoked.
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Lol - dude, seriously?
Everyone here knows who the assholes are - and you aren’t one of them!! : )