For Yolo84

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Doesnt matter if she likes it.

I was told by a women that she “did not do that”.

Before I could think I told her “alright, I will find one who will”.

Shlurp.

whispers

…shittests are all around us…

Soooo, there are at least a dozen guys out there who never had their dick sucked by her, I did.

If they would know, they should feel insulted.

Or inferior.

Actually, I prefer inferior.

[quote]super saiyan wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]super saiyan wrote:
[/quote]
Best post

sorry[/quote]

Best apology[/quote]

I’m laughing hysterically at this, and I have absolutely no clue why, damn you super saiyan.

Like…still laughing.

Wtf?

Still. Fucking. Laughing.

Either super saiyan is a comic genius or I’m broken.

Probably both.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Doesnt matter if she likes it.

I was told by a women that she “did not do that”.

Before I could think I told her “alright, I will find one who will”.

Shlurp.

whispers

…shittests are all around us…

Soooo, there are at least a dozen guys out there who never had their dick sucked by her, I did.

If they would know, they should feel insulted.

Or inferior.

Actually, I prefer inferior. [/quote]
Okay so do you perform oral on women?

Do you even think about the psych of it when you do?

Because you have one experience in this regards you tend to generalize

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Doesnt matter if she likes it.

I was told by a women that she “did not do that”.

Before I could think I told her “alright, I will find one who will”.

Shlurp.

whispers

…shittests are all around us…

Soooo, there are at least a dozen guys out there who never had their dick sucked by her, I did.

If they would know, they should feel insulted.

Or inferior.

Actually, I prefer inferior. [/quote]
Okay so do you perform oral on women?

Do you even think about the psych of it when you do?

Because you have one experience in this regards you tend to generalize [/quote]

Yeah, but only because this question usually does not come up.

But I would know what to do if it did.

If she is all “I dont do this, I dont do that” she is either shittesting or a bitch that sees you as a mere utility.

Next, she will ration sex.

Anyhow, yes I do.

There are women though, and I found that to be baffling, who refused to be eaten out by me.

This was until I realized with one that she would never, ever accept having to make decisions for me.

That was eery:

“Hi, can we meet.”

“Yup”

“When do you have time?”

“Thursday, Friday, I dont care”

…silence…silence…

“Alright, Friday then, 1600 sharp”.

“Yippeee”… giggles…

I think she sees oral sex as submission and is fine submitting to me, but would die of embarrassment if I submitted to her. I think some grave to be lead so much, that they will not go for pussy eating if that could in any way change that dynamic.

That is just a tentative hypothesis though.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

And I would say only certian types of BJ’s are acts of submission…[/quote]

Really?

I mean, you could suck a dick aggressively, but dominantly?

Not even if she has a finger up your butt while she does it…

I dont see it.[/quote]

Even if she has your sack in her hand?

[quote]Testy1 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

And I would say only certian types of BJ’s are acts of submission…[/quote]

Really?

I mean, you could suck a dick aggressively, but dominantly?

Not even if she has a finger up your butt while she does it…

I dont see it.[/quote]

Even if she has your sack in her hand?
[/quote]

Would that not just be more aggressive?

Alright, look, maybe if you are tied to a cross,wear a rubber mask and a butt plug, I am not saying it cannot be done, but this is not the default situation.

Edit: for me it isnt, I dont know how other people handle this.

[quote]orion wrote:

But arent there a lot of women that refuse to do it because it is “demeaning”?

[/quote]

Hense my initial post here…

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

Do you even think about the psych of it when you do?

[/quote]

Um no.

But we are men, and there is a vagina in front of you… Not much time to think about the social or psych angles of the situation…

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

But arent there a lot of women that refuse to do it because it is “demeaning”?

[/quote]

Hense my initial post here…

[/quote]

Yeah, but you are ignoring that there is a underlying hardwired reason for this.

I would also not want this to go away, or sanitized in an I am ok, you are ok kind of way.

Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get.

[quote]Cortes wrote:

[quote]bond james bond wrote:

[quote]Cortes wrote:
No. Seriously.

What the hell is wrong with curling? [/quote]

I’ll make it clear, this is what’s wrong with curling. It’s on ice (it has that going for it) but there is no puck, no stick, no goalie, no shooting, no skating, no hitting, no fighting.

But there is copious amounts of booze consumed from my understanding which is good. [/quote]

Have you ever played shuffleboard?

[/quote]

Yep. I wonder if there is a single hot chick who plays shuffleboard, doubt it.

[quote]orion wrote:

Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get. [/quote]

Lol, these two things aren’t mutually exclusive man.

[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Maybe, maybe not … but one thing I do know is there are some people who apparently think about blowjobs waaaaaaaay too much[/quote]

The blow jobs or cheese thread was pretty funny.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get. [/quote]

Lol, these two things aren’t mutually exclusive man.[/quote]

Yes, they are.

[quote]bond james bond wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Maybe, maybe not … but one thing I do know is there are some people who apparently think about blowjobs waaaaaaaay too much[/quote]

The blow jobs or cheese thread was pretty funny.
[/quote]

Was that the Auntie offered to make me a blojay one?

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bond james bond wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Maybe, maybe not … but one thing I do know is there are some people who apparently think about blowjobs waaaaaaaay too much[/quote]

The blow jobs or cheese thread was pretty funny.
[/quote]

Was that the Auntie offered to make me a blojay one?[/quote]

Blowjays or coffee?

Congrats to Yolo, it took the thread about 10 posts to go from you to the act of submitting to a big black cock.

I guess people subconsciously made the connection.

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get. [/quote]

Lol, these two things aren’t mutually exclusive man.[/quote]

Yes, they are. [/quote]

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding isn’t even enjoyable unless you are emotional clean.

Unless our ideas of emotionally clean are vastly different.

[quote]bond james bond wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]bond james bond wrote:

[quote]polo77j wrote:

[quote]Derek542 wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:
Barring hygiene issues what she is really saying that she will submitt to big, alpha, but not to you.

No.[/quote]
Meh some like it some dont.

Some men like to eat pussy some dont.

Not everything is about psych issues[/quote]

Maybe, maybe not … but one thing I do know is there are some people who apparently think about blowjobs waaaaaaaay too much[/quote]

The blow jobs or cheese thread was pretty funny.
[/quote]

Was that the Auntie offered to make me a blojay one?[/quote]

Blowjays or coffee?
[/quote]

It was the “I feel pretty guilty” thread in SAMA.

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

[quote]countingbeans wrote:

[quote]orion wrote:

Sanitized, emotionally safe sex is not worth the effort.

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding are part of the dance between man and woman, in fact it is the core of it and people who whitewash it and put a picket fence around it deserve the save, clean, proper sex they get. [/quote]

Lol, these two things aren’t mutually exclusive man.[/quote]

Yes, they are. [/quote]

Dominance, submission, conquering and yielding isn’t even enjoyable unless you are emotional clean.

Unless our ideas of emotionally clean are vastly different. [/quote]

Instead of “emotionally safe,” maybe he should have said “egalitarian.”