Did you at least eat your weight in fruit/street food? 
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It was more jealousy than making fun. But yeah. Apparently guys like to be fed and get blow jobs.
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But ONE YEAR? I still canāt wrap my head around it lol.
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To be clear I still put out.occasionally during that time. Iām not a total douche.
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Just axle. Just like ābarbellā vs ābarbell barā
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I confess I received my first email with āmy pronouns areā this morning, and Iām unsure what to do with this information.
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Whilst I respect your choice of pronoun I converse with upto 500 people a month. Youāll be lucky if I remember your name. Let alone your choice of pronoun.
If we meet in person can I recommend you wear a āpronounā tag to remind me of your preference. Because I will not remember.
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How does this work? Is it a list or something? I donāt think Iāll ever see an email like this in my lifetime over here. Seriously just curious.
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@carlbm Iām going to call them by their name, because thatās how I talk to people. I donāt understand why the sentence was needed. If Iām reduced to calling someone Iām familiar with by their pronoun, I figure the respect has already gone.
@dt79 itās not something Iāve come across before either, itās just one sentence after the contact details with āmy pronouns are they/themā. I have no clue how it works or what Iām supposed to do with that information, honestly, so I canāt help you there.
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I tend to go with ābuddyā or āsugar titsā
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What about how you address them? Like Mr/mrs? Is that specified?
As a native San Diegan, āDudeā is the superior all purpose gender neutral pronoun.
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If any country letās me assume the title of āLordā and forces people to address me by that, Iām moving there right now.
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You gotta make the most of it. Like waiting until there is someone at the bananas then going over and picking up a single banana (bonus points for selecting an oversized one), making a weird sound when you grab it and then making eye contact.
Remember when there people used to say the fruit section was the best place to attract a mate? Lol
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I called a trans woman (man?) him infront of them. Corrected myself, apologised and moved on. Pronouns are harder than you think, even when they are staring you in the face.
I think one can used to it. The onus should, however, currently be on them to politely correct you if you get it wrong since itās not reasonable for us to get accustomed to such a change in the norm this fast. It has to be gradual.
Which is why I shall politely correctly you if you fail to call me Lord dt79. After 3 months of this shit, Iām calling the PC police if you still get it wrong.
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I think this sums it up perfectly:
What you want to be call is fine. I really dont care. But if someone with a beard asks me to call them āherā - I will fuck that up. I just will. At least a few times.
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Kept thinking I replied to this but I never did. Thanks dude! And smore was my favorite as a kid: great to see them sold in 2 packs. Choice was between that and strawberry, and the latter is an abomination.
A Darden follower has challenged the Thib army.
Are we on the verge of a cult war?
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Throw in the 5/3/1 crew and make it a fucking partyā¦
Real simpleā¦ each group present a handful of representatives. The ones with the most who are the biggest strongest and most jacked wins.
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