[quote]RampantBadger wrote:
Hey.
Is this a relationship or just college ‘dating’/hooking up?
Would you say you have great connection with her or just a good time?[/quote]
Started off as hook up…we have a great connection when she’s not intoxicated[/quote]
Then definitely keep her around, having a girl you have a real connection with and YOU are physically attracted to means you’re batting well above average. I’d take her to the gym with you one day a week and tell her to cut back on the drinking.
Worst case scenario pull some ‘trophy’ ass once in a while when out on a boys night to shut up your friends.
You’re starting your second year? -Personally I would go steady with her for a few months and focus on studying hard and then evaluate.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Then again, she might go, end up really hot, and leave him for someone else…[/quote]
This is a very good point. Hot chicks have way more options than guys have. If she loses some bodyfat and gets some muscle, you’re in trouble, hobbs. You won’t have to worry about whether or not to date her because she’ll be gone.[/quote]
Good point.
Dumper now before she gets ripped and hot and cans your ass for being too small and flabby.
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Then again, she might go, end up really hot, and leave him for someone else…[/quote]
This is a very good point. Hot chicks have way more options than guys have. If she loses some bodyfat and gets some muscle, you’re in trouble, hobbs. You won’t have to worry about whether or not to date her because she’ll be gone.[/quote]
Good point.
Dump her now before she gets ripped and hot and cans your ass for being too small and flabby.[/quote]
[quote]LoRez wrote:
Then again, she might go, end up really hot, and leave him for someone else…[/quote]
This is a very good point. Hot chicks have way more options than guys have. If she loses some bodyfat and gets some muscle, you’re in trouble, hobbs. You won’t have to worry about whether or not to date her because she’ll be gone.[/quote]
Good point.
Dump her now before she gets ripped and hot and cans your ass for being too small and flabby.[/quote]
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[quote]RampantBadger wrote:
Hey.
Is this a relationship or just college ‘dating’/hooking up?
Would you say you have great connection with her or just a good time?[/quote]
Started off as hook up…we have a great connection when she’s not intoxicated[/quote]
Then definitely keep her around, having a girl you have a real connection with and YOU are physically attracted to means you’re batting well above average. I’d take her to the gym with you one day a week and tell her to cut back on the drinking.
Worst case scenario pull some ‘trophy’ ass once in a while when out on a boys night to shut up your friends.
You’re starting your second year? -Personally I would go steady with her for a few months and focus on studying hard and then evaluate.[/quote]
Yes second year, don’t get me wrong I like to have a good time too but her idea of “fun” is to crazy for me
[quote]chobbs wrote:
Yes second year, don’t get me wrong I like to have a good time too but her idea of “fun” is to crazy for me[/quote]
Now that’s a different story. Care to elaborate?[/quote]
I might have a few beers on maybe 1-2 Tuesday nights per month and drink on Saturday night but other than that I don’t drink. Her and her group of friends like to get shitfaced…Tues/Wed/Thur/Friday/Saturday/Sunday. I honestly don’t know how they do it. When she goes into these drunken spurts allll she wants to do is be around me and I’m not even trying to get with any other girls so I just head home.
[quote]gregron wrote:
If you’re not physically attracted to someone then you’re not physically attracted to them. That’s part of life.
You need to be with someone who does it for you physically and emotionally. Ther is nothing wrong with that.[/quote]
stopped reading the thread at this point, I can’t agree more. It’s painful to date someone you just want to be friends with
[quote]gregron wrote:
If you’re not physically attracted to someone then you’re not physically attracted to them. That’s part of life.
You need to be with someone who does it for you physically and emotionally. Ther is nothing wrong with that.[/quote]
stopped reading the thread at this point, I can’t agree more. It’s painful to date someone you just want to be friends with[/quote]
I also agree.
Since lifting is a big part of your life, maybe you can slowly introduce her to the fitness and nutrition world. If you are willing to put the time it takes to ease her in instead of sending her the “I think you’re fat” message.
Thanks for everything guys, I cut her off. Someone said on here “would you rather take a bullet to the head or 5 to the leg an bleed to death” so I applied it to the situation lol
[quote]gregron wrote:
If you’re not physically attracted to someone then you’re not physically attracted to them. That’s part of life.
You need to be with someone who does it for you physically and emotionally. Ther is nothing wrong with that.[/quote]
That’s what I keep telling myself…we clicked emotionally just not 100% physically for me[/quote]
Are you attracted to her, but worried that your friends might think less of you given that you didn’t pull a thinner chick?[/quote]
Honestly, yes[/quote]
I mean this in the nicest way possible. Grow the fuck up. So you are actually attracted to her physically and emotionally but afraid of what your friends will say? If she is not the right person break up with her so she can be with the right person. If she is the right person do not let her get away.
