if she likes it in the pooper shes a keeper…
Slip her some anvar, clen and maybe small doses of test.
She’ll be attractive in no time!
Dude…
As someone who’s dating a busty woman himself: deal with it. In one way or another. You like her emotionally but you’re embarrassed by her looks - just figure out which one is more important to you. Then own that. If you’re the guy who’s willing to chuck a girl with a heart of gold because she has a few pounds to lose, you’re an idiot IMO. But at least OWN your decision to be one.
[quote]chobbs wrote:
It can’t be discussed lol[/quote]
Half the info gets half the advice.
Here it is:
It’s blatantly obvious that you should…
Hope that helped.
Op are you really that insecure ?
If you care so much about what others think then take out the biggest loan you can, and go buy the nicest car with that loan. Then do a few cycles and get your biceps as huge as fucking possible (fuck legs, nobody sees them when you’re in your sweet Audi). Then go find a blond idiot of a bimbo and convince her to stuff her chest full of silicone, remember she HAS to be blonde. Also invest in some lifts and a pair of timberlands if you are not already well over 6 ft
Just remind yourself that your friends opinions are more important than your own
This is the path to true happiness that you could never trek with that girl who has a great head on her shoulders
[quote]Varqanir wrote:
[quote]chobbs wrote:
[quote]csulli wrote:
[quote]chobbs wrote:
[quote]gregron wrote:
If you’re not physically attracted to someone then you’re not physically attracted to them. That’s part of life.
You need to be with someone who does it for you physically and emotionally. Ther is nothing wrong with that.[/quote]
That’s what I keep telling myself…we clicked emotionally just not 100% physically for me[/quote]
Are you attracted to her, but worried that your friends might think less of you given that you didn’t pull a thinner chick?[/quote]
Honestly, yes[/quote]
So this girl is, what? Physically incapable of becoming thin through diet and exercise? You are on a fitness and sport supplement website, whose reason for existence is to help people transform their bodies into what they want them to look like.
Is this girl worth helping to transform? Is she willing to undergo such a transformation? Are you willing to help her?
If your answer is yes, then use the many terabytes of information contained on this site and get to work.
If your answer is no, then stop being a pussy and break up with her.
The end. [/quote]
Bingo.
And if she’s big now, she will only get bigger unless she changes her lifestyle.
When we were in college, when my best buddy would see a cute girl walking around campus who was a bit on the heavy side he would always say something like, “20 pounds from glory right there”.
So just to give us an idea… how many pounds from glory is your pretty young lass?
What the hell is wrong with kids these days. I would always take the one with more meat on the bones than the beef jerky girl.
Also if being with someone would make you happy, and there isnt anyting wrong with the girl(like her cheating/stealing etc) if you are worried what your friends will think you are either incredibly insecure or dont have real friends. Find out which one it is and fix it and then have fun hog hunting.
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved.
[quote]csulli wrote:
When we were in college, when my best buddy would see a cute girl walking around campus who was a bit on the heavy side he would always say something like, “20 pounds from glory right there”.
So just to give us an idea… how many pounds from glory is your pretty young lass?[/quote]
20ish
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved. [/quote]
But liftings MY time lol
[quote]chobbs wrote:
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved. [/quote]
But liftings MY time lol[/quote]
Just wear headphones. Tell her that she is there to spot you and lift. No talking is necessary (unless its advice on a lift). I guess I found out my girl was a keeper when she said she was fine with that. She understands I get moody if she fucks around or tries to talk to me about her day at the gym.
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved. [/quote]
My wife used to lift with me, but she joined another gym with zumba classes and she also lifts there. She’s heavy, but very strong. I wouldn’t swap her for anyone else.
Rob
[quote]beachguy498 wrote:
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved. [/quote]
My wife used to lift with me, but she joined another gym with zumba classes and she also lifts there. She’s heavy, but very strong. I wouldn’t swap her for anyone else.
Rob[/quote]
Would not trade my girlfriend for anyone either. She is the best workout partner I have had. Plus she makes me my protein shakes when we get home. As far as I see it that is a win.
[quote]chobbs wrote:
[quote]GrizzlyBerg wrote:
Just get her to lift with you. That is what I did with my girlfriend. My girl was not fat by any means to begin with but was slightly chubby (worth it because of her tits). I got her to start lifting with me (just tell her you want to include her in something that means a lot to you) and now she is very fit (still with big tits). Problem solved. [/quote]
But liftings MY time lol[/quote]
Sounds like you are too immature for this chick Chobbs. You already fucked her over and at this point are airing your displeasure with her phyiscal appearance on a website. Your carbon footprint is now fucked. Let her go for her sake. Sounds like you are just using her for a familiar and comfortable wet hole.
[quote]nighthawkz wrote:
Dude…
As someone who’s dating a busty woman himself: deal with it. In one way or another. You like her emotionally but you’re embarrassed by her looks - just figure out which one is more important to you. Then own that. If you’re the guy who’s willing to chuck a girl with a heart of gold because she has a few pounds to lose, you’re an idiot IMO. But at least OWN your decision to be one.[/quote]
Exactly this. A girls personality, attitude, and how she treats people is far higher on the list than looks. (Not saying that looks don’t matter, but fucking hell.)
Everyone’s looks fade eventually.
Honestly, if you are attracted to a chick that you click with emotionally and the sole hang up with your relationship is you being worried about what your friends think, then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship because that shows some huge insecurities.
Dudes that have that I need a hot chick on my arm to show people how cool I am are lacking some serious self confidence usually. I disagree with Varq and Cap, you need to change yourself before you worry about trying to change her. Especially if the reason you are trying to change her is to impress your friends.
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Honestly, if you are attracted to a chick that you click with emotionally and the sole hang up with your relationship is you being worried about what your friends think, then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship because that shows some huge insecurities.
Dudes that have that I need a hot chick on my arm to show people how cool I am are lacking some serious self confidence usually. I disagree with Varq and Cap, you need to change yourself before you worry about trying to change her. Especially if the reason you are trying to change her is to impress your friends. [/quote]
X10000
[quote]Bauber wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Honestly, if you are attracted to a chick that you click with emotionally and the sole hang up with your relationship is you being worried about what your friends think, then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship because that shows some huge insecurities.
Dudes that have that I need a hot chick on my arm to show people how cool I am are lacking some serious self confidence usually. I disagree with Varq and Cap, you need to change yourself before you worry about trying to change her. Especially if the reason you are trying to change her is to impress your friends. [/quote]
X10000[/quote]
X2. Which makes it 20000 for the record
[quote]Bauber wrote:
[quote]jbpick86 wrote:
Honestly, if you are attracted to a chick that you click with emotionally and the sole hang up with your relationship is you being worried about what your friends think, then you probably aren’t ready for a relationship because that shows some huge insecurities.
Dudes that have that I need a hot chick on my arm to show people how cool I am are lacking some serious self confidence usually. I disagree with Varq and Cap, you need to change yourself before you worry about trying to change her. Especially if the reason you are trying to change her is to impress your friends. [/quote]
X10000[/quote]
Plus if your friends are worth a damn they won’t give a shit what she looks like. As long as she is cool with them they should accept her.