[quote]LoRez wrote:
Weird debate.
Learning how to do something and becoming better at it is very manly. Doesn’t really matter what it is, fashion or anything else.
Knowing how to present yourself, behave, dress, whatever, in order to reach certain goals and get better results out of life – including getting laid on the regular… still manly.
Just because society dictates you learn how to spell and use proper grammar doesn’t make you a ‘bitch’ or a ‘puppet’. It’s no different with changing the way you appear to others. You’re not conforming because you’re a bitch, you’re meeting certain standards because you get something out of it.[/quote]
I got a lot of help fashion-wise early on from girlfriends and I appreciate it to this day, but for what it’s worth the OP makes it sound less like constructive advice and more like her putting him down/bossing him around which isn’t cool. I think it’s a lot manlier to figure out you’re own look and wear what you want with confidence than to worry about whether you’re cool enough.


